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Jan 2, 2010 1:03 PM CSTDo you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts

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I love going on holidays. I have considered going away on my own (if I can afford it). Was thinking of somewhere like Santa Ponsa as I've been there, liked it and think it is a relatively safe option (for my first lone venture).

My family are disgusted with me (nothing unusual there) and tell me to get a grip. They say that it's "just wrong" for me to consider a holiday alone.

So...as I am single and my kids are grown up... am I now supposed to just give up going on holidays?


What do you think?
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Jan 2, 2010 1:05 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
Tell the family to get stuffed and just do it lol


I have holidayed on my own and have always enjoyed it, no one else to please but myself, sleep when I want, eat when I want.
I have always met some great people to.

Just take the same care you would here when alone and you will be fine.
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Jan 2, 2010 1:06 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
wexlady41: I love going on holidays. I have considered going away on my own (if I can afford it). Was thinking of somewhere like Santa Ponsa as I've been there, liked it and think it is a relatively safe option (for my first lone venture).

My family are disgusted with me (nothing unusual there) and tell me to get a grip. They say that it's "just wrong" for me to consider a holiday alone.

So...as I am single and my kids are grown up... am I now supposed to just give up going on holidays? What do you think?


Id do it myself if I could!! Go for it you!! Lay by the pool with your book, stroll on the beach...lucky you!! applause
Boston was like a permanent holiday for me!! I miss that soooooooooooooooo much!! Id love to get away!!

You go girl!!yay
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Jan 2, 2010 1:08 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
well if you werent comfortable going on your own go on a group tour i have gone with contiki i have done it and made some friends all over the world!!
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Jan 2, 2010 1:19 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
jonathan_heart
jonathan_heartjonathan_heartdublin, Dublin Ireland60 Threads 8 Polls 2,108 Posts
its difficult to say, theres different types of holidays, i did this once myself and to be honest it wasnt such an enjoyable experience. i think if i did it again i'd go on an activities holiday, that way things are set up for you and you'll get to know people naturally as you see them every day
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Jan 2, 2010 1:20 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
areyoureadytogo: well if you werent comfortable going on your own go on a group tour i have gone with contiki i have done it and made some friends all over the world!!


Just looked up contiki. They are only for 18-35 year olds.


Maybe I should check out old folks homes instead!!

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Jan 2, 2010 1:22 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
jonathan_heart: its difficult to say, theres different types of holidays, i did this once myself and to be honest it wasnt such an enjoyable experience. i think if i did it again i'd go on an activities holiday, that way things are set up for you and you'll get to know people naturally as you see them every day


Good point. I like to do day trips and see a bit of wherever I'm visiting. I think this would be easier on my own as I wouldn't have to consider if anyone else wanted to do the same.
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Jan 2, 2010 1:23 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
yea thats the age group they do but their is another group for you age ill try and find out for you if you like
wexlady41: Just looked up contiki. They are only for 18-35 year olds. Maybe I should check out old folks homes instead!!
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Jan 2, 2010 1:24 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
areyoureadytogo: yea thats the age group they do but their is another group for you age ill try and find out for you if you like


Thanks.
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Jan 2, 2010 1:27 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
to be honest i like site seeing and activities holidays i like to see a country when you go their hate the sun id get bored sitting
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Jan 2, 2010 1:33 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Kalimera: Tell the family to get stuffed and just do it lolI have holidayed on my own and have always enjoyed it, no one else to please but myself, sleep when I want, eat when I want.
I have always met some great people to.

Just take the same care you would here when alone and you will be fine.


I agree. C, If you don't mind me saying so, I think your family are being a bit judgemental. You're a grown woman and can make your own decisions. As long as you are safe, happy and enjoy yourself, they should be happy for you. Everyone needs a break now and again so why not go and enjoy yourself....JMO.
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Jan 2, 2010 1:34 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wave C. life is 2 short 2 be putting off things you want to do.

Especially as there are so many beautiful places out there to see, and if you wait for people to come to your way of thinking you may never get to see them hug

I go off all the time last yr although i had 2 small kids with me that usually disappears, anyway i met some lovely people and had a great laugh with them.

I have always met people travelling on their own and enjoying themselves

Go for it girl wot you got 2 lose ????? teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 1:52 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Omurchu65
Omurchu65Omurchu65Dundalk, Louth Ireland14 Threads 509 Posts
I dont think single women are allowed on planes anymore as apparantly the kitchen sink around their ankles takes up too much aisle space rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing doh No thats Married women isnt it grin

Guess you can go then and get to enjoy a bit of warmer weather with avenues of palm trees and cheap nights out.....you never know you could meet a nice guy out there as a lot of people disilusioned with the cold weather head off to warmer climates ...please Catch a millionaire though and not a 20 year old morrocan boy that loves you and wants to marry you ...grin
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Jan 2, 2010 1:53 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts


Check out this on the Intl forums, might be worth thinking about it.

I have often thought about going away on my own, but wondered how do I put sunscreen on my back if I have no-one with me. confused

I was at the Sea Pearl hotel in Kusadasi in 2007, it was an Irish only hotel. I don't know if it was a factor but everyone was very friendly, we got to know about 8 others of different ages, circumstances and we often went out together for dinner and excursions.

But in general everyone chatted with whoever was near them at the pool or at the bar. It was one of my favourite holidays.
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Jan 2, 2010 1:54 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
hiya CLo...
you go if its what you want..i have said it for a few yrs now that i'd go away on my own if i could get rid of these kids..and i got the same response...wow people were like are you mad...
i'd love to. sit and read by the pool , go for walks. sightseeing...
thumbs up wine wine
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Jan 2, 2010 1:59 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Get out there and go for it and stop worrying what people think including your family. This is your life, the one and only and not a dress rehersal. So get yourself out there girl and take a few risks.teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 2:02 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
FriendlyFeline: http://www.connectingsingles.com/singles_events_0_126125_1/april_10_17_2010_benidorm_spain_get_together.htm

Check out this on the Intl forums, might be worth thinking about it.

I have often thought about going away on my own, but wondered how do I put sunscreen on my back if I have no-one with me.

I was at the Sea Pearl hotel in Kusadasi in 2007, it was an Irish only hotel. I don't know if it was a factor but everyone was very friendly, we got to know about 8 others of different ages, circumstances and we often went out together for dinner and excursions.

But in general everyone chatted with whoever was near them at the pool or at the bar. It was one of my favourite holidays.



yay I loved the sea pearl it was great and yep R. it was the same when i was there everyone was so friendly bouquet

As for the sun cream just buy the spray on 1 ur bound to hit all the spots giggle
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Jan 2, 2010 2:02 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
Godsgift: Get out there and go for it and stop worrying what people think including your family. This is your life, the one and only and not a dress rehersal. So get yourself out there girl and take a few risks.
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Jan 2, 2010 2:12 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Omurchu65: I dont think single women are allowed on planes anymore as apparantly the kitchen sink around their ankles takes up too much aisle space No thats Married women isnt it

Guess you can go then and get to enjoy a bit of warmer weather with avenues of palm trees and cheap nights out.....you never know you could meet a nice guy out there as a lot of people disilusioned with the cold weather head off to warmer climates ...please Catch a millionaire though and not a 20 year old morrocan boy that loves you and wants to marry you ...



laugh laugh

How about a 20 year old with a millionaire daddy?
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Jan 2, 2010 2:15 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
wexlady41: I love going on holidays. I have considered going away on my own (if I can afford it). Was thinking of somewhere like Santa Ponsa as I've been there, liked it and think it is a relatively safe option (for my first lone venture).

My family are disgusted with me (nothing unusual there) and tell me to get a grip. They say that it's "just wrong" for me to consider a holiday alone.

So...as I am single and my kids are grown up... am I now supposed to just give up going on holidays? What do you think?




well Clo how could you even think of doing such a thing scold


heeheheh only kidding...


dont let anyone stop you from doing somthing that you want to do.. If I had the money ild go somewhere myself and it wouldnt bother me in the slightest that I was on my own.. If you do choose to go to Santa Ponsa which i think is wise choosing somewhere that you have already been for your fist venture as you know the places to go and not go..


If you like to do the excursions I would suggest you do them with your tour rep.. I know there are excursions run by locals and they are cheaper than your reps but its better to go with a reputable company....








and sure look at everyone travelling to Australia and everywhere..they are doing it by themselves



So go and have a blast of a time and get a great tan and take loads of photos for us grin


teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 2:16 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Thanks guys.

Family very nearly had me convinced I was losing it. But I'm glad to see the world is still available to me.


cool <--- sunglasses ready!
beverage delivery <--- duty free list made!
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Jan 2, 2010 2:18 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
wexlady41: I love going on holidays. I have considered going away on my own (if I can afford it). Was thinking of somewhere like Santa Ponsa as I've been there, liked it and think it is a relatively safe option (for my first lone venture).

My family are disgusted with me (nothing unusual there) and tell me to get a grip. They say that it's "just wrong" for me to consider a holiday alone.

So...as I am single and my kids are grown up... am I now supposed to just give up going on holidays? What do you think?

Hiya Cwave
I went off on Holidays on my own in 2008. Went to Cyprus..never having been there..Hired a Jeep and went all over the joint.
Took a day trip to Egypt...
Had a fantastic time and met some Brilliant people along the way..People were really nice to me..A few English girls invited me to dinner one evening..we had a great night.
Would totally recommend it.teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 2:21 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
wexlady41: Thanks guys.

Family very nearly had me convinced I was losing it. But I'm glad to see the world is still available to me.


<--- sunglasses ready!
<--- duty free list made!



My lot practically packed my bags for me they were so glad to see the back of me for awhile lol
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Jan 2, 2010 3:06 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Kalimera: My lot practically packed my bags for me they were so glad to see the back of me for awhile lol


It's not my kids that have the problem.. it's my sisters.

Then again, they have a problem that I go to weddings/funerals/parties/tesco alone. You know the type.. they think I should (and I quote) "try look married because seperation is very embarrassing for the family"
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Jan 2, 2010 3:08 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
wexlady41: It's not my kids that have the problem.. it's my sisters.

Then again, they have a problem that I go to weddings/funerals/parties/tesco alone. You know the type.. they think I should (and I quote) "try look married because seperation is very embarrassing for the family"






What?? jeses hun sorry but Fek them, my sister paid for my first holiday after I was seperated to let me know how proud she was of me for the way I coped.
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Jan 2, 2010 3:13 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
justdave11
justdave11justdave11Tamworth, New South Wales Australia10 Threads 10 Polls 98 Posts
u go girl lolrolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 2, 2010 3:14 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
I had my first holiday on my own last summer. I was quite apprehensive before I went but it was great. The joy of being able to do what I wanted when I wanted was terrific......In fact I only fell out with myself twice over the week....... laugh
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Jan 2, 2010 3:14 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
justdave11
justdave11justdave11Tamworth, New South Wales Australia10 Threads 10 Polls 98 Posts
o and can i come lolhug
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Jan 2, 2010 3:14 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
yea id stil go on my own why not
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Jan 2, 2010 4:02 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
wexlady41: I love going on holidays. I have considered going away on my own (if I can afford it). Was thinking of somewhere like Santa Ponsa as I've been there, liked it and think it is a relatively safe option (for my first lone venture).

My family are disgusted with me (nothing unusual there) and tell me to get a grip. They say that it's "just wrong" for me to consider a holiday alone.

So...as I am single and my kids are grown up... am I now supposed to just give up going on holidays? What do you think?
loads of people go abroad on their own
it sounds like the clan wanna give you grief for the sake of it
you have to be carefull abroad though
last year iwent to a n ice hotel in the canaries with great entertainment on every night so i didnt move out of the hotel all week
i wasnt on my own though
on the other hand watch the movie taken,its scary
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Jan 2, 2010 4:04 PM CST Do you think a woman going abroad on holidays alone is....
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
blumoon: I had my first holiday on my own last summer. I was quite apprehensive before I went but it was great. The joy of being able to do what I wanted when I wanted was terrific......In fact I only fell out with myself twice over the week.......


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