I´m beginning to see where the dispute is coming from: you see a compromise as something that is imposed on you from the outside, whereas I was more thinking of the inner compromises we all have to make when dealing with anyone (not just a lover) in this world.
Your kind of compromise is more of an ultimatum, isn´t it?? Well, if anyone tries to give me an ultimatum, all they get to see from me is an erect middle finger!
I agree. Compromise in any relationship should be a two way street.
jodestir: Relationships are ALL about compromise. Have u been there and done that? Not prepared to give everything up AGAIN?? Comments any1??
when I love him much and he love me much, I would gave up whatever necessary, coz I believe he will do so. Love is not about asking, its more about giving without pressure.
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I´m beginning to see where the dispute is coming from: you see a compromise as something that is imposed on you from the outside, whereas I was more thinking of the inner compromises we all have to make when dealing with anyone (not just a lover) in this world.
Your kind of compromise is more of an ultimatum, isn´t it?? Well, if anyone tries to give me an ultimatum, all they get to see from me is an erect middle finger!
I agree. Compromise in any relationship should be a two way street.
I don't take ultimatums anymore...