well it also comes down too what if your partner drank all the time no thank you i would prefer someone a female that didn't drink all the time so it works both ways
Indyfella: I've been down that path many times. It's okay to smoke...until the 3rd or 4th date. Then you end up out on the front porch in a 3 ft snow drift with her dog sitting beside you licking his balls.That's when you jingle the keys in the coat pocket and say... Let's go Rover...
Finally Indyfella, something we agree on. Hold the presses!
loves2steppin: Once dated a smoker...if he hung his coat next to mine, it was absorbed in my clothes...holding hands..god..what a stinking mess. He was told to smoke outside which is did but one day I came home and he had smoked in the bathroom and then denied it. He went to chew after that.......and that...CS people is GROSS!
It's bad enough kissing someone who smokes, but chew?
I have already watched to people I loved die due to smoking, and prefer not to get involved with another smoker to watch her die to. I've seen the effects of lung cancer and heart disease no thankyou.
Well really this is posted on here to get peoples opinions on what they like and what that don't like so I don't see what the big deal is over it and me myself I smoke and I have stopped for the guy I had been with since I was 16 but when me and got together he didn't like it but me and him stayed together for 4 years and I smoked the first 2 years and he still loved for who I was not for what I done but my point is that if u love someone u would help them ya know not judge them for their smoking or drinking and there was something else on here that really bothered me is that how it is like kissing an ashtray when u kiss someone that smokes it really isn't if that person would be kind of nice and have a little respect for their partner to brush their teeth and stuff that is what I done and that guy that I was with had never smoked and he didn't even notice it after I had brushed my teeth
Well I would not let it stop me if I were truly interested. I use to smoke and I dont consider myself a bad person for it. I would encourage her to stop.
I gacve up 8 months ago I didnt think ide care if a guy smoked or not since ive been both but i have to say kissing a smoker was truley yuck !!! It honestly was dirty So girlsd you taste dirty , sorry but its true I know i used to smoke alot so now i know what guys thought when they kissed me ,,, Im happy I dont smoke & I am now looking for a non smoker to taste me all the time deep long & deliciously .....
If someone is conscious of that they have so many breathe things, that should not in my mind be a deterrent either way for potentially great relationship. Just a thought which has been mentioned before amount of people in the world and still does not mean you're guaranteed to meet that soulmate so why limit yourself. Good Luck smokers
i don't smoke but am dating a lady that does she takes very good care of her breath she is wanting to quite there are some foods that make bad breath that are worse than cigaretts like onions garlic jmo
pointhunter: i don't smoke but am dating a lady that does she takes very good care of her breath she is wanting to quite there are some foods that make bad breath that are worse than cigaretts like onions garlic jmo
True enough - however, you can both eat the onions, garlic or whatever (a good cesar salad comes to mind) and you both smell the same.
No, I will not knowingly go out with someone who smokes.
I went out one night years ago with someone who smoked and his car wreaked of stale cigarette smoke. I nearly puked. Never saw him again, and will never date another smoker either.
May 6, 2009 10:46 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads229 Posts
BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA229 posts
I've dated smokers....And just their aging on their face alone makes me wanna gag....i am too health conscious to be around smokers....so no I won't date smokers....and i always laugh when they say "trying to quit"....tell me you are a nonsmoker after you quit & then we can have a discussion
It's funny - apart from the genuine sympathy I feel for friends and relatives left behind who have shared thier personal stories - most of the discussion in this topic has revolved around - the smell, the smell and the smell.
I would give up smoking, if they gave up eating meat. I don't want to share a life with them, only to lose them to a heart attack or colon cancer or the like.
If we can't compromise, in the relationship - there is no use even dating them.
If I were not a smoker, I would not go out with a smoker for basically the same reason.
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