I wonder how people feel about that special word..
For me, it is somewhat confusing- I think I fall in love, so to speak, with so many thing. It is hard to really feel alive without feeling that you're essentially connected to those things which you find beautiful- Whether it is music, or imagery- Whether the curve of a woman's body, or idea that the same breeze which tosses about your hair is the very same which brings the scent of freshly cut mint to your nose.
For some people, love is that one single person that you feel you can't live without.
For others, it is the very nature of existence, and that one person they find is simply a part of their grand notion.
Furthermore, some people aren't ever capable of finding 'the one'- By their very nature, their concept of love is something revolving, something alive, which exists as representation in one person, but can so easily be shown in the next, and the next, and so they won't ever have one person- They will chase the notion of love across a slew of faces and bodies and personalities.
Barrellofart: I wonder how people feel about that special word..
For me, it is somewhat confusing- I think I fall in love, so to speak, with so many thing. It is hard to really feel alive without feeling that you're essentially connected to those things which you find beautiful- Whether it is music, or imagery- Whether the curve of a woman's body, or idea that the same breeze which tosses about your hair is the very same which brings the scent of freshly cut mint to your nose.
For some people, love is that one single person that you feel you can't live without.
For others, it is the very nature of existence, and that one person they find is simply a part of their grand notion.
Furthermore, some people aren't ever capable of finding 'the one'- By their very nature, their concept of love is something revolving, something alive, which exists as representation in one person, but can so easily be shown in the next, and the next, and so they won't ever have one person- They will chase the notion of love across a slew of faces and bodies and personalities.
What do you think?
I think I am first wow.. For me it is a feeling almost like addiction.. Like when u spend every moment of an entire day and night with someone and you still feel you want more.. When everything you see or hear reminds you of that person.. when you find yourself daydreaming about her and wanting to call her just to hear her voice.. when you can look into her eyes and get lost for hours..when you cannot sleep without holding her in your arms and smelling her hair...when she is not around you feel lost and you mind is unable to focus...to me those are the things that signify being in love.. Just my opinion...
Well, I honestly don't worry about it too much. If it happens - it happens - not much else to think about it. I will know it when it's standing right in front of me.
For me falling in love is when you can't get that someone out of your mind;you feel like nothing really matters when you're not together.Time almost seems to stand still when we're apart and when we're togther,time goes by too quickly.I have been in a relationship like this,once before and that's what I miss. Maybe someday I can live this again.
Barrellofart: I wonder how people feel about that special word..
For me, it is somewhat confusing- I think I fall in love, so to speak, with so many thing. It is hard to really feel alive without feeling that you're essentially connected to those things which you find beautiful- Whether it is music, or imagery- Whether the curve of a woman's body, or idea that the same breeze which tosses about your hair is the very same which brings the scent of freshly cut mint to your nose.
For some people, love is that one single person that you feel you can't live without.
For others, it is the very nature of existence, and that one person they find is simply a part of their grand notion.
Furthermore, some people aren't ever capable of finding 'the one'- By their very nature, their concept of love is something revolving, something alive, which exists as representation in one person, but can so easily be shown in the next, and the next, and so they won't ever have one person- They will chase the notion of love across a slew of faces and bodies and personalities.
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Barrellofart: I wonder how people feel about that special word..
For me, it is somewhat confusing- I think I fall in love, so to speak, with so many thing. It is hard to really feel alive without feeling that you're essentially connected to those things which you find beautiful- Whether it is music, or imagery- Whether the curve of a woman's body, or idea that the same breeze which tosses about your hair is the very same which brings the scent of freshly cut mint to your nose.
For some people, love is that one single person that you feel you can't live without.
For others, it is the very nature of existence, and that one person they find is simply a part of their grand notion.
Furthermore, some people aren't ever capable of finding 'the one'- By their very nature, their concept of love is something revolving, something alive, which exists as representation in one person, but can so easily be shown in the next, and the next, and so they won't ever have one person- They will chase the notion of love across a slew of faces and bodies and personalities.
What do you think?
Falling In love is different for everyone, and the need for being in love is also again different for all of us, some NEED to feel love more than others, Im sure there are some who are positive they can live without it.
Some have an unralistic expectation of love and what it can bring, while others are jaded and bitter about the whole thing, which in turn will make it hard for love to find them.
Its an age old question... love is a feeling a state of mind and the showing of the death of ones soul.. its as I read, your souls recognition of its counterpart in another..
Either way it is ellusive and sometimes short lived, but its LOVE none the less, some love long some love for shorter periods, its all about finding someone the same or similar to connect with, that will give us a good chance if making it work.......LONG TERM
Its a shame LIFE sometimes gets in the way of a seemingly perfect LOVE
Polarbutterfly: For me falling in love is when you can't get that someone out of your mind;you feel like nothing really matters when you're not together.Time almost seems to stand still when we're apart and when we're togther,time goes by too quickly.I have been in a relationship like this,once before and that's what I miss. Maybe someday I can live this again.
Hey Polar.. I think you read my mind.. and I too had ONE of these loves in my life.. i used to say to her that when we were apart the hours were like days and when we were together those hours felt like seconds... and yes, when i was not with her i was lost and nothing seemed to matter.. when she was there, the sky was bluer, the grass was greener, she made everything in my world more beautiful...sigh
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
sweetlyscented1: Falling In love is different for everyone, and the need for being in love is also again different for all of us, some NEED to feel love more than others, Im sure there are some who are positive they can live without it.
Some have an unralistic expectation of love and what it can bring, while others are jaded and bitter about the whole thing, which in turn will make it hard for love to find them.
Its an age old question... love is a feeling a state of mind and the showing of the death of ones soul.. its as I read, your souls recognition of its counterpart in another..
Either way it is ellusive and sometimes short lived, but its LOVE none the less, some love long some love for shorter periods, its all about finding someone the same or similar to connect with, that will give us a good chance if making it work.......LONG TERM
Its a shame LIFE sometimes gets in the way of a seemingly perfect LOVE
denmcintyre: Hey Polar.. I think you read my mind.. and I too had ONE of these loves in my life.. i used to say to her that when we were apart the hours were like days and when we were together those hours felt like seconds... and yes, when i was not with her i was lost and nothing seemed to matter.. when she was there, the sky was bluer, the grass was greener, she made everything in my world more beautiful...sigh
sweetlyscented1: Falling In love is different for everyone, and the need for being in love is also again different for all of us, some NEED to feel love more than others, Im sure there are some who are positive they can live without it.
Some have an unralistic expectation of love and what it can bring, while others are jaded and bitter about the whole thing, which in turn will make it hard for love to find them.
Its an age old question... love is a feeling a state of mind and the showing of the death of ones soul.. its as I read, your souls recognition of its counterpart in another..
Either way it is ellusive and sometimes short lived, but its LOVE none the less, some love long some love for shorter periods, its all about finding someone the same or similar to connect with, that will give us a good chance if making it work.......LONG TERM
Its a shame LIFE sometimes gets in the way of a seemingly perfect LOVE
JMO
I know love is different for everyone.
That is the very reason I have asked: What is love, to you?
Polarbutterfly: For me falling in love is when you can't get that someone out of your mind;you feel like nothing really matters when you're not together.Time almost seems to stand still when we're apart and when we're togther,time goes by too quickly.I have been in a relationship like this,once before and that's what I miss. Maybe someday I can live this again.
Always enjoy your comments, Polar.
Thanks for expressing yourself here, in such a way.
felixis99: Well, I honestly don't worry about it too much. If it happens - it happens - not much else to think about it. I will know it when it's standing right in front of me.
Your posts are also always sure to delight.
I think, perhaps, if I should put your comment to an option, it would be something like my #2 suggestion.
Not that I should bottleneck you, just correlation of comment to subject, is all.
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Barrellofart: I know love is different for everyone.
That is the very reason I have asked: What is love, to you?
I know what it is to me.
I know what it could be to many people...
But, what is it to you?
Ok well what is love to me....
Ummm believe it or not its a hard question to answer, its allot of things to me...
Its very important to my happiness.... probably more than it should be.
Its a chemistry, a connection, a touch and a look that say's so much, it's that special someone being the last one you think of before you go to sleep and the first one on your mind when you wake....
It's him taking your breath away when he kisses you each and every time, even after years he still does it everytime, its wanting to know and understand each other, its an interest in each others interests, its loving his children (if they are not yours) unconditionally because they belong to him, it's caring and nursing each other when your sick or picking each other up when your feeling so down...
it's allot do to with understanding, communication and being on the same path and wanting to take the journey as ONE...
I wont go on but that's a little of what it means to ME...
All sounds so muddled really...... to much to say and so little time....
sweetlyscented1: Falling In love is different for everyone, and the need for being in love is also again different for all of us, some NEED to feel love more than others, Im sure there are some who are positive they can live without it.
Some have an unralistic expectation of love and what it can bring, while others are jaded and bitter about the whole thing, which in turn will make it hard for love to find them.
Its an age old question... love is a feeling a state of mind and the showing of the death of ones soul.. its as I read, your souls recognition of its counterpart in another..
Either way it is ellusive and sometimes short lived, but its LOVE none the less, some love long some love for shorter periods, its all about finding someone the same or similar to connect with, that will give us a good chance if making it work.......LONG TERM
Its a shame LIFE sometimes gets in the way of a seemingly perfect LOVE
Love is a warm blanket..it wraps around you and the one your with and holds you close. It's a bond that you share..when you know what your lover is thinking by just looking at him. It evolves, shifts and changes as you both do. It's blind to your flaws..and holds you up when your weak. It fades when your mad..but always returns when you are calm. It protects you from temptation and keeps you coming home each nite.
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
nanners2863: Love is a warm blanket..it wraps around you and the one your with and holds you close. It's a bond that you share..when you know what your lover is thinking by just looking at him. It evolves, shifts and changes as you both do. It's blind to your flaws..and holds you up when your weak. It fades when your mad..but always returns when you are calm. It protects you from temptation and keeps you coming home each nite.
nutcracker7Jakarta City, Jakarta Indonesia12 posts
Love should be a once in a life time thing ..,ideally Love comes and goes in our life We may have fallin in love for many many many times with many many people ..but at the end only one love will stay and preserve in our heart and soul she/he is our true love or what we call soulmate.. just my humble opinion
oh ya I have to add this...nothing can compare to the feeling of "falling in love" ....that's the best moment in one's life
so keep falling in love everybody till you find your true love
Wanting to be with someone 24/7 if possible. Not being able to get her out of your mind, Not being able to take your hands off of her and just wanting to melt with her
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So, what is falling in love, for you?(Vote Below)
For me, it is somewhat confusing- I think I fall in love, so to speak, with so many thing. It is hard to really feel alive without feeling that you're essentially connected to those things which you find beautiful- Whether it is music, or imagery- Whether the curve of a woman's body, or idea that the same breeze which tosses about your hair is the very same which brings the scent of freshly cut mint to your nose.
For some people, love is that one single person that you feel you can't live without.
For others, it is the very nature of existence, and that one person they find is simply a part of their grand notion.
Furthermore, some people aren't ever capable of finding 'the one'- By their very nature, their concept of love is something revolving, something alive, which exists as representation in one person, but can so easily be shown in the next, and the next, and so they won't ever have one person- They will chase the notion of love across a slew of faces and bodies and personalities.
What do you think?