bay163: this thread is not intended to be against fat people, it is just about misrepresenters, overweight people are good, they are welcome and i have gone out with overweight women, i just want honesty.
ummm i believe this is what you said: (my first xwife was the homecoming queen, my second was 20yrs younger and 5'2 115 on our wedding day, both women smokin hot, that is how i roll, i have dated a woman who was 5'6 165 that was the biggest and she was curvy italian but that was a special case.) it dont sound like your being too honest, you keep changing what you said.
willow51: ummm i believe this is what you said: (my first xwife was the homecoming queen, my second was 20yrs younger and 5'2 115 on our wedding day, both women smokin hot, that is how i roll, i have dated a woman who was 5'6 165 that was the biggest and she was curvy italian but that was a special case.) it dont sound like your being too honest, you keep changing what you said.
this is not against any type of person, it is against liars
bay, i don't know you but you know what i do? if i truly like them i have them talk to me on live cam, and this way you can see the whole deal, you'll know if they are what you want...
babydoll67: bay, i don't know you but you know what i do? if i truly like them i have them talk to me on live cam, and this way you can see the whole deal, you'll know if they are what you want...
well i have never met anyone from this site, and i usually go out in sanfrancisco every friday or saturday, out dancing and i will meet another soon to date, i like to chat with people here, and you never know i could meet a woman off here
babydoll67: bay, i don't know you but you know what i do? if i truly like them i have them talk to me on live cam, and this way you can see the whole deal, you'll know if they are what you want...
Bay does the something similar but it involves his car, parking lot, and telepathic thoughts...
bay163: well i have never met anyone from this site, and i usually go out in sanfrancisco every friday or saturday, out dancing and i will meet another soon to date, i like to chat with people here, and you never know i could meet a woman off here
of course you could meet someone off here. i do all the time, i choose not to date right now, but i still talk to men in here but cam is the way to go. maybe ill meet one soon but i have to know what im getting into. cam and conversation inst bad. my brother did it and he married his online girlfriend and they are happily married.
willow51: no i did have an emergency, i had to get the hell away from a liar[/quoteNow your lieing to us, so sad.
it was true i had to get back home and save money on babysitting because money was being wasted and there was no hottie at the starbucks, to me it was an emergency, i guess you dont mind wasting other peoples time that is obvious but any woman who wastes my time will not be happy
langleygirl: I remember corresponding with a guy who had a picture which wasn't the best in clarity ...... just before we were to meet he sent me a picture wherein he'd probably gained 50-75 pounds. I did meet him, but really I should have confronted him about his profile picture not being an accurate portrayal of who he currently was. People can b.s. and moan and complain that its about more than that - but there does need to be some attraction. No one is ever completely content with themselves, but being able to post a current photo someone should at least be comfortable with that. People see beauty in many ways, and posting a current photo will at least attract those to you who won't reject you later because of how you look.
Where you right to do that? Yes, because if the physical appearance was SO IMPORTANT to her, then she should have been aware that she was deceiving you with her picture(s).
Poll Question: Why I Just Walked Away Poller: bay163
* you did the right thing just walk away * no you should have stayed and chatted
"I was shocked you see I recognized her face but she had gained over 50 freaking pounds, she said "are you Bay?" I said "No" turned and got back to my car asap without looking back. Then I called her from my cell phone and said I had an emergency and could not make it, she said "I know that was you" I said back "oh was that you, I did not recognize you, you look different than your pic". Was I right to do that???"
You had another choice: you could have given her hell right there in public for her deception/ omission or you could have simply expressed your disgust and turned around. Personally, I would not have not called her from your car...she needed to feel your emotions in public at what she had done; to make it sink in so that hopefully she would not be so deceptive with someone else. She will simply disregard the phone message and probably do it again...
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