Seeking security for your child/children if single
0
0%
Seeking marriage
10
13%
Never really considered any of those things
5
6%
Total Votes
79
This poll is quite simple and it concerns what a person looks when seeking a partner. Ok seeking a partner can be broken down in to two general categories as follows.
1: Man seeking a woman. 2: Woman seeking a man 3: People seeking short term relationship 4: people seeking long term relationship
Well this poll is for woman seeking a man for long term relationship (men will get their chance on the next poll. Please take time to think about the questions, because it’s nice for other visitors to see & perhaps may be helpful for their searching. Thank you for taking part and all take care.
Please also feel free to leave a message if your answer was not listed above.
My prime consideration in looking online was to seek within my area to find someone with compatible interests since I can't seem to find them in person.
What I found were a bunch of friends and acquaintances that I love chatting with and sharing ideas and feelings with...and some very special friends that are like family to me. I also found one very special person slightly outside of my area that I hope to have a lot more with soon.
I said marriage.Not to rush it or do it for the sake of simply bieng married.However if things go well and we are both commited to one another sharing love,like,respect and more,then I want to take the vows I believe in so deeply.
Hi druidess6308 ty for your comments. It's also nice having friends that you can call family, and good in general always brings good. All the best with your new friend for the future.
Two nice little words used there… respect & commitment, and the only question you need to ask yourself is what he would be basing that on, because you know what you would be basing it on. Bottom line is you can both have respect and commitment, but are they based on the same value system.
Beethovenfan: I would like the companionship....I have been married twice....I am use to a man around, but he has to be the right one...
Big welcome Beethovenfan. Well perhaps companionship can have just as greater value than a marriage, and there really is just a thin line between the both. Wishing you the best for the future.
Hi Fireeater a fair statement you make, but the right woman is generally based according to the needs of the one seeking. Whereas the one being sought may not see herself as the right person for those needs.
Thrak: Hi Fireeater a fair statement you make, but the right woman is generally based according to the needs of the one seeking. Whereas the one being sought may not see herself as the right person for those needs.
For me the lyrics from the song that Nickelback sings says it all.
"This time, I wonder what it feels like To find the one in this life, the one we all dream of But dreams just aren't enough
So I'll be waiting for the real thing, I'll know it by the feeling The moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene Straight off the silver screen So I'll be holding my own breath, right up 'til the end Until that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with
Cause nobody wants to be the last one there And everyone wants to feel like someone cares Someone to love with my life in their hands There's gotta be somebody for me like that"
What do woman look for......?????? And you don't know......!!!!!!?????? MONEY.......And don't forget,they are always the 'Victim'....!!!!!!! John Dutchie
roseofsharon: For me, no, he doesn't have to be Orlando Bloom.....
A kind heart Intellect Sense of humour Respect That would do it for me.... I reiterate, respect!!
Of course, the ability to stand upright, aka having a back-bone would be a definite bonus!!
Respect is essential Roseofsharon, but the problem is some can use that respect as a weakness. Real power lies in the hands of those that don’t use it, but unfortunately not everybody works by the rule. Have a nice day.
roseofsharon: For me, no, he doesn't have to be Orlando Bloom.....
A kind heart Intellect Sense of humour Respect That would do it for me.... I reiterate, respect!! Of course, the ability to stand upright, aka having a back-bone would be a definite bonus!!
Guess that leaves out us "Old Guys" that need a walker or cane to keep our old bones somewhat upright..
I wonder if I qualify for one of those scooter deals??
I wonder how one would go with a Harley engine in it??
virgiomonkey: What do woman look for......?????? And you don't know......!!!!!!?????? MONEY.......And don't forget,they are always the 'Victim'....!!!!!!! John Dutchie
The tomato you get, is directly related to the lettuce you got..
I chose compatibility and interest. We need something in common to have things to start a conversation about. I am a smoker so they would have to be able to deal with that. So when I look at a profile and they are not I read on to see if it is offensive to them. If it is I don't send a message or view again.
Some people like their space as I do too so that is important as well. Sure I like to spend special times with them but not every minute of the day. Nor do I want to explain if I am not at home when they call where I was. What I am saying is if I get off work and it takes me 30 minutes to get home. And if he calls and it has been 45 minutes, don't freak out.
HJFinAZ: The tomato you get, is directly related to the lettuce you got..
Greetings HJFinAZ, that is one El Perfecto quote you made, it will be placed in my wallet for safty.
As for the Harley walking frame then look no future than the Netherlands. Yes progressive to the core, and older people can equally be party animals. All thats required is to get your throat around the G's without spitting people in the face.
HI Shirley49WV. Perhaps some woman would like her man to be phoning her if she was a bit late, or perhaps the person being late just calling the other to say so. An act of thoughtfulness need not be read as an act of possessiveness.
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What do women look for when in search of a long term relationship(Vote Below)
1: Man seeking a woman.
2: Woman seeking a man
3: People seeking short term relationship
4: people seeking long term relationship
Well this poll is for woman seeking a man for long term relationship (men will get their chance on the next poll.
Please take time to think about the questions, because it’s nice for other visitors to see & perhaps may be helpful for their searching. Thank you for taking part and all take care.
Please also feel free to leave a message if your answer was not listed above.