..... Background Checks!!

Before I joined CS I met a girl on another site. In her profile it said she lived in California. We started texting one another, she had a California number. Over the course we started talking , come to find out she was living in Ghana using a U.S. number without telling me, texting me from outside the country.
I told her I was going to be charged for sending text messages. She kept telling me I wouldn't because she had a U.S. number. Sure enough I was being charged for every text.
Well that ended quickly, not because of the charges to my account but because she was being dishonest.
I think that dating sites should be more cautious with background checks on their members!!
What do you guys think??
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yes they should ......even to the point of checking with their internet provider where they live ...but I'm sure they will get around that ...hi dan wave
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a picture search works too! ....dancing
yes or search google image he matching the profile thumbs up
all profiles from here
he link the picture whit the other names they used here or pictures
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I think people should take responsibility for themselves and use commonsense.
you can copied all profiles and put on another site if some want bad thumbs up
wave go!daniel: And i also think that! You should change cellphone provider. . . " Im just saying" drinking
@Virgo..... Thanks for your comment, and yes I agree with you!!
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@Jarred..... Thanks for the information provided, I appreciate it!!
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@Glatlol..... I agree with what your saying, but people today don't take responsibility and don't use much common sense!!
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@Cavalier...... I remember reading and commenting on that blog. There are a bunch of weirdos out there man!! I appreciate your comment!!thumbs up handshake
@Angel...... I don't think it's the cell phone provider because texting out of the country you'll be charged no matter what, I think the issue is be careful who you meet online!!
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I see women's day isn't to far away .......doing anything special ? wave
@Virgo..... Who is that question directed to??
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you and your girl friend .........wave
you know .....big night out , roses , gift's and chocolate ...wave
@Virgo...... I don't know what you mean woman's day, are you referring to Mothers Day??
Your welcome Daniel bouquet and actually today the blogs have kept my mind distracted, and so grateful for that and grateful for having you as my friend bouquet teddybear
looks like its a different theme in other countries ...wave
@Butterfly...... I am honored to have you as my friend, and even though words cannot heal your pain, my love and support for you will always remain!!
Hugs and Kisses My Dear Friend!!
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@Virgo..... As much as I love Christina with all my heart, I love my Mom all the more, my mom is my number one fan!!
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Hi Daniel can i text you,but im here in moon:))))reply if okblushing mizz you Danielblushing
@Violet...... I have no idea what your talking about??
dunno dunno how can you miss me, I don't even know you. I think you got me confused with someone else!!
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godan
It happens to the best of us...if you need to do a background check...great but usually our common sense tells us if something is not as it seems...listening to your gut is crucial. Since this is a free site...more stringent background checks could cost the members money...
@Loulou...... Thanks for your comment!!
@Lindsy...... It's great seeing you back on the blogs, I did not know what had happened and was concerned. You have always been a pleasant person to blog with and I hope your back to stay!!
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I will try my dear. I have been here for so long and have generated most commented on all my poems (although) I deleted them when I broke up with my ex and then on the last one, I was favorited for hundred of times and viewed more than 10,000 times, in just 5 months, but I was so stern on my message and the mods found it very unfriendly so yes, I will try and thank you so much. Although I am still very busy adjusting to my new life and will be traveling a lot for a while..

thanks..

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@Lindsy..... Just don't forget about us!! enjoy your travels. I will keep you in my prayers for your safe journeys!!
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Daniel, my dear I will never forget you guys..Are you kidding me? I am learning more in here than on the pages of books and magazines lately.

Take care and I will try to post before my next trip..

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Hi Danny
CS is a free site. Who is going to pay for it?
I think the responsibility is with each individual to ascertain who he is dealing with.
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Hello Dan,

That is a fine idea but I would think it would be very difficult to do. Maybe a possible future business? With all the talk about microchips, that might take care of the problem.

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Hello, Sunnyrose, I have a question for you.. was your profile deleted by CS or did you delete it yourself? It’s not an a attack on your good self but just for confirmation purposes.

Am I right in assuming that if a previous member was banned it shows up as “profile deleted” but if the member deleted the profile themselves the profile name is still present in previous comments on blogs etc, even though they are not longer an active member?
@Lindsy...... Great, I hope to see one of your blogs posted soon!!
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@Cat..... I agree, responsibility starts from within.
How are you my friend?? I hope all is well!!
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@Carmen..... I appreciate your comment, thanks!!
@Johnny..... You never know what might happen, after all times have certainly changed and modern technology has advanced so much.
Thanks for your comment, it's a good one!!
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@GoDaniel,
i have a same opinion with you and agreed upon decision you have taken on this issue. Money can not compare to honesty.
If in the beginning she had been lied to you, she would have do it again. lie after lie arises as an action to cover up a lie that had been done earlier. handshake thumbs up wine wave
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My name is Dan. I was Born and Raised in Lowell, Massachusetts. I am 3/4 French and 1/4 Greek. I do speak some French. I have Dark Brown Eyes and Dark Brown Hair. I attended Elementary and Junior High School in Lowell. I also attended my Freshman yea [read more]

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