Would you marry again? (316)
Swissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 PostsColleene1024: If only I spoke German and had the money to go there!
OMG yes..The ones I met were very attractive, hot, sweet, easy going, charming..But when they got here..oh my did he change..he was like a kid in a candy store..he couldnt stop trying to meet as many woman as possible..lol..i would visit germany in a heartbeat too if i could find one like him who was a "one woman man"..
Colleene1024: Blue honey, I am almost 40 and still single. I will NEVER settle for second best. I may grow old and die alone but, I will not settle for second best. That has always been my number one saying. Never settle for second best.
I use to say the same thing to myself ,but then,one morning I got a bitter wakeup call
Boban1: My mind is my worst enemy .
It took 12 years of my life to realize ....she didn`t break me I broke myself
Guess I should have just said "No" to the question and left it at that.It took 12 years of my life to realize ....she didn`t break me I broke myself
To show my wife how much I loved her, I used to tell her that if she died, (which she did), I would marry again the next day, meaning that I was very happily married.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Frankinstien: Dear Colleene, If you can find it in the vidieo stores, check out " Murriels Wedding ". I think you will enjoy it . . . .
I'll check it out.
Boban1: I use to say the same thing to myself ,but then,one morning I got a bitter wakeup call
rohaan: Guess I should have just said "No" to the question and left it at that.
Don`t know about you, but sometimes I feel it more comfortable to open up and spill the beans in front a bunch of strangers than to have a conversation with my closest friends
Bental: To show my wife how much I loved her, I used to tell her that if she died, (which she did), I would marry again the next day, meaning that I was very happily married.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Boban1: I use to say the same thing to myself ,but then,one morning I got a bitter wakeup call
Boban Hon, I would rather grow old with my cat then settle for second best... lol
Boban1: Don`t know about you, but sometimes I feel it more comfortable to open up and spill the beans in front a bunch of strangers than to have a conversation with my closest friends
Sunnydaze14: I think the american way of life has spread and there is not much difference wherever you live nowadays.
But surely you love a person before their way of life or nationality? There nationality is not relevant.
But surely you love a person before their way of life or nationality? There nationality is not relevant.
It is. I have a lot of friends that living in a mixed culture marriage. And one of them is turning to the other... so it is relevant if you think about how you want to live your future. I could never be with a man from Iran or something...and you?
Bental: To show my wife how much I loved her, I used to tell her that if she died, (which she did), I would marry again the next day, meaning that I was very happily married.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Ben, If you thought that any woman could take the place of your late wife then you were not ready to marry. You have to know in your heart, She will ALWAYS be apart of you. Who ever you marry next will know that as well. Your wife will always hold a special place in your heart that can never be filled by anyone else. Keep looking Hon. Don't give up.
Boban1: Don`t know about you, but sometimes I feel it more comfortable to open up and spill the beans in front a bunch of strangers than to have a conversation with my closest friends
I totally agree Boban.
Sunnydaze14: Just for the people who have been married, would you do it again?
I always said i wouldnt marry again but you never know whats around the corner.
supersausage: I always said i wouldnt marry again but you never know whats around the corner.
Yeah, and mostly its a scammer...'
'Just kidden, pretty sure you will find the right one.'
'sadclownlaughin: It is. I have a lot of friends that living in a mixed culture marriage. And one of them is turning to the other... so it is relevant if you think about how you want to live your future. I could never be with a man from Iran or something...and you?
I would not single out any nationality and say I would/would not be with them.
It would be most likely to happen with someone from a similar culture though.
Bental: To show my wife how much I loved her, I used to tell her that if she died, (which she did), I would marry again the next day, meaning that I was very happily married.
Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
Very sorry to hear. You sound like a wonderful person. I am so sorry you lost someone so beautiful. I understand.Now I regret having expressed myself in that way. As for getting married again, I think that it is a no no for me.
No one can take her place, ever.
sadclownlaughin: Yeah, and mostly its a scammer...''
Just kidden, pretty sure you will find the right one.''
Just kidden, pretty sure you will find the right one.''
Thanks for that! It would be nice!
Sunnydaze14: I would not single out any nationality and say I would/would not be with them.
It would be most likely to happen with someone from a similar culture though.
i think i will get some It would be most likely to happen with someone from a similar culture though.
Absolutley i am going to remarry the right one and looking forward to it as the first one was a disaster and we married because i was pregnant not for love so the second time around i am marrying for love and i am going to keep this one for life no matter what. that's just me!!!!!
cherrybrandy: i think i will get some
I think I need a dram o whisky! lol
well closest emoticon I could get to whisky... 
I believe in love so why marry?
Swissblueeyes: OMG yes..The ones I met were very attractive, hot, sweet, easy going, charming..But when they got here..oh my did he change..he was like a kid in a candy store..he couldnt stop trying to meet as many woman as possible..lol..i would visit germany in a heartbeat too if i could find one like him who was a "one woman man"..
I think not all americans are cheeting on their wifes. ...or am i wrong? '
;cuddles4862: Absolutley i am going to remarry the right one and looking forward to it as the first one was a disaster and we married because i was pregnant not for love so the second time around i am marrying for love and i am going to keep this one for life no matter what. that's just me!!!!!
I came close to doing the same thing. Read page 11 LOL
At least I think that's the page. Maybe something close to it. 
rohaan: Very sorry to hear. You sound like a wonderful person. I am so sorry you lost someone so beautiful. I understand.
Many thanks for your post.
Am really trying to move forward but it is hard. Am afraid to "loose" the happy memories of her. Good thing that I have found someone who is very understanding but she can never take my wife's place.
Not that we want to either.
Got married at 19 ,divorced at 22
Never married again ,, and never looked back ..
Never married again ,, and never looked back ..
what is the added value?
Colleene1024: I think I need a dram o whisky! lol well closest emoticon I could get to whisky...
Sunnydaze14: I would not single out any nationality and say I would/would not be with them.
It would be most likely to happen with someone from a similar culture though.
It would be most likely to happen with someone from a similar culture though.
Of corse the most important thing is to fall in love. ...
i voted for ' if it is important to my other half"
I almost voted for only if it's someone really special but them decided that's kind of a given - marriage wouldn't be absolutely necessary - but if it was important to my partner I would with a prenup - to protect both of us
I almost voted for only if it's someone really special but them decided that's kind of a given - marriage wouldn't be absolutely necessary - but if it was important to my partner I would with a prenup - to protect both of us
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