Weimarlady: Wow, you sure have had some successful dates lately!! And you do know how to treat a woman... flower-loving or not....
that was just 2 examples of women with bad manners, I have many stories of love to share, i had a lot of stories, and some do not believe because my life is like a fantasy to many people, I do more in one weekend than many do in a their whole year, now just watch for my next story and you too can learn, and you will not be like this anymore you will be like this
911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada1,343 posts
I think since the day we are born our experiences affected us in some way or another. We have to make a conscious choice to move on after that. Learn from it, get over it, rise above it. Become better because of it.
If someone is "stuck" then that is what they are.......stuck. And either not wanting to or not knowing how to get out. We all have a choice.
911gypsy: I think since the day we are born our experiences affected us in some way or another. We have to make a conscious choice to move on after that. Learn from it, get over it, rise above it. Become better because of it.
If someone is "stuck" then that is what they are.......stuck. And either not wanting to or not knowing how to get out. We all have a choice.
I don't feel that someones negative behavior always has something to do with how they were treated by their old boyfriends.Sometimes people are just mean.
bay163: I am suprise by some men saying that they meet girls who take out past bad relationships on them, they say if other guys were not so bad to women they would have a easier time, did you ever stop to think that if the other guy was really nice you would not be dating her cause she would be married to the other guy anyway???
I went out with a woman and on the first date she told me she liked flowers, so I said I will bring you some. The second date she said where are my flowers, I said I forgot them, she said go to the Safeway, we went and she picked out some flowers, as we walked to the checkout stand I just kept walking and went out to the car, she said "why did you do that?" I said I am not buying flowers on demand, she crossed her arms and looked out the window, instead of out to dinner and dancing I handed her $20 and said get out of the car and you can take a taxi home, you see I was fed up with her attitude, I proceded to go out to a club alone, and yes scored with a hotter babe later that night, I hope the next guy that flower loving woman meets doesnt blame me for her bad attitude, peace to all.
Well, being nice doesn't necessarily mean a couple will stay together. There are many more variables involved in divorces or break-ups, and I care not to unpack that unless needed.
This flower infatuated woman has some unreasonable demands and you should have been honest with her right from the start of the second date by saying what was really on your mind instead of using the "I forgot" card and going through that little series of events where your intent was to hurt her and get back at her. Just saying, communicating and reaching an understanding is the easier and more mature way to go instead of doing what you did. Maybe things could have been cleared up right away had you said that you are not accustomed to bringing flowers to women on second dates. Maybe she would have understood, but instead---you took the situation really personal---as did she because you did not bring her flowers.
bay163: I am suprise by some men saying that they meet girls who take out past bad relationships on them, they say if other guys were not so bad to women they would have a easier time, did you ever stop to think that if the other guy was really nice you would not be dating her cause she would be married to the other guy anyway???
I went out with a woman and on the first date she told me she liked flowers, so I said I will bring you some. The second date she said where are my flowers, I said I forgot them, she said go to the Safeway, we went and she picked out some flowers, as we walked to the checkout stand I just kept walking and went out to the car, she said "why did you do that?" I said I am not buying flowers on demand, she crossed her arms and looked out the window, instead of out to dinner and dancing I handed her $20 and said get out of the car and you can take a taxi home, you see I was fed up with her attitude, I proceded to go out to a club alone, and yes scored with a hotter babe later that night, I hope the next guy that flower loving woman meets doesnt blame me for her bad attitude, peace to all.
Men are dumb then; why would you date someone that is emotionally messed up with baggage from past relationships? no one is putting a gun to make these men date them.
If someone is not what you want, you leave them. Why stay and then whine about it?
If someone is not what you want, you leave. You dont' stay, act like a victim and then say poor me.
bay163: I am suprise by some men saying that they meet girls who take out past bad relationships on them, they say if other guys were not so bad to women they would have a easier time, did you ever stop to think that if the other guy was really nice you would not be dating her cause she would be married to the other guy anyway???
I went out with a woman and on the first date she told me she liked flowers, so I said I will bring you some. The second date she said where are my flowers, I said I forgot them, she said go to the Safeway, we went and she picked out some flowers, as we walked to the checkout stand I just kept walking and went out to the car, she said "why did you do that?" I said I am not buying flowers on demand, she crossed her arms and looked out the window, instead of out to dinner and dancing I handed her $20 and said get out of the car and you can take a taxi home, you see I was fed up with her attitude, I proceded to go out to a club alone, and yes scored with a hotter babe later that night, I hope the next guy that flower loving woman meets doesnt blame me for her bad attitude, peace to all.
P.S. And I'm also sick of men saying poor me I'm such a nice guy. Sorry but I see some "nice guys" as being the biggest pushovers that I've ever seen.
Being nice is part of a good guy, but being a wimp and practically worshiping the person you are with isnt' being nice, it's being wimpy.
Women also want someone to stand up to them and do what is right whether or not they agree with them.
Women want leadership and a strong man that will do the right thing when all others wont.
A real woman wants a real man; not a puppy that will do whatever they say.
mjames: P.S. And I'm also sick of men saying poor me I'm such a nice guy. Sorry but I see some "nice guys" as being the biggest pushovers that I've ever seen.
Being nice is part of a good guy, but being a wimp and practically worshiping the person you are with isnt' being nice, it's being wimpy.
Women also want someone to stand up to them and do what is right whether or not they agree with them.
Women want leadership and a strong man that will do the right thing when all others wont.
A real woman wants a real man; not a puppy that will do whatever they say.
Exactly and very well said, here is a man that gets it.
mjames: P.S. And I'm also sick of men saying poor me I'm such a nice guy. Sorry but I see some "nice guys" as being the biggest pushovers that I've ever seen.
Being nice is part of a good guy, but being a wimp and practically worshiping the person you are with isnt' being nice, it's being wimpy.
Women also want someone to stand up to them and do what is right whether or not they agree with them.
Women want leadership and a strong man that will do the right thing when all others wont.
A real woman wants a real man; not a puppy that will do whatever they say.
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I think it comes down to personalities, but you dont really get a feel for someones personality till you spend time with them.
For every man who thinks that a womans got bad behaviour, theres a woman that thinks some mans got bad behaviour as well.
But its fun to see these different personalities.