I'll be courageous or ignorant enough to admit that of the few relationships I have had, the success rate for me was fairly good; it's a 50/50 chance of it developing into something more meaningful.
Our own feelings... That makes several ways to define when we can call it love. A sweet person on here wrote me that love is a like a long illness. I agree on this. When I love I feel like ill because it makes my heart suffer in a way. Differently than when I hurt my body, but it suffers anyway.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
In love, that crazy mixed up giddy scared excited conglomeration of feelings, has happened to me a few times. Having that turn into something more, a warm comforting happy to be with you feeling, well I've had that less, but still, it doesn't have to be forever to be real. Love is love, it's all real. For all it's ups and downs, it's still worth it.
Love isn't just something you feel, it's something you do.
alabamabebe: In love, that crazy mixed up giddy scared excited conglomeration of feelings, has happened to me a few times. Having that turn into something more, a warm comforting happy to be with you feeling, well I've had that less, but still, it doesn't have to be forever to be real. Love is love, it's all real. For all it's ups and downs, it's still worth it.
Love isn't just something you feel, it's something you do.
3 times I have loved wonderful men... and walked away from them for incredibly stupid reasons... I hope I've changed enough not to make the same mistake again if the opportunity for love presents itself again.
shipoker55: never....and can't see it happening in the near or distant future
I too sometimes feel this way Ship.
As I age I at times wonder if instead of holding out and hopeing to draw r the "love" card. I should go for the compatibility and convenience card instead.
As in all gambles, sometimes you just gotta bet big, other times just breaking even is considered winning
Just once I thought I was in love about 3 times before but now that I have found Joey and know what real true love feels like i know now this is the only time I have ever been IN LOVE. I will never love another man.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Iceprincess81: Just once I thought I was in love about 3 times before but now that I have found Joey and know what real true love feels like i know now this is the only time I have ever been IN LOVE. I will never love another man.
I LOVE YOU JOEY!!!!!
flippin heck I'm confused now.. I thought it was Jason.
HJFinAZ: Is not reality we "love" only ourselves and thus the reason we are alone?
Think about it (for those that can really get honest) and how truly selfish most really are..
You're right, I totally forgot about loving myself. I should have voted "just the once" instead of "never" ..no wonder "just the once option" has such an high number of votes ...
Iceprincess81: Just once I thought I was in love about 3 times before but now that I have found Joey and know what real true love feels like i know now this is the only time I have ever been IN LOVE. I will never love another man.
I LOVE YOU JOEY!!!!!
What will Ross and Chandler say and as for Phoebe, Rachel and Monica.
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
I thinkk once, but I left town when I thought I was, but he is still on my mind. Other than that I fall in love just getting the mail and seeing some handsome guy pass. I have to leave for a Doc's appointment soon and I am sure I will fall "Hard" for someone in that time.
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