Percentage of women on CS who don't really like and want to marry a man like me. (49)

I think you are losing the sympathy vote now.

best of luck mnowsa

what you never even sent me flowers good luck to you

Wait a minute, come on. First, there is always a woman out there that finds any man good looking, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Truly, I tell you I have seen guys I thought were from Mars they looked so different, but had really cute girl friends and some had beautiful wives. (Got a friend like that.)
Now a girl sometimes doesn't care about looks, if the guy is sweet to her and has a good personality and can make her laugh, smile and charm her heart, she will date him and even marry him.

I also have a friend that women were going nuts over, but he married a woman who was not so pretty and she had some skin problems, but she is a wonderful sweet lady with a great loving heart and they are still married after 7 years. He could have had any woman he wanted pretty much as by what the women say around here. He choose a woman that was not so pretty because she was cool, fun to be around, they became best friends, and he married her and now he even gets pissed when people make funny faces looking at her.

So don't go hide in a corner, if you have a good personality, you are funny since I have read some of your things on here so you can make a girl laugh, and just be yourself and write to as many girls as you like and become friends with them. You can be desperate, but just don't let them know you are. haha
Give it time for them to get to know you and then work your magic, then put a ring on their finger and you never have to worry again. But if you need advice what to say to a woman, there is no set of rules, just be yourself, tell jokes, get involved in what they talk about and open up to them. Sure you win a few and you lose a lot as any man does, but there is always one woman that will stick around and stay interested and will want to spend her life with you. Its like making friends first, then date, then the rest comes in. If you don't think a supermodel will date you, then go after those that you find cute and you can find a common interest together with. You know, there was this girl in college that was always dressing like a geek, she wore black clothes like she was goth and her makeup was so bad you thought she was a metal rock band singer. She came in to college one day after Christmas break and you would never know it was her, she was smoking hot, a few weeks later she was dressing like she always did before. But during that time, the guys were all over like flies on peanut butter. After she changed her looks back, the guys didn't even look at her. So even those goth looking or geek looking girls can clean up really well and look pretty hot. So, just find a girl that you find appealing and write to her. She just may turn out to be a supermodel looking hottie after you get to know her or you just may find your heart is stolen, but don't judge a book by its cover. So others will not judge you that way as well if you treat all the same.

Dig through CS, write and write some more and so who writes back.
Post a photo, you may think you are smugly, but some girl may find you hot. You don't know unless you get yourself out there and get women to see you, they want a face with the heart.
You can write sweet things all day, but a woman likes to put a face with whom she is writing.

I took mine down because I am in lingo right now till I decide to put it back up. But, yes I am still writing to 3 different women who are really cool, but we are just friends. So that is how it starts, make friends, as many as you want and see who starts giving you hints to take it further to something else.

Hope that helps, but I hope you stay and try your best here.
We all get shot down, we all get frustrated, we all get broken hearts, but none of us gives up. The day you give up is the day you have to face being alone forever. That sucks, never give up.

Show your face for hecks sake, let the women decide that and write something possitive about yourself, that helps, and get a scouse accent

Thanks for being so perceptive of what the guy was trying to say solsticemoon you goof. Now he deleted his account thanks to your input. Usually when a guy talks like he was doing, he has not had any dates or if any it was short and nothing happened.
Now, to put someone down and take all hope from them is the worst thing you can do. Do you see me telling you that you are not a supermodel either and you will probably be single the rest of your life? This is an example, I am not saying you are not a supermodel so don't get upset. So No, he didn't either, which he could have done out of spite.
So don't go putting people down any further when they are looking for a boost of confidence. The guy may have been someone some other girl on here would have wanted to meet, but that chance is ruined now. For crying out loud, if you have nothing to say that will boost someones confidence when they are already down on themselves, then don't say anything at all. If you want respect, respect others.

Sorry if I crumbled your confidence. Just a lesson.
Hopefully you learn something.

Excuse me Mr Professor, but if the guy wanted to give himself half a bloody chance on a dating site he would have had a picture. Like yourself he hides himself behind a smoke screen of words and then cries he is coming off site if no one will take him. None on here are perfect, most accept each other on face value and do not try to denegrate others. So take back your personal remarks or show your own true colours.