I Love You But Too Afraid To Tell You!!

I feel very confused right now!! There is this girl in my church who I've known for a while but never really talked to her much, anyway yesterday in church we began talking and she gave me her number and asked if we could go out sometime, I told her I would think about it. However there is this lovely young lady I met online, she is so beautifulsmitten smitten inside and out. I've been texting and talking with her, and I can't stop thinking about her but I'm afraid to tell her. I only have eyes for herlove love she is like a beautiful angel sent from heaven abovesmitten smitten
Can anyone help me out???
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I say go for the one at your church. She is real. The girl online sounds good but what are the chances you will ever meet her.
Good luck.
Oh, how nice Daniel! I am so happy that you have finally opened up your heart to me and want to tell you that my feelings for you are the same. What shall we do about it?hug
GD Dear...life is a choice... so before you make a choice, better you go with both of them, you should know them very well before you make decision. you may make a list to know plus and minus of each person...

Good luck dear handshake
laugh Minerve.....
Daniel.... you make me jealous ya...crying
BAB.... I am real BAB, I am real....applause applause even I am online but I am real BAB....yay take me ouuuuutttttyay laugh
Say yes to her Daniel God brouht the two of you togather so don`t let her get away trust the Lord and good luck buddy!handshake yay
First of all, without being explicit, tell the girl in church that you just want to be friends. It may hurt her but it would be worse if you "felt sorry for her" or whatever and you took her out and bolstered her feelings.

If you are really in that type of feeling for the on-line girl then give her a try. The most you will lose is her if she is not being honest with you. When she starts asking for money it is time to back out. If that doesn't happen then she might be the real thing and worth pursuing. Time will tell!
very nice blog,go for what you can see,go for what makes sense you have known the lady from church longer,there is no physical distance between you and her you,you obviously have the same interests.explain this to your online beauty i am sure she will understand after all it's all about the pursuit of happiness.
dont worry BAB... there is a will there is a way..wink
breath and then act.
Your a smart guy Dan. You'll do all right either way
Like they say when it rains it pours.

Why is not possible to go see a movie with your church friend,
and stay in contact with your on line girl .
I mean you haven't committed to either have you. dunno

Just be honest with them
cheers
@B&B..... Thanks for your comment. I think your absolutely right!!
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@Minerva..... I always had my heart opened to you!!
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@Smart...... I still love you too!! Hugs and Kisses!!
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@ Scott..... Your right!! The girl in the church would be the better choice!!handshake thumbs up
@Ed...... I'm gonna take Scott and B&B's advice and go out with the girl in my churchthumbs up thumbs up
@Whtwhb...... Thanks for your comment!!handshake
Danny,
At least give her a chance.
you never know and a bird in the hand...
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@StillOfTheNight..... Thanks for commenting!!
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@Non..... The girl in my church is very sweet. That would be the best prospectthumbs up
You have my best wishes.
Good luck Dan good luck
@Cat..... Long distance relationships are pretty tough. The girl in my church would make a better relationship!!
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@Non...... Thanks again!!handshake thumbs up
Oh Daniel being friends with either or both at this stage would be okay I reckon. One date wow is not a lifetime commitment is it.confused If you then have made contact with girl on line and you both get on enough to meet up well that is different. Or after ONE or two dates with girl from church you find some deeper feelings well then the girl on line will be just a friend.
Wishing you luck in whatever you do.teddybear
Oh Daniel being friends with either or both at this stage would be okay I reckon. One date wow is not a lifetime commitment is it.confused If you then have made contact with girl on line and you both get on enough to meet up well that is different. Or after ONE or two dates with girl from church you find some deeper feelings well then the girl on line will be just a friend.
Wishing you luck in whatever you do.teddybear
Daniel, there is no fright with love. If you give love you will recieve love back. Decide for the girl you like best, and stick to that one! Otherwise you could probably lose both.. dunno dunno

Don't go by what others tell you.You must listen to your own heart. smitten heart wings
@Redex...... Your right, the girl online is only a friend, that's been settled!!thumbs up thumbs up
@Nicefeet..... I agree!! online dating is nothing like in person!!
Oh don't worry about the one in my church, she's mine!!
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I think you should go for the girl from you church, meet her, have a date with her and see how things go. You might be lucky, you might not be lucky, who knows? Give the church girl a try and you will still have your friend online, don't you? Good luck!hug
@Calleis.... Apparently the girl I really love doesn't feel the same way.
It just was not meant to be!! I'll call the girl from my church.
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GOOD LUCK!! wine heart wings
Can't believe you told the church girl you'll think about going out with her! I had asked for my number back!
Seriously, you've nothing to loose and all to win with the girl in real life while the other can be anything you want her to be cos it's all in your head.
Dreams are good but realities are better professor
go get the real women in the church ........the other one online is just a tease to slow you down from following a true path , take your happiness to the real one and get to hold her and kiss her ...the online one can fail and leave you with a double feeling of loss for both of them .....this is a test from god , who are you loyal to ?? God ...or the devil
Daniel, glad you made your decision. I am actually envious of you. I can't remember who said it in your blog but I do believe that God has brought to the right woman for you. Trust in God and yourself. I'll pray for you.
@Calleis..... Thanks I'm sure everything will work out with the girl from churchhandshake thumbs up
@Welela..... I think your absolutely right!! The girl from my church is the onesmitten smitten
@OutsideofBali...... The girl from the church is unanimous!!
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@Virgo.... I think your absolutely right. Online relationships, forget about them!!thumbs up thumbs up
yeah its so hard to hug a computer screen or take it to dinner in a restaurant ...wave hug
there are lots of ways to show your love , but women still like to hear it spoken ...get into a hot tub together , spend lots of time together , ask her how was her day ....wave
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My name is Dan. I was Born and Raised in Lowell, Massachusetts. I am 3/4 French and 1/4 Greek. I do speak some French. I have Dark Brown Eyes and Dark Brown Hair. I attended Elementary and Junior High School in Lowell. I also attended my Freshman yea [read more]

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