Acknowledging our mistakes
The road to a healthy relationship sometimes depends on our willingness to accept our faults and work towards establishing an effort to correct our mistakes.How long would it take, after a misunderstanding has occurred, for you to acknowledge such an effort? How critical is it if any, is the implication on the timing?
Are there moments, when afterwards, realize our errors, have made us say: "Why did I do that?" then what would you do to fix it?
Or do we let it fly in time and forget it happened?
Thanks for all your contributions and participation.
Note: Realizing the sensibility this topic calls on our characters, that doesn't mean we don't make a mistake, and I hope there is a way to make us learn if only to make our life easier in terms of a harmonious relationship?
Thanks again..
SR
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How are you?
Thanks Jarred
Thanks again.
SR
On how long it would take,
Depends on the size of the storm.
On doing something to fix it.
Will fixing it prevent further events repeating, and if so
Forgiveness should not come to hard other wise we would not seek it out
In my experience the best time to fix a problem of any kind is NOW.
thanks and how is my favorite city? Been there many times Bogart and boy don't I treasure your relics of romanticism.
The most difficult thing to explain in life is the simplest truth called love.
A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality.
thanks Wel
When it comes to you to see Norway, it sounds great, and I've been to Colorado in 2010 to visit a friend and her family who live there. Not tempted for another journey yet, but in some years maybe? All in good time, and to finally get to see my friend was awesome for sure! Thank you for the invite... sort of.
AS to a match for me well now I am in trouble its others you see they just cannot accept me as I don't seem to have a set of rules to go by, they change all the time until I don't even know myself
Sorry once again I digress I do get what you mean totally all sides of argument as it were. We meaning one person cannot solve all lifes ills but we could try and accept that that is the way of things.
"Don't ever go to bed feeling mad?"
I see the wisdom there. Don't let it fester and get it out of the way.
Thanks Red. Still raining so hard there? Send some here will you? California badly needs water Red. We are asked, or rather mandatory in water control..
both, Lisbon and Cannes are perfect for living, or visiting. "romantic" also. depends of the partner, and the mood.
i will be back later, when i loose my shyness.
MMMMM maybe I had that wrong. The poems at the moment flew out the window. But dear SR one day when I have gained more of lifes knowledge I will write again.
I wish you everthing that's good a good day at your work
Thanks. I am single and Loving every moment of it.
What mistakes ,it was all a part of life`s way to educate me ..and Life ain`t done with me yet
thanks again /Dedo..
Thank you.
Atamanathan Srinivasan
The most difficult thing to explain in life is the simplest truth called love.
Yes Jarred, that is so true. But sometimes easy as i 2 3 is to break it. Right? Then there is the true and simplest truth of all. No effort exerted to break it and yet so much to earn it.
Love it Jarred.
I will get back on the Dream.
SR
i can see two questions here.
Misunderstandings are not always mistakes.
they can be two very different things, for example,
husband on way out when wife says, Where are you off to at this time of night?
Husband replied i'm off to see the chiropractor.
husband kept going.
Wife says to daughter, i think your dad is having an affair, there are no Chiropractors within 100 miles of here,
Daughter said to Mother,
Mum, Dad said he was going to see the "Choir Practise"
Now thats a MISUNDERSTANDING.
Everyone makes Mistakes in life,
That doesnt mean they have to pay for them the rest of their lives.
Sometimes GOOD people make BAD choices.
It doesnt mean they're BAD,
It means their HUMAN.
BUT
What if you sincerely believed something was true, but you were dead wrong? What if you were so stubbornly sure that you were right, that you wouldn’t even consider the truth? Would the truth be silenced, or would it try to break through?
I think it is best to deal with any misunderstandings as soon as it is realized. Sometimes misunderstandings can breed contempt or distrust. Always best to clear the air early and sort any hurt feelings.
Great blog. Hope all is well!
Now that is entirely up to the both of you I would say, Simmo. First thank you for the laugh, that is so cool. No sugar coating of scenes heading towards misquoting ehh?>???
Now on the last, my question is upon realizing that there is enough justice to consider it your fault. On the presentation of truth and there is no point in creating arguments to sustain evidence, then hello? Lawyer???? or Counselor? perhaps. I am not saying any of what you presented is not true, but either it is or it isn't? Right?
Help? Anybody? Jump in the wagon of Simmo's predicament please?
Take care my friend..
Phyllis