LovelySerene: Thats kind of harsh....are you saying that all women should be thin, and pretty?
nope... im just saying that we all have our preferences and that it is asinide to expect people to change theirs cos you dont meet them !!!!!!
be what you are and accept that some are NOT going to find you attractive for one reason or another.... but dont complain that they are shallow cos you happen to be fat, have warts, two left feet a missing pinky or a big nose..... just live with what you have... and if you dont like something about yourself change it if you can
Gowanheart: Just ignore him....if he were not insecure, he would not feel the need to degrade others... You are beautiful!
im not degrading ... im just being blunt about the subject.... im not gonna be one of those to tell you that you are beautiful or smart or talented or whatever unless i believe that said statements are fact... and yes the matter is subjective... what i think of someone is not what everyone else thinks !!!
as for insecure.... sure... if it makes you feel better to say that.....
but the reality is that such statement is about the only thing anyone can say when they KNOW the are wrong, otherwise you'd argue the issue !!!
somechick: I wish I could be perfect in looks,size,spelling,grammer,personality etc.But unfortuantely I'm not.Just like everyone else isn't.
Why can't people just accept someone for who they are instead putting expectations on how someone should be?
Yes, very true, but also why can't some people just accept who or what they are and just keep quiet about it rather than venting their frustrations about themselves !
RDM59: Yes, very true, but also why can't some people just accept who or what they are and just keep quiet about it rather than venting their frustrations about themselves !
RDM59: Yes, very true, but also why can't some people just accept who or what they are and just keep quiet about it rather than venting their frustrations about themselves !
I love myself and who and what I am. Maybe you should try asking them.
I just checked out your profile to see what gives.
Just sounds like you are not too happy about yourself and willing to take an 'average body'
for "pleasure and privacy"....
Well I am not amazed about anything in this world... how people see themselves and their body is their business.
And Yes, some people like who they are and what they look like.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Best of luck with your looking, but please don't go upsetting the nice gals in here... Personally, I dont much worry what these people on the threads look like, I am just happy to know them...
Try posting some other nice thread.. then you might just not be worrying about the 'looks' side of things...
Luck to you mate
Very well said! Couldn't agree more with you on EVERY point.
MaximusD: Most of the people calling themselves Average are way bigger than what should pass for Average.
Sorry,
to be honest i want to lose the rest of my weight off and am struggling right now but when i am able to exercise again and not be so sedentary i am going to get off this computer get it off and not spend my time arguing with peeps on here lol
LovelySerene: And thats where you didn't pay attention...I say that "It SHOULD be whats on the inside" I never said that the outside did not matter, and I've never complained about men being shallow. I just simply stated my opinion about this topic.
ok... so i misread.... my bad.... never claimed that hooked on phonics worked for me !!!!
still i do believe that what's on the outside does matter.... maybe not as much as the inside but enough to at least get things started !!!!
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Just ignore him....if he were not insecure, he would not feel the need to degrade others... You are beautiful!