virgiomonkey: ......Interesting and if the situation was reversed...the Man was 40 and the Lady was 24.....I can image the condemnation from you American Ladies....Like 'Dirty Old Man'....I am correct or not...?????????....
.......... ....But am I wrong.???.....Funny for one year, I was just reading the C.S forums sites and not posting, I read on quite a few occasions,American Woman mouthing off on there disgust on Older Men dating younger Woman...and asking why is this 'allowed'......
Sommerauer71: They can bonk each other stupid, innit?
Evening John.
............ ....Well said,Sommer....and very 'Good Evening' to you Sommer....It Monday Morning here in New Zealand....and raining as well,Winter is approaching,so I take its late spring for You.......
virgiomonkey: ............ ....Well said,Sommer....and very 'Good Evening' to you Sommer....It Monday Morning here in New Zealand....and raining as well,Winter is approaching,so I take its late spring for You.......
J.D
It is late spring for us, yes.
We have not had a harsh winter but a long one. And now the sun is here and I am desperate for it.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
I've dated both sides of the coin, older and younger men. Each have benefits and drawbacks to dating them. I have no problem with younger it just depends on how much younger. Far more important to me would be finding someone with shared values, respect for each other, basic compatability.
go for it nothing wrong with it.used to be looked down on years ago but not as bad now days.true story years ago a women lost her husband and was raising the kids by herself.her son would bring his friends home as there was always good food and the love of family could be felt threw out the house. the mother married one of her sons best friends when he was in his early twenties and they had a joyous marriage that lasted many years she out lived him when he died in his sixties. age has nothing to do with happiness
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
caspatch: go for it nothing wrong with it.used to be looked down on years ago but not as bad now days.true story years ago a women lost her husband and was raising the kids by herself.her son would bring his friends home as there was always good food and the love of family could be felt threw out the house. the mother married one of her sons best friends when he was in his early twenties and they had a joyous marriage that lasted many years she out lived him when he died in his sixties. age has nothing to do with happiness
azdesperado72: If you want to date someone that is probably immature, more power to you.
Honestly as for as maturity levels go, it has been my experience that... most 24 year old guys seem to have more direction and ambition in their lives than a 40+ year old who's having a mid-life meltdown does. And at least with the younger guy he can keep up with me
I think that there should be harmony between a couple, both for the couple and how it looks in the public and society. That’s how it makes the relationships interesting.
Apr 19, 2009 8:20 PM CST What is your opinion on women who date much younger men?
shakerempire2Belmont Heights, Long Beach, California USA5 Posts
shakerempire2Belmont Heights, Long Beach, California USA5 posts
The only opinions that matter are the two seeing each other for what ever their reasons are and whatever the outcome is. Men die before women and maybe good enough reason to date younger men...the relationship may last longer together.
eyetech: Honestly as for as maturity levels go, it has been my experience that... most 24 year old guys seem to have more direction and ambition in their lives than a 40+ year old who's having a mid-life meltdown does. And at least with the younger guy he can keep up with me
There are some valid points to this, I will say that. but I have one question. If a women who is say 45, and assuming single. And the Guy is say 25. He may have the ambition and direction. But he does get older, so what happens when he reaches the 45 mark has his midlife meltdown, and takes off now with the 25 year old he met in the office. What happens to the 65 year old women who had worked to help him get in that office, and now does not have the strength, will, or body to move on. The thing is in the original question, she had stated she was asked out by a much younger man. I think she should see the whole picture.
There might be mutual attraction, but the age difference will show up in conversation, taste in music or just the general outlook in life and experiences...such as not knowing Watergate, or liking Coldplay in lieu of the Who,etc. I could never date someone in their 20s or 30s. They're too close to my sons' ages.
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