Would you date a man on here if he spills his problems within a few minutes? (20)
Only if he spills his personal problems and is hung like a horse!
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"It depends on who he is as a person and,the problems he is enduring.If there's a connection on both sides,than yes,I'd consider dating him."
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Polarbutterfly: "It depends on who he is as a person and,the problems he is enduring.If there's a connection on both sides,than yes,I'd consider dating him."
Ditto
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If his problem is how to spend his millions, I'm all ears 
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I would not date a man...PERIOD!!
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samanthasang: If his problem is how to spend his millions, I'm all ears
"Some", already know how..
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Why would this man wait so long to tell you his problems?
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Fallingman: Why would this man wait so long to tell you his problems?
maybe not to scare the girl off! 
Just a thought?
Your a man..tell me when would you tell a girl your relationship issues??? Is there a good time????
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Polarbutterfly: "Something huuuuuge...I hear ya!!."
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fireheart35: Just Curious....what you would do!
The "spilling his problems" so soon would be a red flag to me...So nope...If I was still single, I wouldn't date him...JMO
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no dont date some one that needs a mammy sholder to cry on it would be like jumping from the fring pan in to the fire. and i am a guy you nead some one out going and up beet
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The interesting thing is, if a guy waits till an "opportune time" to share his problems, and that "opportune time" doesn't come for months, then we are hiding something.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
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DazzleYou: The interesting thing is, if a guy waits till an "opportune time" to share his problems, and that "opportune time" doesn't come for months, then we are hiding something.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
I agree! True....getting it out before emotional attachment is the best!
What if a person feels that telling the other person when they know they want to be together and they feel safe to disclose past stories is better then right at the start ...is that wrong ?
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fireheart35: Just Curious....what you would do!
Depends on what the problems are. If he's a whinner no way would I date him.
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I can only speak for myself: I keep all my problems to myself till I get to know someone then it might come out in casual conversation. I don't have any real problems other then 1 health issue and I will only bring that up after awhile.
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DazzleYou: The interesting thing is, if a guy waits till an "opportune time" to share his problems, and that "opportune time" doesn't come for months, then we are hiding something.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
But getting the problems out in the open at the start is a more honest thing to do and may be a road block for them to let their guard down until they do share it and get the reaction.
I was going to say no, until I read this post, very good point Dazzle
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awsome quote
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I think it could be quite interesting really, if he opens his heart in such a way and all I see is bitterness and blaming others for his misfortune then no way would I date him - same way with if all I saw was self pity but ultimately, it could save me a lot of time in figuring out quite important aspects of his personality.........
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Created: Feb 2009
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