Member In Relationship ( Archived) (220)

Jul 24, 2010 1:44 AM CSTMember In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland, Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts

Member In Relationship(Vote Below)

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They are uncertain about the current relationship
5
13%
They don’t want to scare off any other potentials
5
13%
They are dating more then one person at a time?
5
13%
you are only their 2nd choice.
4
11%
No reason they like playing mind games with others
3
8%
They like playing mind games with you?
4
11%
other reasons
12
32%
Total Votes
38
Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”

The possible reason for that might be:
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Jul 24, 2010 1:49 AM CST Member In Relationship
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Some are here just for the forums,some are here just to make friends and chat,some like me are not attacted or dating anyone, are here for both,forums and finding a partner...wine
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Jul 24, 2010 1:53 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
demonfairy: Some are here just for the forums,some are here just to make friends and chat,some like me are not attacted or dating anyone, are here for both,forums and finding a partner...
I understand but it hardly answers the question as to why one in a relationship would not display it? wine
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Jul 24, 2010 1:56 AM CST Member In Relationship
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
ybfayl: I understand but it hardly answers the question as to why one in a relationship would not display it?
They do,they wright it in there profile..not looking,only here for the forums...or the ones i know have
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Jul 24, 2010 1:58 AM CST Member In Relationship
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
demonfairy: They do,they wright it in there profile..not looking,only here for the forums...or the ones i know have


some just say they are looking for friends and chatt.dunno
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Jul 24, 2010 2:07 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
ybfayl: Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”

The possible reason for that might be:


If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.

Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.
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Jul 24, 2010 2:07 AM CST Member In Relationship
I found Mr Right on CS and changed my profile mentioning "in a relationship", meaning I'm not looking for a date any more.
I also made many friends on CS and don't see why I couldn't talk to them any more in the Forums. Moreover, the subjects of the Forums are many times interesting, funny or completely crazy. I like that laugh

wave
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Jul 24, 2010 2:07 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
from experience you find they are dating somebody on site when they accidently let it out. doh
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Jul 24, 2010 2:11 AM CST Member In Relationship
amppy
amppyamppySamutprakarn, Central Thailand Thailand383 Posts
gabrielle95: I found Mr Right on CS and changed my profile mentioning "in a relationship", meaning I'm not looking for a date any more.
I also made many friends on CS and don't see why I couldn't talk to them any more in the Forums. Moreover, the subjects of the Forums are many times interesting, funny or completely crazy. I like that


Yesssss.....I agree..grin grin grin
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Jul 24, 2010 2:12 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl: If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.

Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.


We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends.
Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story blushing blushing
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Jul 24, 2010 2:13 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
langleygirl: If I'm in a relationship with someone, it would be clear and more than likely I'd delete my account out of respect to the other person.

Part of my thinking, is that I don't want anyone to have any doubts about where I stand when I'm with them. Truly if I'm with them, they were be the focus of my free time.


Now this is what I would expect form any person in a relationship hug
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Jul 24, 2010 2:14 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends.
Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story


indeed hug
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Jul 24, 2010 2:14 AM CST Member In Relationship
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
It's because they're just killing time waiting for

their turn to date me. So many ladies,


so little time.
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Jul 24, 2010 2:15 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl: I understand but it hardly answers the question as to why one in a relationship would not display it?
and how would you know they are in a Relationship,if it is not stated?dunno confused
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Jul 24, 2010 2:16 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
Ocee35: It's because they're just killing time waiting for

their turn to date me. So many ladies, so little time.


us men love to dream! nothing wrong with that laugh
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Jul 24, 2010 2:16 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
ybfayl: from experience you find they are dating somebody on site when they accidently let it out.


Yes, I've encountered that - or they claim that they are into you and then they post a few days later about being gaga over someone else. Had that happen along time ago, hence even when I'm talking with someone, I'm cautious because you just don't know how many other people they are talking to when they are talking to you at the initial stages.

As for people saying who they are with - I've also see too many times wherein people attack the couple and try to break them up. Not sure why, perhaps they are jealous that others have found happiness, but I've seen it enough to know to be quiet about who I like on a more serious level.
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Jul 24, 2010 2:17 AM CST Member In Relationship
amppy
amppyamppySamutprakarn, Central Thailand Thailand383 Posts
Killing time and people.... boxing boxing boxing boxing boxing boxing very happy very happy very happy very happy very happy
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Jul 24, 2010 2:19 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends.
Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story


I was speaking about my choice ... you are free to do what you desire and I totally understand where you are coming from. thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2010 2:21 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
Conrad73: and how would you know they are in a Relationship,if it is not stated?
there are different methods and means.. Generally people cannot resist bragging at times even on a low level, may it be in forums or in private chat. laugh
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Jul 24, 2010 2:24 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
langleygirl: Yes, I've encountered that - or they claim that they are into you and then they post a few days later about being gaga over someone else. Had that happen along time ago, hence even when I'm talking with someone, I'm cautious because you just don't know how many other people they are talking to when they are talking to you at the initial stages.

As for people saying who they are with - I've also see too many times wherein people attack the couple and try to break them up. Not sure why, perhaps they are jealous that others have found happiness, but I've seen it enough to know to be quiet about who I like on a more serious level.
and you are so far away… now that makes me sad! crying


bouquet
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Jul 24, 2010 2:27 AM CST Member In Relationship
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
well some people not only chatt on there relationships but they cheet too. I cant emagine it myself although I have to admit I set up a profile while still in a relationship but I told her I was going to do it and that I would if she stoped seeing her other boyfriend. she would not stop seeing her other boyfriend so I stoped seeing her.
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Jul 24, 2010 2:28 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
ybfayl: and you are so far away… now that makes me sad!


What's to be sad over? dunno I appreciate your kindred thoughts on dating. thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2010 2:29 AM CST Member In Relationship
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
ybfayl: and you are so far away… now that makes me sad!


Eat your heart out ybfayl, she is not that far from me, in fact If I climbed a tall enough tree I might even be able to see he on the horizon.grin grin cheers
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Jul 24, 2010 2:29 AM CST Member In Relationship
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
scoutmaster: well some people not only chatt on there relationships but they cheet too. I cant emagine it myself although I have to admit I set up a profile while still in a relationship but I told her I was going to do it and that I would if she stoped seeing her other boyfriend. she would not stop seeing her other boyfriend so I stoped seeing her.


a man who gives out before he gives up laugh handshake
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Jul 24, 2010 2:30 AM CST Member In Relationship
Outofafrica
OutofafricaOutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia5 Threads 1,296 Posts
gabrielle95: We both are still on the forums. I don't see any lack of respect in doing that. We have enough confidence in each other to know we are only talking to friends.
Now, maybe, we'll be here less often because we have other things to do together .... but that's another story


Wonderful Gabrielle. hug
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Jul 24, 2010 2:31 AM CST Member In Relationship
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
I did change my Profile Status to "In A Relationship," and in fact it caused some unexpected problems. Some of my friends had their Mail Settings set to block emails from anyone already in a relationship. I'd suggest that instead one make it plain in the text of their Profile, and (if they feel the need) change their Profile Status to "Not Single/Not Looking."

coffee 47
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Jul 24, 2010 2:34 AM CST Member In Relationship
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
talk email/penpallaugh
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Jul 24, 2010 2:36 AM CST Member In Relationship
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ybfayl: Just sitting here I was thinking about women and men who are dating on this site and belong to many other ones but have not changed their profile status to “IN A RELATIONSHIP”

The possible reason for that might be:



shell I sing a happy song for you ???....

Life nanananana
Life is life nanananana
Labadab dab dab life nanananana
Liiiiiiiife nanananana

redclown
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Jul 24, 2010 2:39 AM CST Member In Relationship
Outofafrica: Wonderful Gabrielle.


Hi Africa wave
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Jul 24, 2010 2:42 AM CST Member In Relationship
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
scoutmaster: Eat your heart out ybfayl, she is not that far from me, in fact If I climbed a tall enough tree I might even be able to see he on the horizon.


lol .... too funny! Don't fall outta the tree! laugh
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Jul 24, 2010 2:44 AM CST Member In Relationship
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
langleygirl: lol .... too funny! Don't fall outta the tree!


Next time Im climbing I will wave at ya.wave
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