WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE? (57)
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA40 Threads 3 Polls 674 Postsjust thought a man is afraid of commiment or something, but you are right alot of competition out there, :{ but guess you have to take things slow i guess. chemistry is the best.
misscherylxo: have two kids here just stay at home mom, come on here to meet friends , thanks for the answers, am in little town called california city , hope you all have happy fourth :]
Is it called Stepford?
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I don't know you, but people in general, have always had a problem with commitment. Lots of people say it takes time to build a relationship, but I have found that I have better luck with the love at 1st site thing. So I think when the right one comes along, You will just know.
I got stood up for a date last week...but its his loss cause I bought a smokin hot dress...too bad, so sad! Thats the game. 
crazeddog1001: I don't know you, but people in general, have always had a problem with commitment. Lots of people say it takes time to build a relationship, but I have found that I have better luck with the love at 1st site thing. So I think when the right one comes along, You will just know.
Rubbish. People will commit to another when the time is right, not necessarily because there is a problem.
More like that they are not on the same wavelength, which is not a problem, more of a difference in personalities etc. And some simply are not ready.
misscherylxo: whY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?
Hello dear MissCheryl
Would the question be
Why I am afraid of being with someone?
After my getting apart from my children's father I was afraid even about just looking and my daughter (25yr o) had me signed on another site and she would choose 3 gentlemen and made me choose one of them to reply and so on, so finaly I am not afraid anymore I know there are good men somewhere perhaps here and I hope to find one but for sure i have found good friends that I they might be for life.
Welcome and have some fun, relax, enjoy life.
Money will never be enough but happines is a choice and it is free.
Veritaas: Rubbish. People will commit to another when the time is right, not necessarily because there is a problem.
More like that they are not on the same wavelength, which is not a problem, more of a difference in personalities etc. And some simply are not ready.
More like that they are not on the same wavelength, which is not a problem, more of a difference in personalities etc. And some simply are not ready.
BS, Love is not hard work, you either do or don't period. It doesn't take time to fall in love...
venusenvy: I got stood up for a date last week...but its his loss cause I bought a smokin hot dress...too bad, so sad! Thats the game.
definately his loss...
but you turnig dating jailbird...crazeddog1001: BS, Love is not hard work, you either do or don't period. It doesn't take time to fall in love...
i tend to agree with Veritaas...sometimes its a matter of circumctances,timing,previous experiences...you make it sound so simple...but its not always like that..not for everyone..
crazeddog1001: BS, Love is not hard work, you either do or don't period. It doesn't take time to fall in love...
I didn't read any where ,where she said love was hard work.......But keeping the fire going takes two 
demonfairy: I didn't read any where ,where she said love was hard work.......But keeping the fire going takes two
Well I hope you don't think love and commitment is two different things. If I am committed to you I am in love with you. And if someone loves you they will stay no matter what....
crazeddog1001: I don't know you, but people in general, have always had a problem with commitment. Lots of people say it takes time to build a relationship, but I have found that I have better luck with the love at 1st site thing. So I think when the right one comes along, You will just know.
Well maybe the love at first site works for you. For me I like to take it slow. No need to rush. I like to build a good foundation on my relationship. Enjoy each other. Someone charging at me like a desperate person never seems to make me want to do anything but run. Not commitment issues. For me it is showing good sense. 
Happygolucky4u: Well maybe the love at first site works for you. For me I like to take it slow. No need to rush. I like to build a good foundation on my relationship. Enjoy each other. Someone charging at me like a desperate person never seems to make me want to do anything but run. Not commitment issues. For me it is showing good sense.
Didn't say rush, just that it is not hard work to be committed/love...
crazeddog1001: Well I hope you don't think love and commitment is two different things. If I am committed to you I am in love with you. And if someone loves you they will stay no matter what....
I want it known right now. I am the one that is different if this is the case. I have made a commitment to my job. 
But I feel no love there. Just a need to pay my billscrazeddog1001: Didn't say rush, just that it is not hard work to be committed/love...
I really think you will find people react differently to different situations. So glad it was not work for you. I worked to make my marriage last and I loved him and it was worth it. And yes it was work. It was not a fairy tale. Sometimes it is just work not saying what is on your mind because you know you are wrong Sometimes it is work staying when money is little. But you hope times will get bettercrazeddog1001: BS, Love is not hard work, you either do or don't period. It doesn't take time to fall in love...
Well that is obvious no, "you either do or you don't" love someone. Not everyone falls head over heals madly in love when they first meet.
crazeddog1001: Talking about people not jobs.
People don't work?crazeddog1001: Love ya all, but gots to go. Karaoke Time!!!!!!! Big for all!!!!!!.............
Now there is something to be grateful for I am not singing
misscherylxo: whY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?
watching too much married w/ children?cant sit around w/ hands in pants/married too long,not trying to have hand down womans pants,lol.reb56: watching too much married w/ children?cant sit around w/ hands in pants/married too long,not trying to have hand down womans pants,lol.
Well try wearing your own pants then and not a womans
The way I look at it..if he doesn't show interest or want to be with you..I just walk away..move on to BIGGER and better things
Veritaas: Well try wearing your own pants then and not a womans
lol,a mans home is his castle/crossdress is optional,lol.
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