Am really trying to move forward but it is hard. Am afraid to "loose" the happy memories of her. Good thing that I have found someone who is very understanding but she can never take my wife's place.
Not that we want to either.
I am pretty sure you will NEVER loose the good memories of a person you where so close. And you shouldnt be afraid of. Another woman would share a new prat of your life with you but will never take away what you have had. And i am sure no one would try to.
i was married for it would have been 32 years last month. but divorced in 2007.like to maybe get marry again. but only if the chemistry is there and that i know this is the true love of my life.i got married in 1978,due to my family health issues. i had 4 kids and was in a bad marriage. but stay due to the kids. i would also think of maybe just living together under the same roof some also first before jumping into a marriage again.but if i know it is the real deep love with the person then if he wants it,i would get married then.other wise.live together at first this time around.to make sure it is for real and deep this time.
grannyluvsu47: i was married for it would have been 32 years last month. but divorced in 2007.like to maybe get marry again. but only if the chemistry is there and that i know this is the true love of my life.i got married in 1978,due to my family health issues. i had 4 kids and was in a bad marriage. but stay due to the kids. i would also think of maybe just living together under the same roof some also first before jumping into a marriage again.but if i know it is the real deep love with the person then if he wants it,i would get married then.other wise.live together at first this time around.to make sure it is for real and deep this time.
If that is what you truly want, I am for it--we all need to do what our hearts desires are. Proceed with caution--it is so easy to get the same bad type twice. Be careful.
grannyluvsu47: i was married for it would have been 32 years last month. but divorced in 2007.like to maybe get marry again. but only if the chemistry is there and that i know this is the true love of my life.i got married in 1978,due to my family health issues. i had 4 kids and was in a bad marriage. but stay due to the kids. i would also think of maybe just living together under the same roof some also first before jumping into a marriage again.but if i know it is the real deep love with the person then if he wants it,i would get married then.other wise.live together at first this time around.to make sure it is for real and deep this time.
I don't think she meant for it to type out that way--(sorry for the input, but she didn't answer). Sometimes people have a hard time getting what they are trying to say into words. It's a bit of an art. (I took it that she couldn't leave the marriage because of health issues, and needed to make sure the kids were provided for. It's a story as old as the hills. God love her. JMO
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