Have u ever think Marriage is a failure? ( Archived) (23)

Mar 25, 2009 8:33 AM CSTHave u ever think Marriage is a failure?
jashcd
jashcdjashcdhome, United Arab Emirates184 Threads 110 Polls 985 Posts

Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?(Vote Below)

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Greatest proof that marriage is not a failure is that widows and widowers are always anxious to try again ...

coz they like marriage then what happened there previous one .....grin

what u believe ..................
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Mar 25, 2009 8:40 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
jashcd: Greatest proof that marriage is not a failure is that widows and widowers are always anxious to try again ...

coz they like marriage then what happened there previous one .....

what u believe ..................



That's called DESPERATION and fear of loneliness. I think marriage is a scam. There is no room in my mind to even entertain the thought of marriage...this is just my opinion
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Apr 25, 2009 8:27 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
josuec85
josuec85josuec85Tallil, Iraq2 Threads 2 Polls 21 Posts
marriages that are failed are failed because the ones involved in that marriage either rushed into it or made one poor decision after another

i, for one, refuse to rush into marriage. i don't mind an engagement if i think it feels right but i wouldn't marry until i have lived with her for AT LEAST a year or more because what better way to find out if marriage is the right step to take than to live together because you never truly know a person until you live with them.


peace
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Apr 25, 2009 8:31 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
marriage isnt a failer its the problem of finding that right one to be married to, i was married to a violent nob which put me off marriage for life, some ppl are just lucky to find there life long match.
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Apr 25, 2009 10:00 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
Marriages fail when people get married without really knowing what they want... well, except for that fool I told you about who thought he was being really smart when he said in his prenup that his new wife must give him x number of bj's each year...dunno
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Apr 25, 2009 10:04 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
In response to: That's called DESPERATION and fear of loneliness. I think marriage is a scam. There is no room in my mind to even entertain the thought of marriage...this is just my opinion


I am not desperate, lonely or fear loneliness. Marriage is combining two people on a lovely journey. Marriage is perfect when the right people join together and work at making life better for the two of them.
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Apr 25, 2009 10:33 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
You 2 guys understand why I have a Realdoll.
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Apr 25, 2009 10:35 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Well its quite obvious that yep it isconversing

We are on a dating sitelaugh
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Apr 26, 2009 12:02 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
RicoWest: You 2 guys understand why I have a Realdoll.
laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing A MANS DREAM SHE CANT TALK BACK rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 26, 2009 6:17 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
I've always thought it's a failure.laugh
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Apr 26, 2009 8:57 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
jashcd: Greatest proof that marriage is not a failure is that widows and widowers are always anxious to try again ...

coz they like marriage then what happened there previous one .....

what u believe ..................



marriage is not a failure,this is a special and promising deal..but we didnt know what luck is waiting at the end..
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Apr 26, 2009 9:13 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
passion8
passion8passion8Shropshire, England UK3 Threads 158 Posts
jashcd: Greatest proof that marriage is not a failure is that widows and widowers are always anxious to try again ...

coz they like marriage then what happened there previous one .....

what u believe ..................


Well, this widow thinks that is a load of 'C_ _ P'.

I was widowed just a week after my wedding and was devastated to lose my husband. We had spent 5 great years together before deciding to marry (something we both said we would never do).
But marriage is a natural progression of a loving relationship and we married because we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.

I'm not eager to jump into another marriage, but if it happens, then so be it. It will happen for all the right reasons and not as a way of combating lonliness. (Why assume all widows/widowers are anxious to try again?!!)

For some reasons guys are terrified of dating a widow. Maybe, one day, I'll understand why.... Then you have the others, who assume that as you are a widow, you must be financially loaded, and am easy pickings.
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Apr 26, 2009 9:16 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Marriage is a fine institution. I simply don't wish to be instutitionalized again anytime soon. laugh
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Apr 26, 2009 9:18 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Sparky55: Marriage is a fine institution. I simply don't wish to be instutitionalized again anytime soon.
You beat me to it. I heard 'Cher' say it.head banger wave
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Apr 26, 2009 9:19 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Arlene101: You beat me to it. I heard 'Cher' say it.


Yeah, I just need to learn to spell it... laugh
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Apr 26, 2009 10:40 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
If two people wish to be married, then it is what you allow it to be.
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Apr 26, 2009 10:51 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
jashcd: Greatest proof that marriage is not a failure is that widows and widowers are always anxious to try again ...

coz they like marriage then what happened there previous one .....

what u believe ..................


Is not a failure but also not a bed of roses.Tolerance to a certain level is needed.The two comes from different background.That means they can't completely match.It's a give and take for marriage to work.
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Apr 26, 2009 11:20 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
My opinion is that a marriage can only become a failure if the ones involved that it become one.

JMO
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Apr 26, 2009 11:21 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
somechick: My opinion is that a marriage can only become a failure if the ones involved that it become one.

JMO


OOPS!!!

A marriage can only become a failure if the ones involved in it let it become one.
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Apr 26, 2009 11:40 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
I have never married. Just did not feel the need to do it. Plus, really I am waiting to feel the need to do it with the "one" sleep Guess I will have a long wait laugh
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Apr 30, 2009 5:07 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
Crystalpistol2
Crystalpistol2Crystalpistol2La Grange Park, Illinois USA21 Threads 383 Posts
It takes TWO people to make a marriage work. If one person no longer wants to work at the marriage then it will fail.

The secret to a successful marriage is two people who will do "anything" to work out any problems that they encounter.

Some marriages fail, because the two people grow apart and do nothing to rekindle the relationship and grow together as a couple.
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May 1, 2009 12:55 AM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
gelynn
gelynngelynnDigos, Davao Philippines1 Threads 42 Posts
Big_John: I am not desperate, lonely or fear loneliness. Marriage is combining two people on a lovely journey. Marriage is perfect when the right people join together and work at making life better for the two of them.








i do agree with youapplause
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May 1, 2009 10:06 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Crystalpistol2: It takes TWO people to make a marriage work. If one person no longer wants to work at the marriage then it will fail.

The secret to a successful marriage is two people who will do "anything" to work out any problems that they encounter.

Some marriages fail, because the two people grow apart and do nothing to rekindle the relationship and grow together as a couple.


Very...very true statement...
My Hubby and I went through this...We seperated..tried again...then finally got divorced...and have gotten remarried...and we're happier now than we were ever before...The first time around, we grew apart...this time around...we're growing together...smitten
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Jun 30, 2009 8:56 PM CST Have u ever think Marriage is a failure?
hualapaiguy
hualapaiguyhualapaiguyKingman, Arizona USA146 Posts
Marriage works if the participants MAKE it work. Anybody who WANTS to marry should be permitted to marry and GOOD LUCK to them!!
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