What Would be your Ideal first date
Going to a movie
11
6%
Cuddling on the couch
17
10%
Going out to eat
39
22%
candlelit dinner
28
16%
roller skating
5
3%
dancing
8
5%
take a walk holding hands
36
21%
playing pool
10
6%
bowling
8
5%
going to a concert
12
7%
Total Votes
174
have fun...
How often have you burnt
regularly
7
7%
often
1
1%
sometimes
18
18%
a couple of times
28
28%
never
31
31%
I use microwave
6
6%
I get take aways
1
1%
other, pls elaborate
6
6%
I am not a CS member
2
2%
Total Votes
100
How often have you burnt your dinner, because you were trapped in CS?...
Lets burst his flower-box ....
Yes thats fun and positive way to start a week
37
52%
No its stupid and childish
23
32%
other
11
15%
Total Votes
71
Fallingman hasnt been online for THREE (3) days!!! in sequence. Word association lays dormant threads have been neglected! Its not fair Lets ALL send him flowers (or boys send bottles) as if there was no t...
When you don't get your own way
Do you sulk?
6
8%
Do you get aggressive?
8
10%
Do you retreat to your inner personality?
5
6%
Do you brush it off with Dillusions of grandeure
3
4%
Do you try to work out why and try to rationalise?
23
30%
Do you try to work it out and learn your lesson?
15
19%
Do you go into denial?
1
1%
Do you throw a tantrum?
5
6%
Do you turn to stimulia to deflect the blow?
2
3%
Other...please detail......
9
12%
Total Votes
77
People do all sorts of things when they don't get what they want.Whether this be a relationship or even a promotion at work. What of the above have you resorted to, if your brave and honest enough to admit to it. Psychology, don't you just love...Read more
Regarding the stories we read here, what do YOU think might have led to the breake-ups or divorces?
He's definately a liar.
2
3%
She's definately a liar.
8
11%
They (the couple) are probably both liars.
10
13%
I support ALL/MOST sob stories out of courtesy.
4
5%
He probably doesn't exist
1
1%
She probably doesn't exist
0
0%
I tend to ignore the drama, don't care really!
31
41%
I really beleive she has a problem n' it's not him
1
1%
I really beleive he has a problem and it's not her
4
5%
There are psychos everywhere, who knows! Scary!
14
19%
Total Votes
75
P.S. This poll does not refer to any one specific post. Ok. we've read a gazzillion stories here that make losers of our exes. The thing that inspired the poll was that, we have both male and female friends here whom we always support. Thing...Read more
Best Micheal Gondry movie..
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
5
31%
Dave Chappelle's Block Party
5
31%
the Science of Sleep
5
31%
Be Kind Rewind
1
6%
Total Votes
16
Micheal Gondry has to be one of my favorite directors. How about you?...
WOMEN POLL.. Which kind of Men are u interested in
Alpha Male... dominant and muscular
15
11%
Sensitive caring and attentive type
45
33%
Funny Guy
8
6%
Sensible Provider Guy
5
4%
Rich Guy
7
5%
Sexy aloof and unavailable guy
3
2%
Nerdy Intellectual Guy
2
1%
Quirky, funny, Intelligent Guy
52
38%
Total Votes
137
C'mon Girls!!! ......
Who wants Ambrose
to reconciliate with his ex-wife
17
25%
for herself if he lived near her
28
41%
to stay single forever
23
34%
Total Votes
68
How many times have you been in love?
Just once
37
26%
Never
13
9%
A couple of times
57
40%
Three to five times
28
20%
I can't even count them
8
6%
Total Votes
143
When you've been Stood up.....Do you...
Call, or email and ask "what happend last night?"
95
56%
Ignore that person and never speak to them again
44
26%
Act like it never happend
15
9%
Call them up and give them holy hell!
8
5%
Something much worse!
8
5%
Total Votes
170
Ok, I have been on this site for several years but have taken a break to give dating a try locally...now I remember why I came here! This guy at work asked me out tonight, even called me a few hours ago to let me know that he was headed home to ge...Read more
How long have you been on this site looking for... love?
One week
57
36%
One month
38
24%
Six months
17
11%
One year
8
5%
More than one year
22
14%
Given up looking but stay for the forums
18
11%
Total Votes
160
Now I'm assuming that everyone initially joined this site looking for love. So wondering how long you've been 'here'. Understandly things change and that may no longer be true but you've stayed anyway coz the forums provide something for you....
Does a profile name affect your decision to initiate or reciprocate contact?
Yes
61
52%
No
57
48%
Total Votes
118
Sometimes I scan through the profiles and I'm always intrigued by the profile names. Some I do find offensive and hey that's quite an achievement coz I'm very open minded. Just wondering if anyone else feels this way. Or not?...
Do you like the feature of being able to hide your profile?
yes, because
51
40%
No, because
9
7%
I never hide, what for?
53
41%
Its only a feature to get attention
5
4%
It should look different to being banned
11
9%
Total Votes
129
There's someone For Everyone
Yes
182
63%
No
32
11%
Not Sure
74
26%
Total Votes
288
I thought no at one time but have since changed my mind...
minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?
3 months in regular physical contact w/ the kids
24
39%
2 wks
1
2%
one sunday
4
6%
few phones, pics and a visit
2
3%
-we know best for kids
9
15%
if we are happy theyll be happy
22
35%
Total Votes
62
wondering what people think on this issue nowadays if a guy is willing to move in right away it sets off so many alarm bells for me- mostly that he doesnt have a maturity to put a childs needs first. last time i got in a relationship that may...Read more
Are you here to...
Really meet someone
103
66%
Talk and write to another person to become friends
31
20%
Have a cyber relationship
3
2%
Mess with peoples heads
9
6%
Goof around because mom/dad said it was ok
1
1%
meet Gilly
9
6%
Total Votes
156
Ok, this poll came about from another thread. I'm curious to see why we are really here....
Which do you prefer?
Irish Wit
278
23%
Scottish Fire
98
8%
English understatedness
69
6%
American brashness
100
8%
French style
41
3%
Welsh singing
19
2%
Italian passion
207
17%
Bulgarian Yoghurt
31
3%
Cornish jokes!
28
2%
None of these but something else...
340
28%
Total Votes
1,211
For each one of us there are certain traits in others that appeal to us. Which of these (stereotypes I admit) does it for you? If you prefer other characteristics write them in the thread and tick the "None" box....
What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
good looks
23
7%
honesty
161
46%
loyalty
96
27%
humor
35
10%
intelligence
30
9%
askgilly
7
2%
Total Votes
352
And if you ddn't pick #1, why don't you reply to the less attractive people?...
True love?
Grows between two people over time
134
44%
Happens immediately
16
5%
Happens when you least expect it
157
51%
Total Votes
307
What do you think?...
Why Are You Still Single?
I prefer being single, with so much to choose from
46
4%
I prefer being single, relationships; to much work
45
4%
I preferred being single but I'm ready for more no
78
6%
I don't know what I want & make bad choices
72
6%
I've been really hurt and don't trust any more
192
15%
I know what I want and refuse to settle for less
282
23%
The person I like is geographically undesirable
42
3%
No one seems to realize how much I have to offer
283
23%
I'm a crusty old b*stard/b*tch, who would have me?
77
6%
Other
131
10%
Total Votes
1,248
This was brought up on a Thread Yesterday and a Few people seemed to thing it was a good idea, so here it is. While some of you on CS have found your mate, there are many of us still single. Most people on the forums seem to be intelligent, int...Read more
Best thing to do on Valentines day when you have no valentine......
Go straight home and hide in your room.
25
8%
Spend the evening chatting online with others
42
14%
Go sit at a Starbucks and hope to meet someone
14
5%
Work out twice as long at the gym
16
5%
Be your own Valentine and treat yourself
78
26%
Watch "lover" movies alone
13
4%
Pretend its just another day
70
23%
Make plans to avoid this problem next year
20
7%
Leave yourself love notes on your phone.
10
3%
Send yourself a valentine and lie about it
11
4%
Total Votes
299
Valentine's Day is Coming! Do you have plans? Are you all alone again? Take this poll and share your strategy for getting thru this national holiday without a lover....
For you to be impressed by someone, he/she must have:
physical features i find irresistible
42
17%
great skills
25
10%
a personality that doesn't suck
178
73%
Total Votes
245
"If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
agree
66
13%
disagree
460
Total Votes
526
What do u think about the statement. Just want to know ur reaction.....
DATING!!!
Looks
7
6%
personality
36
31%
inbetween
74
63%
Total Votes
117
When looking for a significant other do u think looks are important... or personality???...
Is there any chance I will meet someone normal on these site, full of weirdos I say?
Not a chance
26
20%
You would be better off if you put up a picture
33
26%
Be careful there are alot of strange people
9
7%
You will be patient and honest
6
5%
I would like to meet you
1
1%
Take a chance, get out there, don't be so serious!
19
15%
Exchange email addresses that way its intimate
2
2%
You would never meet anyone full stop!
0
0%
Of course you will, you seem lovely.
3
2%
Best of luck, I still have not found anyone either
28
22%
Total Votes
127
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