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Jun 18, 2011 7:08 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
Nikogas: LOL,,,so basically I don;t understand and the other I won't put in english..;lol, The flat i rented was near the bridge of Chains, and on the other end was Erzsébet, utca, where I caught the tram,, they were filming steven spielberg's "Munich" while I was there,,I cut hair sometimes in a small salon, that was very fun..drank Dreher beer and Palinka then danced all night..lol,,the girl I was seeing is now one of the singers in a band there called Quantum Cowboys,,,We are still friends,,,so many good memories there,,I would be surprised if I did not return one day,
;-}


yes the last word ---> don't put it in english unless there is hungarian around here...grin
oh bridge of chains, the Danube, yes i used to jogging there back and forth and stopped at milenia park. bought some gyros. pork gyros made by greeks is the best. thumbs up
I still keep palinka here in indo, no one dare to touch my luggages with Diplomatic Luggages scold thats how i passed the custom in jakarta tongue brought few bottles of 70% wine too. wine
one day i'll be back there, too many memories. but i'll see if i still have opportunity for that, need to renew my visa tho.
wait, Quantum Cowboys? one of my friend working for Neo FM there when they got invited to the radio. its 2010!! wow i wish i knew it. moping
Jun 18, 2011 7:11 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
better than murder lol been there done that.
Jun 18, 2011 7:21 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
kitten5121: yes the last word ---> don't put it in english unless there is hungarian around here...
oh bridge of chains, the Danube, yes i used to jogging there back and forth and stopped at milenia park. bought some gyros. pork gyros made by greeks is the best.
I still keep palinka here in indo, no one dare to touch my luggages with Diplomatic Luggages thats how i passed the custom in jakarta brought few bottles of 70% wine too.
one day i'll be back there, too many memories. but i'll see if i still have opportunity for that, need to renew my visa tho.
wait, Quantum Cowboys? one of my friend working for Neo FM there when they got invited to the radio. its 2010!! wow i wish i knew it.
Dear Kitten. It has been a pleasure posting with you and oh yeah I did find one place here to buy Palinka and Unicum. there is only one liqour store in this state that has it...lol. I keep it around to share with some friends if they want to sample it.
Egesegedre!
;-}
Jun 18, 2011 7:23 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
I remember one time in the 80's and there was a referendum on divorce and my uncle and I were on our way to vote. He pointed out to me that we were not great canditates to be deciding that as we were both single. We concluded that if the Church was against it that that was a good enough reason to vote for it.grin
Jun 18, 2011 7:29 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
gleneagle: I remember one time in the 80's and there was a referendum on divorce and my uncle and I were on our way to vote. He pointed out to me that we were not great canditates to be deciding that as we were both single. We concluded that if the Church was against it that that was a good enough reason to vote for it.


Well, laugh I suppose that is a good enough reason as any... laugh
Jun 18, 2011 7:31 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
It happens....
Jun 18, 2011 7:36 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
Nikogas: Dear Kitten. It has been a pleasure posting with you and oh yeah I did find one place here to buy Palinka and Unicum. there is only one liqour store in this state that has it...lol. I keep it around to share with some friends if they want to sample it.
Egesegedre!
;-}


Nice posting with u too, bring back of good times while im there. nice to share it with u here. I can't find any here in Jakarta, because the hig alcohol % and even i can find it is very expensive. All i can do is ask my colegues at the embassy to bring it to me while they coming here.

Egeseg !! cheers cheers

Sziaa wave
Jun 18, 2011 7:48 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
mariespoodles: I was referring to the fish in the bowl post



Grapes are sour.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 18, 2011 7:50 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
rameez13: It can be by mistake and it is solution too. You can not find answer that will satisfy you from these forums. You are from the society which have best guidance on this subject and any other society can not even dream of its felxity and realism. Though many societies have tried to simplify it by manmade laws but they can not succeed, sofar we see.



Divorce is a BIG mistake.frustrated
Jun 18, 2011 8:08 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
Merriweather: I listen to friends who speak about their Divorce, and I often wonder if its much worse than being Widowed.

There is inevitably the feeling that divorces are costly and controlling in some cases..


A lot of people said when I lost my hubby... how very sad etc, but as time goes on,

I wonder if I have come out the winner in some ways... at least emotionally... I dont know.

I have never remarried, therefore I have never been divorced.


Divorce worse than being widow.

Not a matter of cost.

Sad to here u have lost ur hubby.

U are always winner.

Remarriage........... angel teddybear
Jun 18, 2011 8:11 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
postivethinker: Divorce is a BIG mistake.



But so is marriage sometimesgrin angel devil
Jun 18, 2011 8:11 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
trishna: its a big mistake
Jun 18, 2011 8:12 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Merriweather: Hey Tom,

I guess I did not explain it well then... I was married, my hubby died... I never remarried... therefore I have never divorced...

Does that make sense..???



Ok, sorry.hug
Jun 18, 2011 8:14 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
tomcatwarne: But so is marriage sometimes



Some times not always.
Jun 18, 2011 9:00 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
lorind: and even you dont know ur self. Your mom too, she doesnt know u 100%.
Thats why..there is must be trust,patience,and accept ur soulmate's weakness as a gift
cos you deserved to be their complement..


Not everybody can or will trust, be patient or accept someone.
Some people take the easy way out of a relationship.

And some who end up in a abusive relationship find divorce the only solution.Not that I blame them I'd get out of that kind of relationship too.
Jun 18, 2011 9:09 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
maryrachelle: Relationships are not meant to last forever otherwise we would all be with our first boyfriend/girlfriend that had ever fallen in love with.



Funny you said that because 7 out of 10 of my friends (yep, that's all I have are 10)...lol they are ALL with their first loves...took some of them several marriages, being with different people or just finding them again to be back where they should never have left.....for some not all.

Divorce is a terrible thing especially when there are kids involved. Mine were some of them.

I personally would rather be happy single than miserably married.

My kids were not happy either. hug
Jun 18, 2011 9:29 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
postivethinker: Grapes are sour.


ok post ... whatever rocks ya boat bro!! thumbs up laugh
Jun 18, 2011 9:40 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
postivethinker: Divorce worse than being widow.

Not a matter of cost.

Sad to here u have lost ur hubby.

U are always winner.

Remarriage...........


What?!!! REALLY?!!!!doh

laugh
Jun 18, 2011 9:45 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
postivethinker: Divorce worse than being widow.

Not a matter of cost.

Sad to here u have lost ur hubby.

U are always winner.

Remarriage...........



Whether it's being divorced or widowed you still grieve.

Not everyone chooses to remarry.I have no plans on remarrying again.
Jun 18, 2011 9:53 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
Ccincy: Whether it's being divorced or widowed you still grieve.

Not everyone chooses to remarry.I have no plans on remarrying again.


WHAT?! wow conversingcomfort

laugh
Jun 18, 2011 9:55 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
menu2: WHAT?!


Oh hush you.laugh Shall I type in upper case lettering.laugh
Jun 18, 2011 10:34 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
Ccincy: Whether it's being divorced or widowed you still grieve.

Not everyone chooses to remarry.I have no plans on remarrying again.

thumbs up
Jun 18, 2011 11:23 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
reb56: better than murder lol been there done that.



Ofcourse better than murder.
Jun 18, 2011 11:29 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
gleneagle: I remember one time in the 80's and there was a referendum on divorce and my uncle and I were on our way to vote. He pointed out to me that we were not great canditates to be deciding that as we were both single. We concluded that if the Church was against it that that was a good enough reason to vote for it.
thumbs up
Jun 18, 2011 11:35 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
nocturnal7
nocturnal7nocturnal7London, Greater London, England UK50 Posts
postivethinker: Divorce is a BIG mistake.
divorce is not meant to be fun or taken lightly. its a last resort when everything else has failed. doh
Jun 18, 2011 11:38 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
Uniquemom61: Funny you said that because 7 out of 10 of my friends (yep, that's all I have are 10)...lol they are ALL with their first loves...took some of them several marriages, being with different people or just finding them again to be back where they should never have left.....for some not all.

Divorce is a terrible thing especially when there are kids involved. Mine were some of them.

I personally would rather be happy single than miserably married.

My kids were not happy either.



thumbs up
Jun 18, 2011 11:48 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
nocturnal7: divorce is not meant to be fun or taken lightly. its a last resort when everything else has failed.



What is everything else ?confused
Jun 18, 2011 11:51 AM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
nocturnal7
nocturnal7nocturnal7London, Greater London, England UK50 Posts
postivethinker: What is everything else ?
that would be between the two people in the marriage, wouldnt it.wine
Jun 18, 2011 12:27 PM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
nocturnal7: that would be between the two people in the marriage, wouldnt it.



Ofcourse. Has anyone else tried to solve everythink else.
Jun 18, 2011 12:32 PM CST D I V O R C E ? ?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
likeshugs: Don't you mean married? If you don't get married again, you don't have to worry about divorce.

btw mine should be finished in two months. Can't hardly wait!!!!


No I didn't mean married!! I meant I'm not ever getting divorced again!!!

So IF I ever get married again, I best make sure I do it with someone I am positively certain that WE are BOTH prepared to work on our relationship, like an "ongoing loving project" where we are capable of conversing and comfort and hug and tongue and laugh and yay and sad flower and love and reunion and dance and bowing smitten

You get my drift?


Congrats on your up coming "official freedom" wine
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