if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them?? (94)

Apr 29, 2009 6:54 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
alohay
alohayalohayvictoria, Victoria Australia1 Threads 20 Posts
well it also comes down too what if your partner drank all the time no thank you i would prefer someone a female that didn't drink all the time so it works both ways
Apr 29, 2009 6:56 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Indyfella: I've been down that path many times. It's okay to smoke...until the 3rd or 4th date. Then you end up out on the front porch in a 3 ft snow drift with her dog sitting beside you licking his balls.That's when you jingle the keys in the coat pocket and say... Let's go Rover...


Finally Indyfella, something we agree on. Hold the presses! laugh
Apr 29, 2009 6:57 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
loves2steppin: Once dated a smoker...if he hung his coat next to mine, it was absorbed in my clothes...holding hands..god..what a stinking mess. He was told to smoke outside which is did but one day I came home and he had smoked in the bathroom and then denied it.
He went to chew after that.......and that...CS people is GROSS!


It's bad enough kissing someone who smokes, but chew? barf
Apr 29, 2009 7:07 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
then choose the non smoker,no big deal but if u really like her just prepare a mask if u date herlaugh
Apr 29, 2009 7:17 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Dos'nt make them a bad person....but to your question I would'nt go out with a guy who smokes....it's a disgusting habitfrustrated
Apr 29, 2009 7:18 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
GalwayGirl89: anything but cigarettes? so a smack head, a stoner, an alcoholic, but not a smoker?????



No of what you mentioned either......problems problems problemscool
Apr 29, 2009 8:01 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
I have already watched to people I loved die due to smoking, and prefer not to get involved with another smoker to watch her die to. I've seen the effects of lung cancer and heart disease no thankyou.
Apr 29, 2009 8:08 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
GalwayGirl89: anything but cigarettes? so a smack head, a stoner, an alcoholic, but not a smoker?????


You missed of someone with halitosis and fleas.rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 29, 2009 8:10 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
AstralGuy
AstralGuyAstralGuyGalway, Ireland4 Posts
redrain: if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??


Nope, theres much worse qualities. Unless of course she was constantly putting herself on fire.. then id have to question the relationship.
May 1, 2009 9:21 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
Posie20
Posie20Posie20Crossville, Alabama USA1 Posts
Well really this is posted on here to get peoples opinions on what they like and what that don't like so I don't see what the big deal is over it and me myself I smoke and I have stopped for the guy I had been with since I was 16 but when me and got together he didn't like it but me and him stayed together for 4 years and I smoked the first 2 years and he still loved for who I was not for what I done but my point is that if u love someone u would help them ya know not judge them for their smoking or drinking and there was something else on here that really bothered me is that how it is like kissing an ashtray when u kiss someone that smokes it really isn't if that person would be kind of nice and have a little respect for their partner to brush their teeth and stuff that is what I done and that guy that I was with had never smoked and he didn't even notice it after I had brushed my teeth
May 5, 2009 2:52 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
Good4U2
Good4U2Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA15 Threads 1 Polls 929 Posts
confused Well I would not let it stop me if I were truly interested. I use to smoke and I dont consider myself a bad person for it. I would encourage her to stop. professor cheering
May 5, 2009 2:55 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
I think I would put them out.
laugh
May 6, 2009 8:48 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
I gacve up 8 months ago I didnt think ide care if a guy smoked or not since ive been both but i have to say kissing a smoker was truley yuck !!!
It honestly was dirty
So girlsd you taste dirty , sorry but its true
I know i used to smoke alot so now i know what guys thought when they kissed me ,,,
Im happy I dont smoke & I am now looking for a non smoker to taste me all the time deep long & deliciously .....
May 6, 2009 8:51 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
My wife died from smoking and lung cancer. It was horrible. I would never date a smoker.
May 6, 2009 8:57 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
If someone is conscious of that they have so many breathe things, that should not in my mind be a deterrent either way for potentially great relationship. Just a thought which has been mentioned before amount of people in the world and still does not mean you're guaranteed to meet that soulmate so why limit yourself. Good Luck smokerspeace
May 6, 2009 9:00 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
i dont mind if they smoke just as long as they keep there breath minty fresh thumbs up thats not to much to ask is it mmmm laugh
May 6, 2009 9:01 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
Yes it would - I don't like the smell of cigarette smoke.


If by chance I did date a smoker - he would have to brush his teeth and take a shower before kissing me!
May 6, 2009 9:04 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
pointhunter
pointhunterpointhunterbutler, Alabama USA6 Threads 145 Posts
i don't smoke but am dating a lady that does she takes very good care of her breath she is wanting to quite there are some foods that make bad breath that are worse than cigaretts like onions garlic jmodancing
May 6, 2009 9:07 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
pointhunter: i don't smoke but am dating a lady that does she takes very good care of her breath she is wanting to quite there are some foods that make bad breath that are worse than cigaretts like onions garlic jmo



True enough - however, you can both eat the onions, garlic or whatever (a good cesar salad comes to mind) and you both smell the same. dunno
May 6, 2009 9:10 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
pointhunter
pointhunterpointhunterbutler, Alabama USA6 Threads 145 Posts
everybody might not like onions both could smoke an smell the same jmodancing
May 6, 2009 9:11 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
I tried it, didn't like it.

zee
May 6, 2009 9:16 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
zee1ander: I tried it, didn't like it.

zee


just to clarify zee, what was it that you tried and didn't like...


just curious
May 6, 2009 9:16 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
zee1ander: I tried it, didn't like it.

zee


No, I will not knowingly go out with someone who smokes.

I went out one night years ago with someone who smoked and his car wreaked of stale cigarette smoke. I nearly puked. Never saw him again, and will never date another smoker either.

Prefer a man to smell...bouquet
May 6, 2009 9:21 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
pointhunter: everybody might not like onions both could smoke an smell the same jmo


I personally would rather smell a nice cologne or aftershave on a man then cigarette smoke.

Just my opinion.
May 6, 2009 10:46 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
I've dated smokers....And just their aging on their face alone
makes me wanna gag....i am too health conscious to be around smokers....so no I won't date smokers....and i always laugh when they say "trying to quit"....tell me you are a nonsmoker after you quit & then we can have a discussion
May 6, 2009 10:48 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??

if they're smoking, maybe your using the wrong lubricant...professor dunno

rolling on the floor laughing
May 6, 2009 10:57 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Big_John: My wife died from smoking and lung cancer. It was horrible. I would never date a smoker.
comfort hug
May 6, 2009 11:00 PM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
pointhunter
pointhunterpointhunterbutler, Alabama USA6 Threads 145 Posts
prairiewoman: I personally would rather smell a nice cologne or aftershave on a man then cigarette smoke.

Just my opinion.
yes i like smell goods toodancing
May 7, 2009 1:02 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Smokers stink like skunks, and they act like they have no idea they stink.
May 7, 2009 1:24 AM CST if someone smoked would that put you off going out with them??
galaxy15
galaxy15galaxy15melbourne, Victoria Australia3 Threads 480 Posts
It's funny - apart from the genuine sympathy I feel for friends and relatives left behind who have shared thier personal stories - most of the discussion in this topic has revolved around - the smell, the smell and the smell.

I would give up smoking, if they gave up eating meat. I don't want to share a life with them, only to lose them to a heart attack or colon cancer or the like.

If we can't compromise, in the relationship - there is no use even dating them.

If I were not a smoker, I would not go out with a smoker for basically the same reason.

An interesting question.
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