Why I Just Walked Away (550)
thewall2: Not from here yet...
Occasionally,a suspicious women asks for proof of my 1207 pound mechanical squat from Monster gym.
O.K...TOO much info...
Occasionally,a suspicious women asks for proof of my 1207 pound mechanical squat from Monster gym.
O.K...TOO much info...
Pics coming soon,and all doubt...will be dropped.
thewall2: Pics coming soon,and all doubt...will be dropped.
who doubts what...did i miss somethng?
drivenbysound: Excellent post.
thanks ....... I think people need to stop b.s.ing and be more honest and upfront. I want someone to love me for simply being myself - muffin top or not.
thewall2: Pics coming soon,and all doubt...will be dropped.
i say you put those pics up now, i wanna see.
langleygirl: So for this woman to have the expectation that he be "buff" and then to post a picture wherein she is extremely attractive and then she's overweight how fair is that? Truly I think whether he thought he might get lucky or not is sidetracking the issue wherein she was deceitful about her own appearance. If he wants a smoking hot woman that is his choice, but she was obviously not comfortable enough in her own skin to be honest about how she looked.
If someone is fat and someone doesn't find that attractive - that is their choice. How can one help what they are attracted too? Some people are attracted to blonds, some brunettes, some redheads, some thin, some fat, some white, some brown ..... these are all outside qualities that each of us use everyday to determine if someone attracts us whether we want to admit it or not.
If someone is fat and someone doesn't find that attractive - that is their choice. How can one help what they are attracted too? Some people are attracted to blonds, some brunettes, some redheads, some thin, some fat, some white, some brown ..... these are all outside qualities that each of us use everyday to determine if someone attracts us whether we want to admit it or not.
You're taking these words right out of my mouth.
solitare: Poll Question: Why I Just Walked Away
Poller: bay163
* you did the right thing just walk away
* no you should have stayed and chatted
"I was shocked you see I recognized her face but she had gained over 50 freaking pounds, she said "are you Bay?" I said "No" turned and got back to my car asap without looking back. Then I called her from my cell phone and said I had an emergency and could not make it, she said "I know that was you" I said back "oh was that you, I did not recognize you, you look different than your pic".
Was I right to do that???"
You had another choice: you could have given her hell right there in public for her deception/ omission or you could have simply expressed your disgust and turned around. Personally, I would not have not called her from your car...she needed to feel your emotions in public at what she had done; to make it sink in so that hopefully she would not be so deceptive with someone else.
She will simply disregard the phone message and probably do it again...
Poller: bay163
* you did the right thing just walk away
* no you should have stayed and chatted
"I was shocked you see I recognized her face but she had gained over 50 freaking pounds, she said "are you Bay?" I said "No" turned and got back to my car asap without looking back. Then I called her from my cell phone and said I had an emergency and could not make it, she said "I know that was you" I said back "oh was that you, I did not recognize you, you look different than your pic".
Was I right to do that???"
You had another choice: you could have given her hell right there in public for her deception/ omission or you could have simply expressed your disgust and turned around. Personally, I would not have not called her from your car...she needed to feel your emotions in public at what she had done; to make it sink in so that hopefully she would not be so deceptive with someone else.
She will simply disregard the phone message and probably do it again...
I was so pissed at her that I was thinking no way I am spending one minute looking at that woman, I just wanted to get away like if you see a pile of crap you want to get away, same feeling.
babydoll67: i say you put those pics up now, i wanna see.
Soon,but I WON'T PUT THEM UP for long,people will think I'm showing off,and it's the last thing I WANT.
thewall2: 2000 pound leg press by the age of 39....I'm at 1740 pounds.
drivenbysound: You're taking these words right out of my mouth.
Type faster!
babydoll67: n
i wouldn't stay there and have coffee with him no, but im not 13 years old either. i will tell him yes its me, and you said you looked this way when in fact you don't. i am sorry but i don't date liars, then i would of walked out instead of pretending i never showed up.
my point is she deceived him, but he didn't have to walk out pretend its not him and then call her to give her the ever so famous " i have an emergency. sorry". line...but thats me...everyone has there own way of doing things
i wouldn't stay there and have coffee with him no, but im not 13 years old either. i will tell him yes its me, and you said you looked this way when in fact you don't. i am sorry but i don't date liars, then i would of walked out instead of pretending i never showed up.
my point is she deceived him, but he didn't have to walk out pretend its not him and then call her to give her the ever so famous " i have an emergency. sorry". line...but thats me...everyone has there own way of doing things
So turning this into an "age thing" makes it more pleasing to you?
Come on!
bay163: in this womans twisted mind, fat woman good, man who dont like her bad
Add some more fire to the flame!
bay163: oh really i think i tell the truth and if a woman lies it is an emergency to get away, why should i torture myself???? it is an emergency to get away from a woman who lied to me yes it is!!!
ok so you couldnt of said listen, you look different than your picture, and i dont appreciate you lieing to me about it,and i would like to know why you lied. and i think that this date is cancelled. But i guess they only do that kinda stuff in grown up world?
bay163: in this womans twisted mind, fat woman good, man who dont like her bad
Thought you said a while back it (wasnt) about her being fat?????
langleygirl: Add some more fire to the flame!
this is starting to get interesting. 
Popcorn anybody? 
willow51: ok so you couldnt of said listen, you look different than your picture, and i dont appreciate you lieing to me about it,and i would like to know why you lied. and i think that this date is cancelled. But i guess they only do that kinda stuff in grown up world?
In the grown up world ... people would post current and accurate pictures of themselves to avoid any embarrassing situations for themselves. Why is the "blame" put on the innocent person instead of the person who was deceiving? Is it because she's a woman and overweight that she doesn't deserve to be in the wrong?
Granted he could of said something, but the main point is that he shouldn't have ever been put into that position by another person (fat or not)
thewall2: Soon,but I WON'T PUT THEM UP for long,people will think I'm showing off,and it's the last thing I WANT.
if you got it flaunt it babe.
alexey8: this is starting to get interesting. Popcorn anybody?
where's Menu?? lol ...I'll save him a bucket or two
willow51: ok so you couldnt of said listen, you look different than your picture, and i dont appreciate you lieing to me about it,and i would like to know why you lied. and i think that this date is cancelled. But i guess they only do that kinda stuff in grown up world?
Now you're just being annoying.
Try getting back to the original idea of this thread.
alexey8: this is starting to get interesting. Popcorn anybody?
yes please....
willow51: ok so you couldnt of said listen, you look different than your picture, and i dont appreciate you lieing to me about it,and i would like to know why you lied. and i think that this date is cancelled. But i guess they only do that kinda stuff in grown up world?
Well if she had only lied maybe I would have done that but having me take pics of myself, what a wacko she was, I seriously might have gone off in public on her, especially if she was like you and prone to back talk, that is why I just wanted and need to in this EMERGENCY SITUATION get the holy hell away from her.
alexey8: this is starting to get interesting. Popcorn anybody?
I have some peanut butter cookies...you want some?
willow51: Thought you said a while back it (wasnt) about her being fat?????
its not, but i am explaining your brain and why you are on this womans side, i respect you, you do not lie in your profile, if i was going to meet you i would not leave like that because you are honest, do you see understand the difference ???
langleygirl: In the grown up world ... people would post current and accurate pictures of themselves to avoid any embarrassing situations for themselves. Why is the "blame" put on the innocent person instead of the person who was deceiving? Is it because she's a woman and overweight that she doesn't deserve to be in the wrong?
Granted he could of said something, but the main point is that he shouldn't have ever been put into that position by another person (fat or not)
Granted he could of said something, but the main point is that he shouldn't have ever been put into that position by another person (fat or not)
Also...there is the fact that she made a big deal about how he looked by having him send a picture of him that day. She wanted to make sure of how he looked.
langleygirl: where's Menu?? lol ...I'll save him a bucket or two
lol yeah, he does like his popcorn!
langleygirl: In the grown up world ... people would post current and accurate pictures of themselves to avoid any embarrassing situations for themselves. Why is the "blame" put on the innocent person instead of the person who was deceiving? Is it because she's a woman and overweight that she doesn't deserve to be in the wrong?
Granted he could of said something, but the main point is that he shouldn't have ever been put into that position by another person (fat or not)
Granted he could of said something, but the main point is that he shouldn't have ever been put into that position by another person (fat or not)
i understand what your saying and i did say she should not of lied to him, and he shouldnt of lied to her, but he is lieing in here also , he said he was looking for long term but his profile says hes looking for friends/hangout. I have in my profile that i am not a skinny woman , and guess what , when i had it reviewed, ppl told me i should take that part out. because it turns men off to know a woman isnt skinny, so who is right and who is wrong,?
babydoll67: yes please....
Enjoy! woodzchick: I have some peanut butter cookies...you want some?
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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here in sanfrancisco area women are few and far away, on this site, there are alot in losangeles but not around here, and i live near sanfrancisco airport and there are alot of places to go out and meet women around here, so that is now what i mostly do focus on going out friday and saturday night