Which do you prefer? (834)
invinciblemuse: The trouble only starts when someone isn't able to see that a person can indeed have different personas in different settings; and therefore judges that person based on only one of his/her facettes. It seems to me that some people here on CS are prone to doing just that at times...
You get me the one way at all times lass..
JSuburbia: Kinda reminds me of the one thread about what to do when in doubt...Least someone can do when not sure if someone is being mean or cheeky is to ask.
Imagine how many conflicts around the world could be avoided if the parties involved just communicated with one another to clarify their intentions
Imagine how many conflicts around the world could be avoided if the parties involved just communicated with one another to clarify their intentions
Yes the trouble is that communication is a two way street. Unfortunately someone has to listen!!! That's where the problems start...
invinciblemuse: All three! The Tom, the Cat and the Warne!!
We all love your style, the sweetheart of CS
leostartingover: Yes the trouble is that communication is a two way street. Unfortunately someone has to listen!!! That's where the problems start...
I,m listening.............
leostartingover: Yes the trouble is that communication is a two way street. Unfortunately someone has to listen!!! That's where the problems start...
So true.JSuburbia: So true.
That being said, if one party doesn't open the lines of communication, that shouldn't prevent someone from trying to work things out themselves to a point
JSuburbia: Kinda reminds me of the one thread about what to do when in doubt...Least someone can do when not sure if someone is being mean or cheeky is to ask.
Imagine how many conflicts around the world could be avoided if the parties involved just communicated with one another to clarify their intentions
Imagine how many conflicts around the world could be avoided if the parties involved just communicated with one another to clarify their intentions
You'd think they'd ask... but I guess for some it's more fun to explode immediately, rather than to inquire about someone's intentions.
For the record: I avoid being mean by not posting when in a bad mood, so if you're in doubt: the Muse is cheeky!
invinciblemuse: You'd think they'd ask... but I guess for some it's more fun to explode immediately, rather than to inquire about someone's intentions.
For the record: I avoid being mean by not posting when in a bad mood, so if you're in doubt: the Muse is cheeky!
For the record: I avoid being mean by not posting when in a bad mood, so if you're in doubt: the Muse is cheeky!
Usually if someone posts when they are in a bad mood, something is said that will be later regretted, so to not post when you are in a bad mood is definitely a good policy to have.
Personally, I'm the same way in a sense, but I do have my moments when I try to be nice even when I'm not in the mood to do so and sometimes what I say will come out in the wrong tone, so I do try to avoid as much as I can.
Figure we're all here for fun, and that's what we should try to have :)
JSuburbia: Usually if someone posts when they are in a bad mood, something is said that will be later regretted, so to not post when you are in a bad mood is definitely a good policy to have.
Personally, I'm the same way in a sense, but I do have my moments when I try to be nice even when I'm not in the mood to do so and sometimes what I say will come out in the wrong tone, so I do try to avoid as much as I can.Figure we're all here for fun, and that's what we should try to have :)
Personally, I'm the same way in a sense, but I do have my moments when I try to be nice even when I'm not in the mood to do so and sometimes what I say will come out in the wrong tone, so I do try to avoid as much as I can.Figure we're all here for fun, and that's what we should try to have :)
Sometimes it can cheer me up to write a positive, optimistic reply to someone, who's posted about something that's seriously troubling them...
invinciblemuse: Sometimes it can cheer me up to write a positive, optimistic reply to someone, who's posted about something that's seriously troubling them...
Agree'dinvinciblemuse: The trouble only starts when someone isn't able to see that a person can indeed have different personas in different settings; and therefore judges that person based on only one of his/her facettes. It seems to me that some people here on CS are prone to doing just that at times...
So.....wit today, passion tomorrow and always yoghurt!
invinciblemuse: All three! The Tom, the Cat and the Warne!!
I hear you from my tripersonality but I would listen to you anyway
tomcatwarne: I hear you from my tripersonality but I would listen to you anyway
Finnish finish?
JSuburbia: Kinda goes into appropriateness really. There's a time to be serious, a time to be cheeky...Basically charecteristics have a time & place , just a matter of being able to know what the moment calls for and also with it being something that comes natural and not something you try to be
yogurt anyone?
cherrybrandy: yogurt anyone?
...or cherry brandy! 
I try to steer clear of Irish men, ask my kids the mc's !!Especially if they have red hair and are named Kelly!! lol
I try to steer clear of Irish men, ask my kids the mc's !!Especially if they have red hair and are named Kelly!! lol
DizzyDi: Never had any Irish in me
but do have scottish ancestery
now thats funny...gsohbut do have scottish ancestery
i've got irish ancestry...we could fix that
just being brash
I love the scottish humor and that accent is....well just makes me melt!! 
Serenity1971: I can't pick just one, they all have their allure.
angel 
crazyblondeone: I love the scottish humor and that accent is....well just makes me melt!!
aaah...me too!!
crazyblondeone: I love the scottish humor and that accent is....well just makes me melt!!
I go for what rests 'neath the kilt myselfFallingman: For each one of us there are certain traits in others that appeal to us. Which of these (stereotypes I admit) does it for you? If you prefer other characteristics write them in the thread and tick the "None" box.
for myself french style
in a man I'll take a good pair of....ummmmmmmmm...legs (that's it
) under a warm tartan
Easy the Brashness, i mean America F%ck yeah
felixis99: I go for what rests 'neath the kilt myself
well done you fallin man 
..2008..Thats a long time to have a thread going..mines are lucky to last an hour..
..2008..Thats a long time to have a thread going..mines are lucky to last an hour..so long as they are hot and hung like a horse i really dont care 
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Kinda reminds me of the one thread about what to do when in doubt...Least someone can do when not sure if someone is being mean or cheeky is to ask.
Imagine how many conflicts around the world could be avoided if the parties involved just communicated with one another to clarify their intentions