Boban1: I have noticed this strange fixation ,in people
He /she has to be tall,blond redhead ,blue eyes etc etc etc No Im not feeling the taste of sour grapes in my mouth ,just pointing out....Not many people want to see the Human behind the facade
Boban1: Things that we desire ,assuming it will make us happy ,never fulfill our expectations
name it like you want to... but i dont like them german guys and there is just one other nationality that i can accept to live with. And i havent said i would take evryody.... All of us are attracted by anything. Like many men dont want to have kids from an other man... Maybe i should relocate to raise my chances?;
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
lonelywoman55: I know Cherry I just dont think people take marrige to heart anymore.
some people will,some wont..the difference is the social acceptance of unmarried couples livivng together..which,really makes the marriage institution from the past.. doesnt really matter for me,if im married,if i ve got my man and im smiling..
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
sadclownlaughin: name it like you want to... but i dont like them german guys and there is just one other nationality that i can accept to live with. And i havent said i would take evryody.... All of us are attracted by anything. Like many men dont want to have kids from an other man... Maybe i should relocate to raise my chances?;
do you mean you are attracted by nationality?thats interesting..
Albeit, it wasn't a great experience, I would NEVER say "never" about most things...... so much can change in life, even beyond one's expectations.
Its pretty much been unlikely but if my fella asked I would say "YES"!!! I think I have met my soulmate and I should have met him years ago.....
That said, we are fine as we are and I don't really see any reason to change it for a piece of paper. We are looking to get a place together this year....
Sunnydaze14: Just for the people who have been married, would you do it again?
If I ever did do it again it would have to be one heck of a good man who's proved it would be a good idea to live with him..Otherwise Im fine living alone and can do this the rest of my life..lol..I dont have anyone living with me to try and fight with me, boss me around, make me do things I dont want to do, clean up their mess, ect.. Oh and I can get any kind of carry out I want if I dont feel like cooking
sadclownlaughin: name it like you want to... but i dont like them german guys and there is just one other nationality that i can accept to live with. And i havent said i would take evryody.... All of us are attracted by anything. Like many men dont want to have kids from an other man... Maybe i should relocate to raise my chances?;
Im not judging here just offering a different perspective
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Swissblueeyes: If I ever did do it again it would have to be one heck of a good man who's proved it would be a good idea to live with him..Otherwise Im fine living alone and can do this the rest of my life..lol..I dont have anyone living with me to try and fight with me, boss me around, make me do things I dont want to do, clean up their mess, ect.. Oh and I can get any kind of carry out I want if I dont feel like cooking
I agree with that from a male point of view, I don't need any control, tantrums when I'm to long at the shop, and I can travel wherever I want.
tomcatwarne: I agree with that from a male point of view, I don't need any control, tantrums when I'm to long at the shop, and I can travel wherever I want.
lol..i had the same thing happen to me but im a female..my ex husband couldnt stand me to have a life..if i went shopping once every couple months for clothes, id be gone only a hour then he would be blowing my cell phone up with constant calls leaving voice messages saying hurry up and come home im hungry, when are you gonna make lunch? jeesch..im soooo glad i dont have to deal with him anymore..lol
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Well thats a shame big bad bossy boss...I was just going to talk to you across your desk about a...raise