Do you like to cuddle?
Only in winter
3
2%
All the time
84
66%
I detest it
1
1%
Depends on my mood.
39
31%
Total Votes
127
This is my first Poll. Curious to know you like to cuddle....
Age difference in dating poll
0 – 5 years older
10
16%
5 – 10 years older
17
27%
15 - 20 years older
3
5%
20 - 25 years older
2
3%
25 – 30 years older
2
3%
0 – 5 years younger
2
3%
5 – 10 years younger
8
12%
10 - 15 years younger
6
9%
15 - 20 years younger
9
14%
25 – 30 years younger
5
8%
Total Votes
64
would you date much older or much younger? benefits of older are? benefits of younger are? chat and vote now...
WHY MARRY?
for financial security.
4
7%
to tell the world that you're loved by this person
31
52%
for a fancy wedding
1
2%
to stop others straying into your territory
0
0%
because you've never tried it
2
3%
for the sake of the children
1
2%
because it's what my Church wants
1
2%
I don't agree with marriage
20
33%
Total Votes
60
I was married for 33yrs and I still don't know the answer to this question. I know that getting divorced was a nightmare!...
What makes a friend a friend?
someone who is always up for a lark
10
13%
someone who knows when you want to be alone
2
3%
someone who will listen when you're ranting
4
5%
someone who never gives up on you
40
51%
friends are the family you choose
23
29%
Total Votes
79
When you're going through a tough time do you want to be left alone until you are ready to party again, or do you expect your closest friend to take all your crap, even when you lash out? :cheers...Read more
What's most important thing in the relationship
Trust
50
38%
Honesty
30
23%
Sex
11
8%
Respect
13
10%
Money
3
2%
Compatabilty
21
16%
Other
5
4%
Total Votes
133
What would you say ?...
Dating…What happens…when most women…don’t get their own way?
They cry
5%
1 Votes
They have a tantrum and break things
10%
2 Votes
They shame a man
0%
0 Votes
They will give the man silent treatment
24%
5 Votes
They will deny a man sex
10%
2 Votes
They will manipulate and try to change a man’s mind
14%
3 Votes
They shout angrily at a man
0%
0 Votes
They will looked shocked and confused
10%
2 Votes
They will get their friends to shame a man
0%
0 Votes
They will do all of the above
29%
6 Votes
21 Total Votes
Vote now and share your thoughts on the subject only...
can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
yes
24
32%
no
25
33%
maddness
5
7%
greatness
0
0%
true love
1
1%
true desperation
7
9%
i could
0
0%
never going to happen
2
3%
happened to me
2
3%
happened somebody i know
10
13%
Total Votes
76
is it possible?...
Are the members of connecting'singles' really "Single" ??
yes
30
59%
no
21
41%
Total Votes
51
Are the members of connecting'singles' really "Single" ? - Just a thought..!!...
Would you date a local man who e-mails but never calls?
Yes
15
17%
No
72
Total Votes
87
I exchanged e-mails with a man I met online for three weeks. We had one date that went well. However, when I called him and asked if it was a good time to talk, he first said yes then cut me short and said we speak on Saturday. He only called twice i...Read more
How long have you been on this site looking for... love?
One week
57
36%
One month
38
24%
Six months
17
11%
One year
8
5%
More than one year
22
14%
Given up looking but stay for the forums
18
11%
Total Votes
160
Now I'm assuming that everyone initially joined this site looking for love. So wondering how long you've been 'here'. Understandly things change and that may no longer be true but you've stayed anyway coz the forums provide something for you....
i am 42 years old and never had any children of my own do you think i should still hope to or give i
should i still hope to have children
86
should i just give up the thought of it
20
19%
Total Votes
106
the reason for my poll is i have always wanted children. I would be an awsome dad. I love children but have never had any of my own kids i was married once for 23 years and helped my ex-wife raise her 2 children. it is something that i frequently fin...Read more
you already fell in love with someone connectingsingles
love
17
37%
passionate
10
22%
experience on dating sites
19
41%
Total Votes
46
the question is? you a member of this site has already found someone here that you are passionate or are you in love?...
Do you date out of your race?
I only date with in my race
38
26%
I only date outside my race
8
5%
Don't really have a preference
41
28%
Don't focus on race
59
40%
Would be dis owned if I dated out of my race
3
2%
Total Votes
149
Be honest! an this pole was created cuz I do not date out of my race. I wrote a blog about it on here, an got very interesting feed back... I would like to see what other people prefer....
If you saw a really hot woman or man in a local store would you .....
Smile at them
41
47%
Say somthing
9
10%
Ask them out
1
1%
Wink at them
0
0%
Just know she or he was taken
5
6%
She or he would never like you
1
1%
Wonder if she or he was single
12
14%
try to find there face on a date site
1
1%
Do nothing and see if you see her or him again
4
5%
Do nothing about it
14
16%
Total Votes
88
If you saw a really hot woman or man in a local store would you ........
Would you date a male nurse??
yes
42
63%
no
16
24%
maybe
8
12%
there all wimps
1
1%
Total Votes
67
Be honest now!!!!...
Red Flags
Arrogant behaviour in the Forums
3
7%
Won't supply a full-length Photo
4
9%
They refuse to explain what they mean by "curvy"..
2
4%
Obsessive political/religious behaviour
4
9%
He/she shows their genitalia on 1st webcam chat
8
17%
Writes flowery, long, excessively romantic emails
4
9%
Wants you to fill out a 40-part questionnaire
3
7%
He/she talks badly about other people
3
7%
Exhibits insulting and disrespectful behaviour
9
20%
Boasts about sexual prowess
6
13%
Total Votes
46
We all know what Red Flags are. Those warning signs that tell you that the other person is probably not dealing with a full deck of cards. That you may think you're dating Dr Jekyll, but he/she turns into Mr/Mrs Hyde. Something tells you this is not...
What'd you prefer in your partner?
Being clever, and coming out as such
7
15%
Being dumb, and coming out as such
1
2%
Being clever, and pretending to be dumb
1
2%
Being dumb, and trying to be clever
0
0%
Doesn't matter as long as (s)he is sexy
3
7%
Doesn't matter as long as (s)he is kind hearted
13
28%
Doesn't matter as long as (s)he is wealthy
1
2%
Doesn't matter as long as (s)he is faithful, moral
16
35%
Doesn't matter as long as (s)he is a good cook
0
0%
I'm confused :S
4
9%
Total Votes
46
If you met a woman you really liked, but who needed to lose weight would you...
Be by her side every step of the way
21
30%
Train her
5
7%
Tease her
3
4%
Drop her
12
17%
Love her just the way she is
25
35%
Go out with her, but stay out of it. Its her prob
5
7%
Total Votes
71
I want to lose weight. I have lost 25 lbs so far. I gained weight over a period of an abusive marriage, 2 kids, and a lot of sickness. I'm getting better and trying my best though. I also want to get out there and date as...
Do you belive in love?
Yes
54
53%
No
1
1%
Sometimes
8
8%
I believe in love but it has never happened to me
8
8%
I don't believe in love these days
7
7%
Love dosen't exist
2
2%
Yeah! I am in love
3
3%
Love dosen't happen to everyone
5
5%
No is a used up excuse
1
1%
I believe in Love and someday it will happen
12
12%
Total Votes
101
I just want to get an overall view on what is your perspective on love. I've heard to many random opinions on it....
How open minded are you?
Well not too open minded.
10
8%
Conservative!!!!
17
14%
Liberal of course
24
20%
Wips and chains anyone?
16
13%
I welcome anything that is new and different
54
45%
Total Votes
121
I like open minded people because they allow you to express yourself freely. On the other hand I've heard crazy suggestions and very crazy ideas. So I figure I am in the middle path to it....
I will not get involved with another person again
Because I do not want to get hurt
14
17%
Because I don't need another person in my life
5
6%
I don't know how to go about finding someone
7
8%
It's too much like hard work
13
15%
Don't know what I am looking for
5
6%
Unless they can prove to me that they are serious
22
26%
Fed up playing games
18
21%
Total Votes
84
Based on a statement I was told recently by a woman that said she would not get involved with another man....
Do you believe in true love?
Yes
101
75%
No
33
25%
Total Votes
134
Is true love like so many other things in this world that is slowly disappearing into extinction? Have we now reached a point where relationships now have a use by date and have become as easily disposable? Or have we lost the fortitude and values...Read more
How long would (or should) two people date before getting married?
A few days to less than 6 months
5
5%
6 months to 1 year
30
27%
1 to 2 years
22
20%
2 to 3 years
20
18%
3 to 4 years
8
7%
4 to 5 years
2
2%
6 to 8 years
3
3%
8 to 10 years
3
3%
Never. Don't get married.
17
15%
Total Votes
110
Just curious to see what people think. Do you think that the older you get, the shorter the dating length? What are your thoughts?...
Would you date someone with a mental illness? (Please answer)
Yes
26
26%
No
51
50%
Maybe
24
24%
Total Votes
101
I just wondered if anyone would date a person with a mental illness? Be honest....
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