Anger; Right Or Wrong???

Anger is an emotion easily expressed, and being angry in itself is not wrong if it's for the right purpose, but the more anger towards the past you hold in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present. Where there is anger there is always pain beneath.
Anger doesn't solve anything, but in a matter of moments can destroy everything. If it's not contained it is more hurtful than the actual cause of it. It is a wind which blows out the flame of the soul.
If you are patient in one moment of anger you will escape a hundred days of sorrow. A harsh word spoken at the time of anger is more destructive and leads to scarring words that can never be erased, and often times the wounds may never fully heal.
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Anger is a human emotion and it's not going away. Most people learn at an early age how to control their anger. A young child will get mad and throw a tantrum, throw things etc... the parents then teaches the child constructive ways to deal with their anger etc.. Some people unfortunately never learned how to deal with their anger. So there will always be anger.
@M1ck1e..... I agree with you totally, being angry is not wrong, it's how the anger is handled!!thumbs up
wave hi Daniel, thinking is there a right or wrong to anger I don't know, guess it depends on the state of the definition in the eyes of the beholder, I feel, anger is an reactive response, sometimes immediate or not, depending on the certain situation, circumstances, could be new, or triggers from the immediate past, or lost past, I don't believe where there is anger there is always pain beneath, I believe there is pain, thus creates anger, pain unresolved...coping mechanisms, lack of life skills, not taught, I don't know, hate is a strong word, I loathe it, dislike it, as i do the word anger, i also believe anger is sometimes fear based, but also a way of displaying the truth about reality that has been buried.....sometimes its all we know or been taught in how to deal with life, yes unfortunate, but true, so is right or wrong....god has been angry, maybe he has the answers, i jst ponder this thought too, i have no answers to this blog, but yes i do angry, and sometimes it feels right and sometimes it feels wrong hug
@Butterfly...... Hi my dear friend, I appreciate your comment!!
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@Iotaoo..... Meditation I'm sure is good, but I think music and prayer is a great tool to use when angry!!
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Actually GoDaniel we are to grow....from base animal behavior to the most elite.....the therapy...not exclusively spiritual but spiritual in the scientific perspective...is meditation....let it be music, or prayer or even laughter and weeping....the objective is to be rid of complexes...to be relaxed...to be real.
And the miracle is that the effect is contagious like the diseases. The person devoid of complexes has a deep impact.
teddybear
@butterflies yes all the emotions emerging from the common source i.e. ego are interrelated....fear is one...five types mainly.
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thank gawd taoo im number 3 grin




teddybear
"It is a wind which blows out the flame of the soul."

Actually, souls are much sturdier than any hurricane wind. After all, they are built to last an eternity. grin
@Iotaoo..... Thanks again for sharing, I appreciate it!!
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@butterflies Actually this is the basic misconception in the world.
The soul has nothing to do with your anger or like. If so how can it last till eternity....if that flame blows...it will be consumed.
The soul is a silent spectator without bias...having no opinion...just a testimony of whatever is going around.

doh
@butterflies Actually Jesus Christ is misread by Christianity??
What is this confession about?? This is nothing but "SAKSHI(Hindu)=observant,spectator" to bring into being.
doh
@Chame1eon..... I absolutely agree with your comment,
Thanks!!handshake thumbs up
@Lindsy..... Thanks for all the information you provided, I definitely will check it out!!thumbs up thumbs up
@chameleon
Misdirected to butterflies.
@butterflies Actually this is the basic misconception in the world.
The soul has nothing to do with your anger or like. If so how can it last till eternity....if that flame blows...it will be consumed.
The soul is a silent spectator without bias...having no opinion...just a testimony of whatever is going around.
doh
@GoDaniel How could you agree with...chamelion...when she is wrong????
doh
holy moly confused taooooooooooo wtf man oh man, you are requesting me to go to church now aren't you, so i can ask for forgiveness with the sin i am about to do to you doh
@Iotaoo..... I don't know, I'm all mixed up!!
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@Butterfly...... You are too funny when your angry!!
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Iota, if you think me wrong then prove it. banana
@chamelion Yes yes ....if it is the flame of soul then the soul will be consumed....then how could it last long...let alone to the eternity????
This is the worst misconception....Soul has nothing to do with anger and for that matter with any emotion.
Soul which is merely "a silent spectator...a testimony of the manifestations of body and mind"
Jesus Christ is misread by Christianity. "The concept of confession" is misinterpreted....It is an act solely with the purpose above mentioned..i.e...the dormant or passive soul to come into being.
doh
Iota, we all have a soul. I'm not so sure there is a flame in the soul. If so, perhaps those with flames are the ones responsible for global warming? banana
@chameleon
You are laughing away the matter.
It is immaterial what soul consists of....what matters is how it gets out of the cover of body and mind.
A simile...body and mind can be compared to the fog....while soul can be compared to the sun.
doh doh
Hello Danie,

Very good blog and I completely agree with all of what you have to say about anger.

For me, there is really no good in anger...that I can see anyway.

Hope you and your lady are doing wonderful together.

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@Butterfly...... Your always nice, and I guess I should know you better than that!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
@Johnny...... Your right, anger is not a pleasant thing.
Christina and I are doing well thanks for asking!!
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godan
Sarcasm is a form of anger...it is not healthy either but anger is a natural phenomenon...figuring out how to address it and identify why we feel this way is the key to diffusing it...
Anger can incite one to act, to respond... It's not a completely wasted emotion. I would hope that anger incites someone to intervene when a person is being hurt... or if they are being discriminated against.

Although , I do believe it needs to be contained quickly or it can impair judgement.

... just my two cents worth.
Anger can be classified in two categories, namely...one, we pretend to...the other we get involved.
In the later case there is a personality split.
Escapism may lead to its persistence resulting in the making of a conditioned reflex.
Containing it will shift it to the subconscious free to come out spontaneously some other time.
The stopping therapy, to stop all of a sudden in between the rage of anger, can work miraculously to get out of this psychological disorder.

peace
After I turned 40 I found it in me it had no use getting angry with someone, the only one I hurt was myself... so started to calm down and talk in a normal way, instead getting angry. I gained a lot with this. More respect, more people payed attention to what I had to say, and I started to feel much better myself. So now I can get angry, but not the anger I felt before and never on the past. What has happen, has happen, and I am fine with that. No need going around feeling sorry and angry for yourself. the past is not yours to change. hug teddybear
@Loulou...... I would not know what sarcasm is
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Just kidding, I appreciate your comment!!
@Sharnah..... Good morning my dear friend, You always have encouraging words to give, everything you say is so true.
Thankyou!!wink wink
@Abagail..... I appreciate your comment!!thumbs up
@Iotaoo..... thumbs up thumbs up
@Welela....... I hope you are doing well, thanks for your comment I appreciate it.handshake hug
GoDan, I am all fine thank you, and I hope you are too? Enjoy your day, I will take a walk pretty soon now.heart wings yay
@Welela...... I'm glad to hear your well, enjoy the walk and be safe my friend!!wink wink
Hi Daniel,
it depends why a person is angry. Sometimes I even agree with a person getting angry, sometimes I have to get out of his or her way.. blues very mad wave
@Smart..... Thanks for commenting!!
@Jim..... I agree totally with your comment, I appreciate your stopping byhandshake thumbs up
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My name is Dan. I was Born and Raised in Lowell, Massachusetts. I am 3/4 French and 1/4 Greek. I do speak some French. I have Dark Brown Eyes and Dark Brown Hair. I attended Elementary and Junior High School in Lowell. I also attended my Freshman yea [read more]

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