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RE: Acknowledging our mistakes

Dear friend Sundarose1; in subject of 'Acknowledging our mistakes' I like to share another thought that brings felling of harmony with ourselves and others ...
Elisabeth Kubier-Ross (Swiss-born American psychiatrist) said; "If we make our goal to live a life of compassion and unconditional love, than the world will indeed become a garden where all kind of flowers can bloom and grow."
To me facing our own imperfections/mistakes before pointing finger to others is looking for balance within us and universe ...Ending chats on a happy and hopeful note we find tranquillity and our lives are more peaceful. If we consider Love eternal to be ...there will always be a touch of enchantment in the world. Forever friends

RE: Acknowledging our mistakes

Dear Sundayrose1;I like to add that, each person who cross our path of life journey wether to stay short or long time -
we share some lessons of life that shape us in the way we are or become to grow and the same experience is translated differently from each personal views;from where we can reflect what kind of personal attitude towards life in general takes place for each of us. We all have endless opportunity to learn from our own mistakes by taking positive out of everything -even the bad experiences,as for the people who are self center perfectionist which Ego must be carefully pat like a cat who may change the mood and scratch you or become bitter and bite like angry dog and can't gat over they're own blindness ...they do not need judgments and there is no self criticism who can satisfy they're Ego of not trying to push you more down the hill as if being Right is the only thing that matters- than where is love and care for another human well being !? How much wrong one person can be in relationship that makes two to Tango !?
We can agree to disagree, we can fall apart and outgrown our friend or partner but basic qualities that really matters to my point of views is being compassionate human and if quality of sincerity, kindness and meaning well for each other always existed as very base why you where ever close to special someone; how that love of care can disappier if you ever loved your friend or partner to not try seeing things from every angle and give each other hand of understanding, tolerance, forgiveness... to come in harmonious that brings peace and acceptance. It's easier said than done if we found opposite character to be friend or partner so that's why; if you run in life like rocket it's better to find similar kind of nature in friends or partner as 'Rocket never matches with little miny mouse of Mr Bean car or opposite"...
Thank you for kindness of sharing sincere friendship -you're lightening this Blogs with such shiness of thoughts Great Blog !

RE: Acknowledging our mistakes

The road to a healthy relationship in partnership or friendship definitely depends on both side flexibilities and tolerance as if I am going to admit my mistake (if I made a quick judgment that needs correction) I do also expect 2 was street elaboration to look from every angle;why this misunderstanding come in first place !? Some people does not accept to be able making any faults but rather trowing all blame on anyone else so I can be self critical or bashing myself up -while other person insist on perfection !? Yes, if is my fault and I relaise it, I rather come clean as soon as possible to appologies and explain our misfortunate misunderstanding- doesn't matter if person wouldn't give up from self centred perfection attitude :frustrated and if such bad perfectionist attitude thinks it's wining because I am self critical let it be ...but there is no winner in such relation as after this experience - I would rather enjoy quite distance to forgetfulness about person. With friends who are truly flexible and tolerant I don't have any bad misunderstanding that can not be fixed in discasing things reasonable and that's the beauty of showing maturity. Great Blog

RE: Are your bad habits really bad

Bad habit ? Who Me ? Never From all the bad habits all people have I found it worst when someone plays life perfectionist that gets me scared but when I found bad habits, oh that's such a relief

RE: You Can Never Be Free

Catfoot; very good point ! Great subject and Blog. We are limited with freedom even with our own body and how much we learned to use our brain function is also questionable as scientise says that more than half of our brain we do not yet didn't learn how to use We are limited with ignorance of what we do not understand or skills we did not learned yet ...What is freedom ? And yet we are still lucky to live in Western world where we have more 'freedom' than anywhere else...

RE: bad choices good choices

Hello,this is very true and most of us pick friends that are close to our nature and life values we live by but if we pick opposite than it's usually trouble and someone gets hurt...

RE: to day's news

I agree with non-smoker; 'it's time to relax ' and reflect on what can be changed in attitude to gain new perceptions as usually is not the people we need or can change around us but accept and change something about ourselves, maybe profile just like resume needs up date or some different approach ...

RE: One Year Today

Catfoot; in regard to your question "you don't know what I think what you did to deserve happiness" I think you are hear one of the most charming -well balanced - humoristic and well behaved Gentlemen which consistency in friendship and politeness with everyone (as fare I can see) that truly deserves all happiness you earned

RE: One Year Today

Catfoot; Congratulation You earned your happiness

RE: I lost the woman I love

When one door closes another opens but we look for so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that openness to us " It is not healthy to live too much in the past or in the future but being full aware of present time that one's will be history again, history you could regrat not to live fully...and missing out what's in front of you to cherish and appreciate ...Dream and fantasies of the past live in the past for good or this unrealistic dreams may cost you present happiness

RE: in appreciation for responses on loss of friend

I am sorry for your loss Keep the good memories

RE: WOMEN'S POLITICAL, SOCIAL AND CULTURAL RIGHTS

I am so proud of you being women with strong voice of eloquent elaboration

RE: World greatest poet BHATAI says

Yes,I like to read some of he's poems so we can share your admiration for such great poet

RE: Creating reality

Darling reader, I am no different to you. Your dreams can be manifested. It may take some time and constant mental adjustments to maintain your positive mental energy output, but keep your faith in yourself.
Keep smiling at strangers and always notice the beautiful little things.
The world is more full of beauty and magic than anyone knows.

If a thought is helpful-if it contains useful information that could help us to function better.When we are caught up in our thoughts of life worries it's like putting hands covering our eyes in missing out on the world around us but as we move our hands away from our eyes we could see so much more clearly and 'take it all in' so being fully present, aware, attentive and engaged in what is happening in connecting with the world through noticing what we can see, hear, touch, taste and smell is spontaneously defusing from our thoughts where we can connect. It's nice to remind ourselves how important it is to find a reason to smile when things in life doesn't always go so well as we planed

RE: WOMEN'S POLITICAL, SOCIAL AND CULTURAL RIGHTS

Women gets more emancipated and as an result most of us find ourselves more busy working outside and inside home Loll
It's still long way to go in women emancipations in economical and political rights. We can look the basic like;we still have to carry Man surname and women jobs like Child care is less valued/payed than 'Man job' so we still have long way to go in emancipation. Women does not need a man permission to seek for women Rights; we need to take our rights in our hands. On what ground women should be emancipated ? - On what ground any kind of discrimination in society is tolerable and to what extend? On what ground we know how to diferantiate right from wrong ? The way we are broth up makes effect on our beliefs -specially if women is treated as less equal to Man and "can't do" what man does ...so starting from birth learning about equality is important.

RE: cz u

You have to be too young to say "Never again" and by being too afraid to let anyone else in ...you're not making justice to yourself and possibilities. Remember; "When one door closes another openness but we look for so long in closed door that we do not see the one that opens for us"

RE: Who flirts most ?women or men

Flirting is natural and healthy when doing with right person in appropriate timing
I think maybe man doing more flirting as fare I can see around but women picking more success with flirting

RE: Five Steps To Heaven.

PITY YOU HAVEN'T CATCH BIG GOLD FISHE- YOU COULD OF MAKE 3 WISHE

RE: Are We Really Like That?

Hello Catfoot;to answer your question; No I am not born Australian, I am adopted Australian and English is my second language and I proud to be Australian with European background so that's explains my 'interesting English' Loll

RE: Just a thought on this journey, we call life...

Welcome to CS Blogs and I am sorry for what you have to go true ...Surround yourself with people that Love you and do things that makes you happy

RE: Flowercards

I think RESTRAINT yourself in sending too many flower cards to the same person is better way of approach as more than 1 card or flower card could be overwhelming. I have a very dear online friend that is most kind affectionate person that I truly appreciate to know but when he overwhelms me with several cards each day, I feel overwhelmed and too much is too much even from the one that is dear and welcome. Hope you gat my point.

RE: That came as a shock!

this is good humour and so realistic

RE: Being Unique

Hello Catfoot; have a wonderful day

RE: bye bye miss American pie

...the new world order sounds as most probable plan and long term effect could be; going back to Feudalism so we have to start all over again with Evolution of human kind

RE: I Love You But Too Afraid To Tell You!!

GoDaniel,I think if you can meet girl from online and gat to know her better you will come to conclusion what is real about your feelings. As for the girl from the Church you could keep a friendship note and see how it goes ...Daniel,I believed that I've pushed away a few real good man because of dreaming on line and hope you will avoid that mistake but you never know until you discover. Good luck.

RE: to marry or not to marry

If I am shore that I know person very well to spontaneously grow/develop in mutual love connection; in sharing good and bad, than I like to marry and olthough marriage is not certificate for guaranty satisfaction... in my personal views Marriage is the only way I complitely accept real unity of true commitment where good and bad is part of it but I don't like to be involved with man that has crime issues and being jobless can be temporarly issue as there is always job for someone who wants to be prodactive -except if in very handicap.

RE: Hey you

if you switch on the light yourself - darkness will be less... Don't wait for wild thing to do all the work,loll

RE: is this okay?

Niceffet;you are legend in my book of Ladies with straight point of values

RE: Hey you

Wild thing,did she switch on the light or is she still leaving you in dark ? Loll

RE: Take your power back

To take our life in our hands that's a good choice of self empowering and wise approach -not to give our life power to anyone else so we can not view ourselves as victim but the one that has control in our own life choices