Leominster, Massachusetts, USA

Mar 2014

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..... Dating vs. Relationships

When dating a man/woman how long would it be (meaning should there be a time frame) until you actually start calling them a boyfriend/girlfriend?? Or do you just let the relationship take it's own course??

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nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Mar 10, 2014●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

Good question Dan.
I tend to follow the latter part of your question.
I don't like to be pushy or be pushed in any direction, it makes the world feel fabricated. If you understand.

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Gentlejim●unknown, Wisconsin USA

Mar 10, 2014●705 Blogs●4,176 Comments

Hi Dan,

I agree with non! I think things should take there course!

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rapturecapture●kerry, Kerry Ireland

Mar 10, 2014●2 Blogs●330 Comments

Hi Dan

ial

so your talking husband/wife material?

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Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Mar 10, 2014●1,796 Comments

Hi Dan. I agree too, why should there be a time frame?

Only when both partners feel happy with it.
Every language has its own terminology to describe the person you are going out with.
In French, as you know, "Mon amie" or "Ma petite amie" (my friend, or my "little" friend)
Personally, I have never really liked the word boyfriend/girlfriend... Anyway, if you introduce your girlfriend to someone, people can see that she is a girl, so I don´t see any logic in it!

Also, by putting the word "my" in front of anything (my girlfriend/boyfriend, my partner, my lover etc...) implies that that person is your possession like your house and your car...

I would much prefer to say: "this is the man I am in love with", or "this is the love of my life"...

But, that´s the language for you!

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Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Mar 10, 2014●1,796 Comments

Hi Dan. I agree too, why should there be a time frame?

Also, by putting the word "my" in front of anything (my girlfriend/boyfriend, my partner, my lover etc...) implies that that person is your possession like your house and your car...

I would much prefer to say: "this is the man I am in love with", or "this is the love of my life"...

But, that´s the language for you!

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rapturecapture●kerry, Kerry Ireland

Mar 10, 2014●2 Blogs●330 Comments

@123

priceless

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rapturecapture●kerry, Kerry Ireland

Mar 10, 2014●2 Blogs●330 Comments

@ minevar
I would much prefer to say: "this is the man I am in love with", or "this is the love of my life"..

Nice one

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jarred1●eindhoven, North Brabant Netherlands

Mar 10, 2014●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

im very close friend whit my monkey

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jarred1●eindhoven, North Brabant Netherlands

Mar 10, 2014●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

every day whe talk

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 10, 2014●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

#10

if she's planing your week for you and washing your clothes then that would be the time you should have got her a ring .....but really its her decision to make , just like its her remote and what you watch on TV ....

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rapturecapture●kerry, Kerry Ireland

Mar 10, 2014●2 Blogs●330 Comments

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@ Jarred

no monkey business tonight

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lindsyjones●unknown, California USA

Mar 10, 2014●383 Blogs●11,670 Comments

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Hi Dan, how are you, I go with Non and also with Virgo..But that truly depends on the both of you, at least as far as my experience is concerned..

lj

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Calliopesgirl●Nashville, Tennessee USA

Mar 10, 2014●322 Blogs●5,311 Comments

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Don't worry...just let it flow....

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Ribbit777●valetta, Majjistral Malta

Mar 10, 2014●1 Blogs●40 Comments

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When you want to spend more time with them
Miss them when not with them
You promised to call and something came up - it upsets you
They promised to call and haven't

When the time is right you will know.

"My girlfriend" - what is wrong with that?
She hopefully will describe you as her boyfriend to her friends and family

This is the way it will be and was always thus.....

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Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Mar 10, 2014●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

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Go!daniel: I do agree with NonSmok & RC. And i also want to add to this: Is when both people agrees with each other that! They are going to be girlfriend & boyfriend, with each other...

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Catfoot●Around here, Western Cape South Africa

Mar 10, 2014●616 Blogs●16,678 Comments

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Danny
I just go with the flow. You cannot force these things and when you have a time frame attached to it there is no more free choice. Then things become forced.

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loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Mar 10, 2014●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments

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godan
It is a natural progression that has no set time...my guess is when you decide to become mutually exclusive...have a great day!!

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Bogart_1960●Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France

Mar 10, 2014●2,177 Comments

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Daniel,

no rules.

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 10, 2014●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

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when the 2 of you are walking down the street and you are holding each others hands .....

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Scott1812●Claresholm, Alberta Canada

Mar 10, 2014●30 Blogs●395 Comments

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When your both ready my friend no two people are the same so it`s what`s in your hearts!

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ChristinDew●Toronto, Ontario Canada

Mar 10, 2014●64 Blogs●739 Comments

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No rules for that ... Time will tell

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Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Mar 10, 2014●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

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Whenever the mood hits you both.

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danielangelvega●round rock, Texas USA

Mar 10, 2014●111 Blogs●1,102 Comments

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Weren't you using the word (love) earlier in this relationship ? Now your asking for advice

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

Mar 10, 2014●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments

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@Non..... Thanks for your comment!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Jim...... I agree with your comment, thanks!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Butterfly..... No comment, no problem!! Glad you stopped by anyway

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Rapture...... I don't think you really understood the blog!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Minerva..... Thanks for sharing your comment, it makes sense!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Jarred..... Very funny!! LOL

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Virgo..... "A Ring"?? your killing me man, don't rush it!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Lindsy..... I appreciate your comment!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Calli..... I agree, go with the flow!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Ribbit..... Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Angel..... I agree with you to a certain point, thanks!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Cat...... I agree with you, hope you are well my friend!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Loulou..... Thanks for your comment!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

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@Bogart..... Your right, everyone is so hooked on the rules. Thanks my friend!!

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 10, 2014●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

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if you can't afford it .....may be you should sell your widescreen tv

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

Mar 10, 2014●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments

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@Virgo...... Walking down the street holding hands works for me!!

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GoDanielOP●Leominster, Massachusetts USA

Mar 10, 2014●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments

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@Scott..... You got it my friend, it's all about the heart!!

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