i prefer, ahem, older gentlemen over younger men in my age group. i admire a man in his prime. i have a loving father, no connection to that. i am 22 & seeing a 41 yr old man.
tina_olson: I don't mind a little older man...but 20 years older puts him in my father's age catagory and I wouldn't feel comfortable...
When I was twenty, I had a forty year old man asking me to travel abroad with him. Then, I was to young to understand. He was one of the nicest men I had met at that time. I lost him after that. I will never let my insecurities cost me the kindness of an other.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Yes, I would, if I liked that person, and we had enough in common. Dating someone does not mean you are going to necessarily marry them straight away; you can soon find out if the age gap is an issue.
I have no preconceptions about anyone! I find my life is simpler that way, personally.
I just can't see myself going out with someone 74 years old! That is old enough to be my father. I have a hard enough time datng someone 5 years older than me!
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Would you date with a woman/man who is 20 years older than you????(Vote Below)