Open relationships (79)
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 PostsAudrysSis: I have to agree, I really don't see the point. But not judging or anything, who knows.
me neither, just know its not for me 
nfowler: oops sorry Can't
I said he was disabled, not that he coudn't perform but now we're getting into the personal realm of another and it's not style to dissect those very private issues of others while they are not present themselves.
Anyway, I guess you're right it was a win win situation. I got to have my cake and eat it and I must say I enjoyed it very well. It might not be a flavour you or many others like but that just means there's all the more for me
SuzyJ: I said he was disabled, not that he coudn't perform but now we're getting into the personal realm of another and it's not style to dissect those very private issues of others while they are not present themselves.
Anyway, I guess you're right it was a win win situation. I got to have my cake and eat it and I must say I enjoyed it very well. It might not be a flavour you or many others like but that just means there's all the more for me
so you used thw disabled guy??Anyway, I guess you're right it was a win win situation. I got to have my cake and eat it and I must say I enjoyed it very well. It might not be a flavour you or many others like but that just means there's all the more for me
nfowler: so you used thw disabled guy??
I am just messin with you SuzyJnfowler: so you used thw disabled guy??
Oh my god....did you miss the comments on mutual arrangement, the fact that he was also having his cake and eating it?? Honestly...now you are insinuating that I used some poor disabled guy while he meekly sat in his chair, no doubt with his heart breaking...
Why don't you just call it a witch hunt and be done with it!
nfowler: I am just messin with you SuzyJ
I was writin my reply and posted so I didn't see this...
SuzyJ: I was writin my reply and posted so I didn't see this...
I know I had fun tho...sorry if it was at your expense
rohaan: Someone always gets hurt, no matter what the "agreement" is.
Maybe,but it has never been me.
Thas because im emotionally detatched from the outset with a relationship that starts that way...practically minded and pidgeon hold women.
We men do put women in a box mentally dependant on our initial reacton to them.
And for me most men have a nimber of boxes they fit into and there very seldom changable.
ContraryCol: Maybe,but it has never been me.
Thas because im emotionally detatched from the outset with a relationship that starts that way...practically minded and pidgeon hold women.
We men do put women in a box mentally dependant on our initial reacton to them.
And for me most men have a nimber of boxes they fit into and there very seldom changable.
Thas because im emotionally detatched from the outset with a relationship that starts that way...practically minded and pidgeon hold women.
We men do put women in a box mentally dependant on our initial reacton to them.
And for me most men have a nimber of boxes they fit into and there very seldom changable.
Nunber of box's.
Damn no edit facility and me attempting to multi task!
nfowler: I know I had fun tho...sorry if it was at your expense
Its cool, I can take a joke and someone takin the piss
wouldn't mind knowin sooner though so I don't go shootin off my mouth in defense
I have been known to have a rather sharp tongue from time to time 
SuzyJ: Its cool, I can take a joke and someone takin the piss
wouldn't mind knowin sooner though so I don't go shootin off my mouth in defense I have been known to have a rather sharp tongue from time to time
where is the fun in forwarning youwouldn't mind knowin sooner though so I don't go shootin off my mouth in defense I have been known to have a rather sharp tongue from time to time
"maybe, but it has never been me". WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON INVOLVED, Col? 
Sommerauer71: Here is what I think Suzy. And I think you have been beautifully honest here.
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I think you have raised a briliant point and the words 'open relationship' is enough to make people run for the hills and state their corner and 'no' is usually the answer. My answer is no, I could not deal with it, but I could deal with him wanting to be with another, I just do not want to be a part of that...
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I think you have raised a briliant point and the words 'open relationship' is enough to make people run for the hills and state their corner and 'no' is usually the answer. My answer is no, I could not deal with it, but I could deal with him wanting to be with another, I just do not want to be a part of that...
Well sommer, I think its no secret that Im quite a fan of yours and I do believe your man is a lucky one
I do like the way you state your case and relate your position clearly while not bashing people for putting up ideas that don't match yours.Raising a glass to all those who can say they don't agree or want something with style and grace
nfowler: where is the fun in forwarning you
Hehehe well...do it not at your peril young man! And if you sell tickets I want 50% of the proceeds
SuzyJ: Well sommer, I think its no secret that Im quite a fan of yours and I do believe your man is a lucky one I do like the way you state your case and relate your position clearly while not bashing people for putting up ideas that don't match yours.
Raising a glass to all those who can say they don't agree or want something with style and grace
I raise my glass alongside of you...Raising a glass to all those who can say they don't agree or want something with style and grace
SuzyJ: Hehehe well...do it not at your peril young man! And if you sell tickets I want 50% of the proceeds
I scoff in the face of peril(sticks chest out and holds chin high)
SuzyJ:
After this experience I started to wonder if this wasn't the holy grail of happy relationships.
What do you think?
After this experience I started to wonder if this wasn't the holy grail of happy relationships.
What do you think?
When can we start?
Stressie, steady now boy...
lol...
StressFree: lol...
Stressie, you don't half look like Andy Roddick!Sommerauer71: Stressie, you don't half look like Andy Roddick!
Go easy on the wine SommerOpen relationships, closed relatiionships, any relationship .... give me one 
Goddess4u: Open relationships, closed relatiionships, any relationship .... give me one
it is nice to see you have your priorities in ordernot for me. but if it's not hurting anyone, i think other folks can make their own choices. my neighbors have an open relationship (they've been married 18 years). but i gotta mention, he looks very happy and has a younger gf; she says she's o.k. with it, but she doesn't look so happy. i can't help but wonder if she's doing it to try to hang on to him. jmo.
rohaan: AGREED. Just because we want something doesn't necessarily make it good for us. Lots of other instincts need to be dealt with responsibly. Fire is useful for warmth and cooking. Out of control it destroys, is a good way to put this thought.
....Well said...Good Sir.....
J.D
tainogirl: Why would I want someone to fulfill ALL my needs? I'm not looking for God. And I don't need a few, just one - to compliment no complete, maybe that is where a lot of people go wrong.
...As per usual Tainogirl....you have said so beautifully and spot on....
J.D
nfowler: it is nice to see you have your priorities in order
Gotta prioritise
I have been thinking and I do believe that if I get myself to fall for me with all the flowers I plan on sending me, that I will try an open relationship
StressFree: Go easy on the wine Sommer
No you do, wine or no wine... Plus it has been too hot in Sweden for wine and you know how this socialist government controls it here...nfowler: I have been thinking and I do believe that if I get myself to fall for me with all the flowers I plan on sending me, that I will try an open relationship
Well fowler, thats the most important relationship you'll have in your lifetime so do be good to yourself
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