speaking for myself, i've had my tatts so long that i don't even notice them. although tatts are voluntary and scars aren't, the longer you know someone the less the outward appearance matters. if a man chooses to eliminate a woman because of tatts is doing the woman a favor. judgement starts with the visual.
Well, I have always struggled to understand as to why any man or woman would ever want to receive pain willingly (getting tattoos is painful, isn't it?) on their bodies
cryptorchid: a tatt is temporary pain with long term results. i don't understand why a woman would wax. it's temporary and hurts like hell
That's exactly what i have been told, Crypto. When I was living in the USA, I have seen some otherwise very "respectable" and "smart" women getting tattoos because they want to try something "new" in their lives, or just because their so-called boy friends had "dropped" them. Would I be wrong to suggest only those people with "low self-esteem" get tattoos?
cryptorchid: people have different aesthetics. some men like a bare pu**y. women wax their pu**y. it hurts like hell. maybe some wax to please men. would you say they also have low self esteem?
oh..wow....I wasn't exactly prepared to answer such a question, but i would never suggest that it is a sign of low self-esteem if they do it to keep themselves "clean", and there is nothing wrong to keep our body clean and hygenic. Now, i don't know if having tattoos has anything to do with keeping "clean".
Its just the fashion to have them these days. At least it's not a man covered in tribal tattoos, the equivalent of waxing your chest hair and drawing it back on with a pen.
mnowsa: I guess, all i was suggesting is that women can use "waxing" not to make their men happy but to just keep themselves "clean" because keeping ourselves clean is always a good thing :)
that is to suggest we shave our heads to keep our scalp clean, sunburn be damned
cryptorchid: that is to suggest we shave our heads to keep our scalp clean, sunburn be damned
Lol.....are you trying to argue with me just for the sake of some "arguments", Crypto? Come on, you also know that shaving head and shaving the hairs of our private parts aren't exactly the same thing, don't you?
I like your directness crypt getting to the point and saying it as you see it
With regards to your comment...regarding women waxing their privates for men in their lives...I am very doubtful...this happens very often...with modern women and a man would be lucky to get a woman to do the washing up or make a sandwich...with all this feminist stuff in a woman's mind
I think women waxing privates is by choice...but think men shaving faces...is cause the majority of women...prefer a man clean shaven and it maybe gives a man a better chance of getting a woman
I still have a big bushy beard....but just cut my hair...cause it's too warm
mnowsa: Lol.....are you trying to argue with me just for the sake of some "arguments", Crypto? Come on, you also know that shaving head and shaving the hairs of our private parts aren't exactly the same thing, don't you?
this is a discussion. i'm simply saying that a tatt is an exterior modification not any different than painful waxing. it's all about appearance. if men like it, great. if not, great. i'm not interested in men with hangups and double standards
LeeCharming: I like your directness crypt getting to the point and saying it as you see it
With regards to your comment...regarding women waxing their privates for men in their lives...I am very doubtful...this happens very often...with modern women and a man would be lucky to get a woman to do the washing up or make a sandwich...with all this feminist stuff in a woman's mind
I think women waxing privates is by choice...but think men shaving faces...is cause the majority of women...prefer a man clean shaven and it maybe gives a man a better chance of getting a woman
I still have a big bushy beard....but just cut my hair...cause it's too warm
LeeCharming: I like your directness crypt getting to the point and saying it as you see it
With regards to your comment...regarding women waxing their privates for men in their lives...I am very doubtful...this happens very often...with modern women and a man would be lucky to get a woman to do the washing up or make a sandwich...with all this feminist stuff in a woman's mind
I think women waxing privates is by choice...but think men shaving faces...is cause the majority of women...prefer a man clean shaven and it maybe gives a man a better chance of getting a woman
I still have a big bushy beard....but just cut my hair...cause it's too warm
Aaaa....if i may make some correction here, but if you see the result of many surveys or researches, women in general actually find men with beard more attractive than men with no beard.
mnowsa: Aaaa....if i may make some correction here, but if you see the result of many surveys or researches, women in general actually find men with beard more attractive than men with no beard.
i would be delighted if they suddenly did...but i still think bearded men...are mostly invisible to women and maybe some just want to be left alone you can't be put in the friends zone...if your not playing the game and not trying to conform to what women want you to be
LeeCharming: i would be delighted if they suddenly did...but i still think bearded men...are mostly invisible to women and maybe some just want to be left alone you can't be put in the friends zone...if your not playing the game and not trying to conform to what women want you to be
If it makes you feel good, here is a link for you to read, Lee
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