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Jan 9, 2009 4:17 PM CSTWhat do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel, Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts

What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship(Vote Below)

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Seeking attractiveness
1
1%
Seeking age
0
0%
Seeking educated
1
1%
Seeking compatibility in interests
32
41%
Seeking that certain feeling on first sight
10
13%
Seeking emotional security
10
13%
Seeking financial security
10
13%
Seeking security for your child/children if single
0
0%
Seeking marriage
10
13%
Never really considered any of those things
5
6%
Total Votes
79
This poll is quite simple and it concerns what a person looks when seeking a partner. Ok seeking a partner can be broken down in to two general categories as follows.

1: Man seeking a woman.
2: Woman seeking a man
3: People seeking short term relationship
4: people seeking long term relationship

Well this poll is for woman seeking a man for long term relationship (men will get their chance on the next poll.
Please take time to think about the questions, because it’s nice for other visitors to see & perhaps may be helpful for their searching. Thank you for taking part and all take care.

Please also feel free to leave a message if your answer was not listed above.
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Jan 9, 2009 4:45 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
My prime consideration in looking online was to seek within my area to find someone with compatible interests since I can't seem to find them in person.

What I found were a bunch of friends and acquaintances that I love chatting with and sharing ideas and feelings with...and some very special friends that are like family to me. I also found one very special person slightly outside of my area that I hope to have a lot more with soon.

wine rose
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Jan 9, 2009 6:33 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
I said marriage.Not to rush it or do it for the sake of simply bieng married.However if things go well and we are both commited to one another sharing love,like,respect and more,then I want to take the vows I believe in so deeply.
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Jan 9, 2009 6:36 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Beethovenfan
BeethovenfanBeethovenfanWest County St. Louis, Missouri USA6 Threads 219 Posts
I would like the companionship....I have been married twice....I am use to a man around, but he has to be the right one...
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Jan 9, 2009 6:38 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
coolieno1
coolieno1coolieno1point fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago96 Threads 546 Posts
dunno
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Jan 9, 2009 7:05 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
Hi druidess6308 ty for your comments. It's also nice having friends that you can call family, and good in general always brings good. All the best with your new friend for the future.wine
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Jan 9, 2009 7:14 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
A big hello nomindgames.

Two nice little words used there… respect & commitment, and the only question you need to ask yourself is what he would be basing that on, because you know what you would be basing it on. Bottom line is you can both have respect and commitment, but are they based on the same value system.
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Jan 9, 2009 7:22 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
Beethovenfan: I would like the companionship....I have been married twice....I am use to a man around, but he has to be the right one...


Big welcome Beethovenfan. Well perhaps companionship can have just as greater value than a marriage, and there really is just a thin line between the both. Wishing you the best for the future. wine
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Jan 9, 2009 7:28 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
fireeater
fireeaterfireeaterScarborough, Ontario Canada17 Posts
The right woman. dancing
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Jan 9, 2009 8:05 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
fireeater: The right woman.


Hi Fireeater a fair statement you make, but the right woman is generally based according to the needs of the one seeking. Whereas the one being sought may not see herself as the right person for those needs.
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Jan 10, 2009 6:45 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
fireeater
fireeaterfireeaterScarborough, Ontario Canada17 Posts
Thrak: Hi Fireeater a fair statement you make, but the right woman is generally based according to the needs of the one seeking. Whereas the one being sought may not see herself as the right person for those needs.



Correct for a statement in general.

But the right one for me is the one who does. head banger
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Jan 10, 2009 7:11 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
sexielady
sexieladysexieladysomewhere in FL, Florida USA4 Threads 273 Posts
For me the lyrics from the song that Nickelback sings says it all.

"This time, I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life, the one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough

So I'll be waiting for the real thing, I'll know it by the feeling
The moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene
Straight off the silver screen
So I'll be holding my own breath, right up 'til the end
Until that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that"


rose
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Jan 10, 2009 7:49 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
For me, no, he doesn't have to be Orlando Bloom.....

A kind heart
Intellect
Sense of humour
Respect
That would do it for me.... I reiterate, respect!!

Of course, the ability to stand upright, aka having a back-bone would be a definite bonus!!
smitten

grin
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Jan 10, 2009 9:06 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
What do woman look for......?????? And you don't know......!!!!!!?????? MONEY.......And don't forget,they are always the 'Victim'....!!!!!!! laugh rolling on the floor laughing grin peace John Dutchie
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Jan 10, 2009 9:10 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
roseofsharon: For me, no, he doesn't have to be Orlando Bloom.....

A kind heart
Intellect
Sense of humour
Respect
That would do it for me.... I reiterate, respect!!

Of course, the ability to stand upright, aka having a back-bone would be a definite bonus!!


Respect is essential Roseofsharon, but the problem is some can use that respect as a weakness. Real power lies in the hands of those that don’t use it, but unfortunately not everybody works by the rule. Have a nice day. wine
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Jan 10, 2009 9:41 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
roseofsharon: For me, no, he doesn't have to be Orlando Bloom.....

A kind heart
Intellect
Sense of humour
Respect
That would do it for me.... I reiterate, respect!!

Of course, the ability to stand upright,
aka having a back-bone would be a definite bonus!!


Guess that leaves out us "Old Guys" that need a walker or cane to keep our old bones somewhat upright..sigh

I wonder if I qualify for one of those scooter deals??confused

I wonder how one would go with a Harley engine in it??devil
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Jan 10, 2009 9:45 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
virgiomonkey: What do woman look for......?????? And you don't know......!!!!!!?????? MONEY.......And don't forget,they are always the 'Victim'....!!!!!!! John Dutchie


The tomato you get, is directly related to the lettuce you got..professor


uh oh


hole
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Jan 10, 2009 9:55 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
I chose compatibility and interest. We need something in common to have things to start a conversation about. I am a smoker so they would have to be able to deal with that. So when I look at a profile and they are not I read on to see if it is offensive to them. If it is I don't send a message or view again.

Some people like their space as I do too so that is important as well. Sure I like to spend special times with them but not every minute of the day. Nor do I want to explain if I am not at home when they call where I was. What I am saying is if I get off work and it takes me 30 minutes to get home. And if he calls and it has been 45 minutes, don't freak out. sigh
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Jan 10, 2009 10:40 PM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
popcorn
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Jan 11, 2009 6:39 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
HJFinAZ: The tomato you get, is directly related to the lettuce you got..


Greetings HJFinAZ, that is one El Perfecto quote you made, it will be placed in my wallet for safty.

As for the Harley walking frame then look no future than the Netherlands. Yes progressive to the core, and older people can equally be party animals. All thats required is to get your throat around the G's without spitting people in the face.wine
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Jan 11, 2009 6:52 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
Thrak
ThrakThrakZwolle, Overijssel Netherlands24 Threads 3 Polls 77 Posts
HI Shirley49WV. Perhaps some woman would like her man to be phoning her if she was a bit late, or perhaps the person being late just calling the other to say so. An act of thoughtfulness need not be read as an act of possessiveness.
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Jan 11, 2009 7:37 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
If I was ready for a long term relationship again I would want to have one which contained: The 3 C's, Communication,Compromise and Commitment.
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Jan 11, 2009 7:47 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
wit, woodies, and wet willies?
laugh laugh

(just teasing folks...)
hole
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Jan 11, 2009 7:49 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
zeelanderer
zeelandererzeelandererLouisville, Kentucky USA24 Threads 531 Posts
popcorn
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Jan 11, 2009 7:51 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
foot in mouth foot in mouth foot in mouth
Morning Zee!

wave
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Jan 11, 2009 7:51 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Hey zee watch out for whatyouwishfor she'll get cha
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Jan 11, 2009 7:52 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
WhatUwish4: wit, woodies, and wet willies?


(just teasing folks...)


2 ouf 3 ain't bad. tongue grin

Good morning Karen Kat. wave
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Jan 11, 2009 7:52 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
WhatUwish4: Morning Zee!

sorry mispelled your name Karen
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Jan 11, 2009 7:52 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
loverboy690: Hey zee watch out for whatyouwishfor she'll get cha


Stalker!
uh oh uh oh uh oh

grin
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Jan 11, 2009 7:53 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
dazzling_dave: 2 ouf 3 ain't bad.

Morning Davey Dog..


Good morning Karen Kat.
wave wave
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Jan 11, 2009 7:54 AM CST What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
WhatUwish4: Stalker!

No Karen just jumping around looking
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