have you ever chaeated on someone (52)

well never do it because it will come back home to you. if you cheat on the person you with it will come home to you and you will get cheated on

Not since I kissed somebody else when I was 15....

yes, I have. Not proud of it...but I have

No, if one is in a committed relationship of any kind, its truly cruel. At least have the decency to end one relationship before embarking upon a liaison with someone else...??!!

I am a one-man woman, if he's special enough to be with, he's special enough to remain faithfuly to, surely??!!

did once a long time ago i felt so guilty about it that i confessed to my boyfriend the next day and yeah at the time was only a teenager havent since and would neva would again cause later on i learnt how much it hurts someone.

Hi you.

It is cruel, yes, but it happens...

It does not enter my head to do it, I do not think about it and I never question whether my 'he' will.

We do not have to.

Yes, guilt is a terrible emotion, a large burden for us to carry.

Although I know a man that did fall foul to that, he came to me and told me, I was friend's with his wife and him. He had a one night stand and I watched him almost destroy himself over it...

I told him not to tell his wife, learn from it and go home and be with her.

She would not find out from me.

Does not make it right, certainly not, but I was not prepared to see that family destroyed over something that was best left to lie.

Hi nurcnurc

Oh, I need no applaud, but thank you.

It is something that I see alot, especially on forums, that people have been a victim of this.

People meet and fall in love, which is what happened to my ex husband with his lady, it was not easy for them, it was eaiser for me, because I had no idea, she was his assistant and they spent alot of time together.

I know the guilt she suffered, we have talked about it, when I found it, it was awful, I will never forget that pain, I found out from his boss. Her boss too.

We went for coffee, three months after, just her and I, and I know she was nervous, she was shaking, I looked at her and asked her ' Did you ever feel guilty when I walked in with my children to see him, knowing what was going on?'

'yes, she said, but I love him' I remember looking at her, thinking 'I actually liked you, and for the soul in me, I still did.

They are very happy, with their new child, and she is agreat stepmother to our children.

I loved him too, so I knew where she was coming from.

He did not leave me because she was better, in bed, or she was better looking, he left me, because he fell in love.

We were never in love, we got married young and had our children very quickly, I thought we were, but we were not.

Now, I am in love, for the first time, properly.

And now, I know what it feels like.

And if this all falls apart, I am much better tooled this time, to be able to deal with it.

Yes, people should not do that, should he have left me, when he realised he was in love with her? That would not have made it any easier.

The fact we had our co star involved in the play that was my marriage, was really irrelevant, what it taught us both that we should always be honest with our partners.

Prevention is always better than cure, but I see it like this now, I gained far more than I lost, not to mention the wonderful bonuses I gained from that marriage.

My children.

how cute all this