Talking (81)
Elegsabiff: I'm a talker. (I know, big surprise). My vote would always be #6 but it does take two, one talking and one listening, and they should take turns.
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
For my part, i should distinquish first between mere talking and arguing, in which the later could boil out into something of a heated argument to justify one's side, in this case, i think talking more further could no longer be advisable, one should be wise enough to put an end to such argumentations, and settle when things get calm enough,, whereas in talking, though it depends to whom your are talking to and the things to talk about, for members within the family it is important that there's a communication, and among other people, well, we can get into or evade, that depends, as i say on the person in front of you, and how that particular person is to your eyes.
Elegsabiff: I'm a talker. (I know, big surprise). My vote would always be #6 but it does take two, one talking and one listening, and they should take turns.
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
I expected this thread to take off but maybe you've made people think rather than post the first thing that came into their heads... Btw, I'm more of a listener than a talker, it's the only way you learn.
allthegoodnamest: I expected this thread to take off but maybe you've made people think rather than post the first thing that came into their heads... Btw, I'm more of a listener than a talker, it's the only way you learn.
HELLO big ears....hows your friend Noddy.......
allthegoodnamest: I expected this thread to take off but maybe you've made people think rather than post the first thing that came into their heads... Btw, I'm more of a listener than a talker, it's the only way you learn.
Talking isn't the only way you learn...watching, imitating and doing are also ways we learn
truheart1941: HELLO big ears....hows your friend Noddy.......
Hey pete.... I see you've been mixing those painkillers with alcohol again.
How's things matey?
I am not a good 'between the lines' listener.
There are some people who are naturally good at that, and pick up on nuances, and the unspoken word.
I need the spoken word. I am too black and white to go searching in the grey.
I always warn people to just say the words, because otherwise they won't be heard.
That can be very difficult for the 'between the line' people. They still expect you to understand as they do.
There are some people who are naturally good at that, and pick up on nuances, and the unspoken word.
I need the spoken word. I am too black and white to go searching in the grey.
I always warn people to just say the words, because otherwise they won't be heard.
That can be very difficult for the 'between the line' people. They still expect you to understand as they do.
Catibrae: Talking isn't the only way you learn...watching, imitating and doing are also ways we learn
In that case, I've learn nothing recently
the doing thing sounds interesting
How are you gorgeous ?
mollybaby: See, plain and simple language
You didn't say ok in plain and simple language?
tomcatwarne: You didn't say ok in plain and simple language?
Here is plain and simple language
No
allthegoodnamest: In that case, I've learn nothing recently the doing thing sounds interesting
How are you gorgeous ?
How are you gorgeous ?
Hey my honey pot
Am good thanks for askingHmmmm doing is more interesting than talking
mollybaby: Here is plain and simple language No
Teaser, take note guys.
mollybaby: I am not a good 'between the lines' listener.
There are some people who are naturally good at that, and pick up on nuances, and the unspoken word.
I need the spoken word. I am too black and white to go searching in the grey.
I always warn people to just say the words, because otherwise they won't be heard.
That can be very difficult for the 'between the line' people. They still expect you to understand as they do.
drop em......There are some people who are naturally good at that, and pick up on nuances, and the unspoken word.
I need the spoken word. I am too black and white to go searching in the grey.
I always warn people to just say the words, because otherwise they won't be heard.
That can be very difficult for the 'between the line' people. They still expect you to understand as they do.
mollybaby: Here is plain and simple language No
Look at that, twice in 2 days you've been turned down
truheart1941: drop em......
I am holding a cup of hot tea
I have no intention of dropping it
truheart1941: drop em......
ucking tart
Catibrae: Hey my honey pot Am good thanks for asking
Hmmmm doing is more interesting than talking
Hmmmm doing is more interesting than talking
Now your talking my language.. Maybe we can learn from each other
Catibrae: Look at that, twice in 2 days you've been turned down
touch yer toes........ truheart1941: touch yer toes........
allthegoodnamest: Now your talking my language.. Maybe we can learn from each other
Awwwww, if only we were closer truheart1941: touch yer toes........
You first sugar plum
Catibrae: Awwwww, if only we were closer
69.... Catibrae: Look at that, twice in 2 days you've been turned down
I only turned her down once for dirty knickers
truheart1941: 69....
69 what, miles Catibrae: 69 what, miles
No, seconds
tomcatwarne: I only turned her down once for dirty knickers
Hi Molly
allthegoodnamest: No, seconds
are you that quick Catibrae: are you that quick
Only on a slow day yes, but I can go quicker if you're in a rush.
allthegoodnamest: Only on a slow day yes, but I can go quicker if you're in a rush.
NEXT !!! Catibrae: NEXT !!!
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