No reason they like playing mind games with others
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They like playing mind games with you?
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other reasons
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Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
Some are here just for the forums,some are here just to make friends and chat,some like me are not attacted or dating anyone, are here for both,forums and finding a partner...
demonfairy: Some are here just for the forums,some are here just to make friends and chat,some like me are not attacted or dating anyone, are here for both,forums and finding a partner...
I understand but it hardly answers the question as to why one in a relationship would not display it?
ybfayl: Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”
The possible reason for that might be:
If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.
Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.
I found Mr Right on CS and changed my profile mentioning "in a relationship", meaning I'm not looking for a date any more. I also made many friends on CS and don't see why I couldn't talk to them any more in the Forums. Moreover, the subjects of the Forums are many times interesting, funny or completely crazy. I like that
gabrielle95: I found Mr Right on CS and changed my profile mentioning "in a relationship", meaning I'm not looking for a date any more. I also made many friends on CS and don't see why I couldn't talk to them any more in the Forums. Moreover, the subjects of the Forums are many times interesting, funny or completely crazy. I like that
langleygirl: If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.
Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.
We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends. Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story
langleygirl: If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.
Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.
Now this is what I would expect form any person in a relationship
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends. Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story
ybfayl: from experience you find they are dating somebody on site when they accidently let it out.
Yes, I've encountered that - or they claim that they are into you and then they post a few days later about being gaga over someone else. Had that happen along time ago, hence even when I'm talking with someone, I'm cautious because you just don't know how many other people they are talking to when they are talking to you at the initial stages.
As for people saying who they are with - I've also see too many times wherein people attack the couple and try to break them up. Not sure why, perhaps they are jealous that others have found happiness, but I've seen it enough to know to be quiet about who I like on a more serious level.
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends. Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story
I was speaking about my choice ... you are free to do what you desire and I totally understand where you are coming from.
langleygirl: Yes, I've encountered that - or they claim that they are into you and then they post a few days later about being gaga over someone else. Had that happen along time ago, hence even when I'm talking with someone, I'm cautious because you just don't know how many other people they are talking to when they are talking to you at the initial stages.
As for people saying who they are with - I've also see too many times wherein people attack the couple and try to break them up. Not sure why, perhaps they are jealous that others have found happiness, but I've seen it enough to know to be quiet about who I like on a more serious level.
scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
well some people not only chatt on there relationships but they cheet too. I cant emagine it myself although I have to admit I set up a profile while still in a relationship but I told her I was going to do it and that I would if she stoped seeing her other boyfriend. she would not stop seeing her other boyfriend so I stoped seeing her.
scoutmaster: well some people not only chatt on there relationships but they cheet too. I cant emagine it myself although I have to admit I set up a profile while still in a relationship but I told her I was going to do it and that I would if she stoped seeing her other boyfriend. she would not stop seeing her other boyfriend so I stoped seeing her.
OutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia1,296 posts
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends. Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story
I did change my Profile Status to "In A Relationship," and in fact it caused some unexpected problems. Some of my friends had their Mail Settings set to block emails from anyone already in a relationship. I'd suggest that instead one make it plain in the text of their Profile, and (if they feel the need) change their Profile Status to "Not Single/Not Looking."
ybfayl: Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”
The possible reason for that might be:
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scoutmaster: Eat your heart out ybfayl, she is not that far from me, in fact If I climbed a tall enough tree I might even be able to see he on the horizon.
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