DATING!!! ( Archived) (22)

I definitely look for intelligence, a stimulating conversation is an aphrodisiac to me...but in saying that I don't want to have to drink him pretty....

I'm more into inbetween, but I don't date much anymore.

I don't know. It's not as fun anymore like it used to be. So, I let them call me and ask me out, not the other way around anymore.

I guess it's because I might be moving back to the southeast (my home) later this year and really don't want to get too much involved with anyone here in Arizona. Also, I'm just tired of the rat race too. Just being me.

Depending upon your gender, looks and personality are secondary to one's bank accounts: Income, chequing, savings and of course the portfolio of stocks and bonds for all too many women, though it now seems to be a major criteria for males also.
Looks with/ and a positive personality are like finding the elusive 4-leaf clover or perhaps winning a lottery. Looks without a positive and pleasant personality for many of either gender would seem to be akin to having a cheap, lousy blow-up doll; form but no substance...though mind you, I have met some with an entire "shopping list" checking off each item as if in a store...ie. other than the financial: type of job, education, "the right schools", the type of car they have, where they purchase their clothes, clubs they go to, sports(if any),who their family is, etc. Seems to be only getting worse, especially among "the haves" and "have nots" in my observations...Makes me wonder what kind of people buy into that....sad.

Personality, definitely.
I really couldn't care less what someone looks like.
I'm one of those people who have truly gotten beyond the physical.
One of the most gorgeous men I ever knew, had a disfigured face from having been a burn victim. He got that way through his selfless act as a fireman saving a family.
To just look at the guy, people would have called him ugly, but knowing his personality, it was difficult to see him as anything except a beautiful hero.
Looks mean nothing.
It's what's in someone's head and heart that matter.

Personality without a douubt. I'm not concerned about someone's looks. The most haqndsome man or beautiful woman will not stay that way forever. I want to be with a person of substance, not someone that is a "trophy". Beauty to me is what is on the inside of a person, looks are just the wrapper.

Personality over looks works for me...........someone who is witty and likes to laugh lots is a stand out....

Simplicity.........why complicate things with too much expectation?

Its like every second profile is after prince charming or some princess and they dont exist.......why look for them.......

Hey I was married to a princess and cost me my kingdom....lol



Except people for who they are..............

Mental and Physical attraction are both very important... I feel I look for someone similar to my self

I have the personality..... she has the looks....

This is SOOOOO true! I've dated some really great looking guys that had the worst personalities ever (too grumpy, too shy, too much of a butthole, or self-centered). It was too much drama for me.

So, I go more for personalities.

BINGO!!!!