Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
sadclownlaughin: name it like you want to... but i dont like them german guys and there is just one other nationality that i can accept to live with. And i havent said i would take evryody.... All of us are attracted by anything. Like many men dont want to have kids from an other man... Maybe i should relocate to raise my chances?;
Honey, I would think about selling my soul to relocate to find a true love. The US definatly does NOT have it in the stars for me.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Sunnydaze14: But seriously, we'll all get old someday, wouldnt it be nicer with another half?
It depends surely if the other half makes your life miserable whats the point, there are other things in life, although women or maybe a woman will be on my agenda
Swissblueeyes: its not so nice if the other half is a rotten bad other half..lol you can be lonely living with someone too.. i know that very well.. lol
Yes, I know that very well myself! Lets just say I wouldnt make the same mistake again!
Sunnydaze14: Just for the people who have been married, would you do it again?
Although my story is different now, once upon a time, in a galaxy far away...I was deeply in love and engaged to be married to my dream girl. She was everything I had wanted, Levis to lace, camping to five star hotels, Chicago to Little House on the Prairie. I almost literally got left alone at the alter. As much as I loved, and appreciated Love, and all its trappings, ("The Tender Trap", you know) I wouldn't go through it again. I think it is fine to have loved and lost, but not to keep getting beat up over it. Nope. I'm done--with formalizing a union, anyhow. Don't wanna get burned again, by ANYONE. Thanx for letting me have my say.
tomcatwarne: It depends surely if the other half makes your life miserable whats the point, there are other things in life, although women or maybe a woman will be on my agenda
Its aobut choosing the right person! But I can be happy on my own, especially when I see how miserable some married people are. The grass is not always greener on the other side, I know that now.
Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
Swissblueeyes: lol..i had the same thing happen to me but im a female..my ex husband couldnt stand me to have a life..if i went shopping once every couple months for clothes, id be gone only a hour then he would be blowing my cell phone up with constant calls leaving voice messages saying hurry up and come home im hungry, when are you gonna make lunch? jeesch..im soooo glad i dont have to deal with him anymore..lol
Some men can be OVER controlling. I wish I could find man Like Jamie in A Cross Stitch in Time by Diana Gabaldon. I read all 7 books. I guess I am too picky being I am almost 40 and never been married. Close twice but, not close enough. We can't all live in fairy tales. Have to look at the real world. How I would Love to wear a gown and have my mom walk me down the Isle in the open grasslands of the Highlands in Scotland. I have dreamed that since I was small child. Wow, ok, I'm rambleing. I should make a blog about this LOL!
rohaan: Although my story is different now, once upon a time, in a galaxy far away...I was deeply in love and engaged to be married to my dream girl. She was everything I had wanted, Levis to lace, camping to five star hotels, Chicago to Little House on the Prairie. I almost literally got left alone at the alter. As much as I loved, and appreciated Love, and all its trappings, ("The Tender Trap", you know) I wouldn't go through it again. I think it is fine to have loved and lost, but not to keep getting beat up over it. Nope. I'm done--with formalizing a union, anyhow. Don't wanna get burned again, by ANYONE. Thanx for letting me have my say.
cherrybrandy: do you mean you are attracted by nationality?thats interesting..
you are recducing my words to lowest level. Thats not right. But the american way of life is diffrent then a german or italian. I think in that poit you can agree or not?
Colleene1024: Some men can be OVER controlling. I wish I could find man Like Jamie in A Cross Stitch in Time by Diana Gabaldon. I read all 7 books. I guess I am too picky being I am almost 40 and never been married. Close twice but, not close enough. We can't all live in fairy tales. Have to look at the real world. How I would Love to wear a gown and have my mom walk me down the Isle in the open grasslands of the Highlands in Scotland. I have dreamed that since I was small child. Wow, ok, I'm rambleing. I should make a blog about this LOL!
I hope you do meet that good man and have the dream wedding. Just be sure not to settle..Its worse than being alone.
Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
rohaan: Although my story is different now, once upon a time, in a galaxy far away...I was deeply in love and engaged to be married to my dream girl. She was everything I had wanted, Levis to lace, camping to five star hotels, Chicago to Little House on the Prairie. I almost literally got left alone at the alter. As much as I loved, and appreciated Love, and all its trappings, ("The Tender Trap", you know) I wouldn't go through it again. I think it is fine to have loved and lost, but not to keep getting beat up over it. Nope. I'm done--with formalizing a union, anyhow. Don't wanna get burned again, by ANYONE. Thanx for letting me have my say.
Sweetheart, You should NEVER give up on love. I'm almost 40 and I am still hopful. I have been engaged twice. The first time I was 5 months pregnant. The father said give up the baby or give up me. It was 3 days before our wedding day. Flowers, and everything were arranged. Calling the guests to cancel was the hardest thing I ever had to do. As for the camping and little house on the prarie...Must have been wonderful. That has always been one of my dreams. Have a farm and stable out in the middle of nowhere. I'm telling you, NEVER give up on love.
sadclownlaughin: you are recducing my words to lowest level. Thats not right. But the american way of life is diffrent then a german or italian. I think in that poit you can agree or not?
I think the american way of life has spread and there is not much difference wherever you live nowadays. But surely you love a person before their way of life or nationality? There nationality is not relevant.
sadclownlaughin: you are recducing my words to lowest level. Thats not right. But the american way of life is diffrent then a german or italian. I think in that poit you can agree or not?
well i met a handsome, intelligent, light blonde hair blue eyed german man who rocked my world..unfortunately he didnt want to be only with one woman..lol i would hope not all german men are like this..maybe he came to the states and learned this from the american guys? lol
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
cherrybrandy: i dont know True.. iv e seen happy married couples and hatefull ones..
so have i....i just wonder sometimes...what the hecks going on...???.men/women. seem to be at each others throats...is he/she...going to take the advatage...of me.if a problem arises.....say a car repair/or whatever...should be able to sit down ...and discussit...so both parties are happyabout it...i have faith in her..and she with me....thats the advantage.
Colleene1024: Honey, I would think about selling my soul to relocate to find a true love. The US definatly does NOT have it in the stars for me.
I know: the USA is not the land where milk and honey flow..... maybe i am not german enough for my own homeland. I was raised with the positiv tough of the US spirit and i love it and i dont want to missit. Maybe we should exchange our appartments for a while, then you can take a closer look on the german guys. '' ''
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
sadclownlaughin: you are recducing my words to lowest level. Thats not right. But the american way of life is diffrent then a german or italian. I think in that poit you can agree or not?
sorry,dont want to reduce your words to lowest level again,im sure you know best what you want..good luck in finding it..
sadclownlaughin: I know: the USA is not the land where milk and honey flow..... maybe i am not german enough for my own homeland. I was raised with the positiv tough of the US spirit and i love it and i dont want to missit. Maybe we should exchange our appartments for a while, then you can take a closer look on the german guys. '' ''
well the german men i met were "hot" big time..lol but unfortunately he was a player..he loved all women and was going to enjoy as many as he could over here.. hehhe..he was born and raised in germany..love the country and the guys are defintely hot.
Colleene1024: Sweetheart, You should NEVER give up on love. I'm almost 40 and I am still hopful. I have been engaged twice. The first time I was 5 months pregnant. The father said give up the baby or give up me. It was 3 days before our wedding day. Flowers, and everything were arranged. Calling the guests to cancel was the hardest thing I ever had to do. As for the camping and little house on the prarie...Must have been wonderful. That has always been one of my dreams. Have a farm and stable out in the middle of nowhere. I'm telling you, NEVER give up on love.
Well said, Never give up on love. Sorry about your story, that must have been very hard for you
Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
Swissblueeyes: I hope you do meet that good man and have the dream wedding. Just be sure not to settle..Its worse than being alone.
Blue honey, I am almost 40 and still single. I will NEVER settle for second best. I may grow old and die alone but, I will not settle for second best. That has always been my number one saying. Never settle for second best.
rohaan: Although my story is different now, once upon a time, in a galaxy far away...I was deeply in love and engaged to be married to my dream girl. She was everything I had wanted, Levis to lace, camping to five star hotels, Chicago to Little House on the Prairie. I almost literally got left alone at the alter. As much as I loved, and appreciated Love, and all its trappings, ("The Tender Trap", you know) I wouldn't go through it again. I think it is fine to have loved and lost, but not to keep getting beat up over it. Nope. I'm done--with formalizing a union, anyhow. Don't wanna get burned again, by ANYONE. Thanx for letting me have my say.
My mind is my worst enemy .
It took 12 years of my life to realize ....she didn`t break me I broke myself
Colleene1024: Some men can be OVER controlling. I wish I could find man Like Jamie in A Cross Stitch in Time by Diana Gabaldon. I read all 7 books. I guess I am too picky being I am almost 40 and never been married. Close twice but, not close enough. We can't all live in fairy tales. Have to look at the real world. How I would Love to wear a gown and have my mom walk me down the Isle in the open grasslands of the Highlands in Scotland. I have dreamed that since I was small child. Wow, ok, I'm rambleing. I should make a blog about this LOL!
Dear Colleene, If you can find it in the vidieo stores, check out " Murriels Wedding ". I think you will enjoy it . . . .
Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
sadclownlaughin: I know: the USA is not the land where milk and honey flow..... maybe i am not german enough for my own homeland. I was raised with the positiv tough of the US spirit and i love it and i dont want to missit. Maybe we should exchange our appartments for a while, then you can take a closer look on the german guys. '' ''
If only I spoke German and had the money to go there!
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All of us are attracted by anything. Like many men dont want to have kids from an other man...
Maybe i should relocate to raise my chances?;
Honey, I would think about selling my soul to relocate to find a true love. The US definatly does NOT have it in the stars for me.