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RE: Why Men Incessantly Flirt

I have never liked flirting, I prefer someone who holds a conversation, I have chosen men not because of age or looks but because they were able to hold a conversation. I also like directness.

RE: Well, here's a first !

We do not need to change peoples opinions we just need to realize our opinions do not matter

RE: Over The Edge

what i do not understand is, if life is so futile why take anothers with you.

When meeting someone for the first time

I just really like the Finnish language and music, and the people seem loyal and polite

When meeting someone for the first time

doing stand up is not my job, I have a job. It is a goal of mine though. so it is a big part of my life.

When meeting someone for the first time

thank you all, i guess I will just have to see how it goes.

When meeting someone for the first time

I really do not know what to do, if i tell him no, it could hurt his feelings. If he sees how obsessed i am with Finland and Norway it could do the same :) I guess i will have to just see if he shows up, darn dating is harder than doing stand up. I have not been on a date in 12 years.

When meeting someone for the first time

maybe i'll end up lucky and he will chicken out of meeting me.

When meeting someone for the first time

my own stand up, I told this guy who has been asking to meet me that i have one i am doing. Now he has asked to come to it. I am not so sure it is the best way to meet though

RE: Room with a view

I live at the end of a dead end road, and i love not seeing or hearing anybody

RE: Wishfull Thinking or Proof?

it is not about most dreams, there are certain ones, that you know are trying to tell you something.

RE: "THE UNKNOWN"

I know 2 for sure, but i cannot say there are only 2. I have only seen those 2

RE: "THE UNKNOWN"

I will try to explain better . but just because one knows these things does not mean it is easy to explain or believe unless another can feel these things. From what i can tell our soul existed before our spirit. Our spirit exists as part of our human experience, thus resembles us, a soul does not have human form. A spirit can actually be heard, but a soul cannot , at least not having spoken words. Even though a soul does not seem to speak one can feel its experiences.

RE: "THE UNKNOWN"

From what i can tell, we have more than one non physical form, the soul being more solid than the spirit

RE: "THE UNKNOWN"

I am still trying to figure out the soul/spirit question. I watched something about DNA put in a vacuum and when the DNA was taken away it still existed in there. In my conclusion a spirit can be different than the soul because it is essentially our DNA's conscious . From what I can tell the soul is a whole different entity. I would like to hear different opinions on this because i find it fascinating. I definitely believe people we know are on the other side and can be seen from my own experiences.

RE: Profiles, first responses and the big hook....

some people are actually social smokers and only smoke if they are going out

RE: Exploring a new music genre.

I love metal I listen to it in all kinds of language, but i also listen to a lot of love and dance songs. Finnish is the most beautiful language in the world so i listen to a lot of music from that country.

RE: Happy Valentines Day Ladies

well at least you have something to grab, when the riding gets rough. You won't fall off

RE: Under Achiever

I wonder if that teacher themselves was an underachiever for whos dream is it to teach another only things they have been taught .

RE: What is Reality? – Part3 (Logic and Physical Sense Experience)

Reality is better than dreaming, that way you lose all expectations of life

RE: AN IRISH woman who married the ghost of a 300-year-old pirate....

of all the people it should have been easiest to "see through" his disguise.

RE: AN IRISH woman who married the ghost of a 300-year-old pirate....

The most suspicious part is that a Haitian is named Jack, she should have realized the ghost was using an alias.

RE: Life and Love

We all go through times we feel lost, whether it be because we have had to change jobs or loss of relationships. It is very hard to help someone in that position because we all like doing different things, but it sounds like you are looking for a purpose. I wish you luck in finding something you are passionate about.

RE: What is Reality? – Part3 (Logic and Physical Sense Experience)

Those types of conclusions happen when information is incomplete, in the end that conclusion is an assumption. like most of our realities are based on.

RE: Jan. 21 - National Hugging Day!

it would be worth getting arrested if i could hug someone from Finland or Norway.

RE: What is Reality? – Part3 (Logic and Physical Sense Experience)

i am sure the pharma companies know what they sell to us is hazard, where money is involved there is no reality. I do not fall into the category of socially accepted reality.

RE: I Wonder What I’m Looking For

I do not think anyone ever knows what they are doing when it involves another person.

RE: I Wonder What I’m Looking For

I guess the best way to find out is to just experience it; I had a friend with benefits once and it was alright until it became clear i needed more benefits than him.I always wanted o see what it would be like to be with someone and we live in separate houses but i never found anyone like that.

RE: What is Reality? – Part 2 (Measurement and Reality)

as for the mirror you could say the image is there, but is it real, because it may resemble you but it is not you.

RE: What is Reality? – Part 2 (Measurement and Reality)

not just feelings of intuition , but the physical feeling of things not seen.