Talking (81)
allthegoodnamest: nite nite sweetheart
Good night honey
Catibrae: Hi Molly
Hi Cat
tomcatwarne: would she be so brave IRL??
Are you referring to me tomcat
I'm a #2 mean what you say and say what you mean kind person.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
Ccincy: I'm a #2 mean what you say and say what you mean kind person.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
well said Ccincy.
Ccincy: I'm a #2 mean what you say and say what you mean kind person.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
Never could tolerate mind games I consider them childish.
agreed - that kind of stuff makes me head for the exit .. lol
I talk the hind leg off a donkey, however, in a personal situation I keep Stum in the hope the problem will go away or resolve itself.
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
Catibrae: Actions speak louder than words
I do agree Catibrae
For instance, when you are talking to somebody meanwhile he or she is facing the computer
Solamente: I talk the hind leg off a donkey, however, in a personal situation I keep Stum in the hope the problem will go away or resolve itself.
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
Hello Solemente, I agree that often given a little time most small problems do tend to resolve themselves. if they don't though, it may be time to talk. I do think both parties must be willing to have the conversation. Otherwise it is a waste of everyone's time.
Solamente: I talk the hind leg off a donkey, however, in a personal situation I keep Stum in the hope the problem will go away or resolve itself.
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
Its very easy for people say problems should be talked out, in reality it takes a lot of guts to do so, there are vulnerabilities and insecurities to overcome, anger management is needed, emotions are rife, etc, etc.
It would probably be better if one person sat in the lounge and the other in the kitchen and send texts to each other explaining how pissed off they are with that person. We all feel safer behind a keyboard and can express ourselves better in type as we have a moment to think about what we want to say.... Just an idea
@ the texting idea.I'd have to disagree. I think it'd be best if we threw all modern technology out the window and started from scratch.
I'm not big on small-talk. I mean there's only so much we can say about the weather...
I generally "go with the flow"....jump in if I feel I have something to say. Listening is more difficult, because we are all in so much of a hurry to mentally prepare our words of wisdom/wit/humour in response.
....but many a text message I've minsinterpreted because we don't have the visual cues....eg...body language/gestures.
I say, let's get back to basics of communicating, face-to-face.
BerrySmoothie: @ the texting idea.
I'd have to disagree. I think it'd be best if we threw all modern technology out the window and started from scratch.
I'm not big on small-talk. I mean there's only so much we can say about the weather...
I generally "go with the flow"....jump in if I feel I have something to say. Listening is more difficult, because we are all in so much of a hurry to mentally prepare our words of wisdom/wit/humour in response.
....but many a text message I've minsinterpreted because we don't have the visual cues....eg...body language/gestures.
I say, let's get back to basics of communicating, face-to-face.
belly to belly.......I'd have to disagree. I think it'd be best if we threw all modern technology out the window and started from scratch.
I'm not big on small-talk. I mean there's only so much we can say about the weather...
I generally "go with the flow"....jump in if I feel I have something to say. Listening is more difficult, because we are all in so much of a hurry to mentally prepare our words of wisdom/wit/humour in response.
....but many a text message I've minsinterpreted because we don't have the visual cues....eg...body language/gestures.
I say, let's get back to basics of communicating, face-to-face.
truheart1941: belly to belly.......
toe-to-toe.....
BerrySmoothie: toe-to-toe.....
Naaaaaai,m only small..toe/toe...be looking at your knee caps....... truheart1941: Naaaaaai,m only small..toe/toe...be looking at your knee caps.......
I had to go looksie....you're the same height as me....perfect for eye-balling one another.....
BerrySmoothie: I had to go looksie....you're the same height as me....perfect for eye-balling one another.....
I see you're one of the not looking berry
tomcatwarne: I see you're one of the not looking berry
Yep, Tom....single and busy, "too much on my plate", but lonely as, for intimacy.
I dream a lot....
BerrySmoothie: I think I'm safe.....geographically....
Some one as lovely as you is never safe
tomcatwarne: Some one as lovely as you is never safe
Thank you for the compliment...
...but don't worry about me. I can more than take care of myself....
Finally off to get some zzzzzzzzzzzz
It's the wee hours of the morning over here...gotta be up again soon.
Nite
BerrySmoothie: Thank you for the compliment...
...but don't worry about me. I can more than take care of myself....
Finally off to get some zzzzzzzzzzzz
It's the wee hours of the morning over here...gotta be up again soon.
Nite
...but don't worry about me. I can more than take care of myself....
Finally off to get some zzzzzzzzzzzz
It's the wee hours of the morning over here...gotta be up again soon.
Nite
Nite.
Elegsabiff: I'm a talker. (I know, big surprise). My vote would always be #6 but it does take two, one talking and one listening, and they should take turns.
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
Do you talk, or shut up and wait for things to sort out? Bottle things up until what comes out is a shout? Make every word count? Quietly walk away?
Do you listen?
Will you talk on this poll for the sake of talking (yes please) wait until you have something worth saying (oh, okay), or just watch until you get bored? (boo)
Talkers are fun to begin with but irritating after a while. Being accessible and broad makes them entertaining, but the same makes them not very stimulating. They're a bit like watching daytime tele.
Reserved people are not as accessible, but they're sometimes like the Bible or deciphering the control panel for a new boiler, very difficult to get into, but once you're in there's so much to explore. They also tend to lead less shambolic personal lives(maybe being less open means you rely on yourself)so I don't know if talking really does solve everything.
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would she be so brave IRL??