You did not say or imply whom you are/were refreeing to. I think that such a person may be a writer; perhaps gathering together topics to interweave into the plots in his or her next book.
Or maybe his or her life is so busy, that he or she only has the time to drop into and out of 'your life'(?) like the chap in that film "The Time Traveller's Wife" does,
Goodlucktoall .. Hmmmmm? Is this a statement to a friend & or partner to celebrate a special day or, a message to the world wrapped up with a piece of prose?
Whatever its direction, I love it! Honey, money, moon! Yum!
You could have applied this Psychology to yourself .. before you had a rant and a rage against Mr Lonely (?)! Obviously 'he' was not a friend of your's, but that still doesn't give you the right to slander and libel him as you did. Fair comment?
I totally agree with you! Prejudice, especially race driven, can be especially hurtful. I sympathise with you - retrospectively. I hope that you have managed to overcome whatever obstacles your detractors laid in your path.
These people are to be pitied. When they die, they will have to face up to their misdeeds whilst they were on this earth.
Get some rest and relaxation now. You are not alone!
Summertan .. I agree with you. Some men who lack self confidence may be put off appraching a (self-made) successful woman, perhaps because this makes them feel that they cannot compete or, have nothing to offer you, which you might value.
Stereotypes are easily formed, sometimes on the briefest acquaintance. I sympathise with your sadness, and congratulate you on your success.
I am interested in the significance of the Green and Blue Cards which were mentioned. Could you tell me more about them please?
Cardiomegaly .. my sympathies to you. I noticed that each one of the men you dated, were 'Professionals'.
Perhaps next time around you could try choosing someone who is not.
An 'unprofessional' person might be much more of a gentleman than those three that you were attracted to and, unfortunate in your assessment of their individual characters, to have picked.
Not easy, but .. try to confront, overcome and lose your fear (s) and then .. believe in yourself! When you can do that, nothing will stand in your way.
Yes .. One can become 'friends' after having been lovers. However, it took two years of apologising to my friend for initiating the break up between us because I discovered that I did not fancy her!
I had been on my own for a number of years when we met, and I gave in to the temptation. Hardly surprising you might add after being celibate for so long!
Thing is, my best friend now has a new boyfriend, and he was all over her like a rash the other day, when we three were out having a pizza.
She got all uppity and defensive about his behaviour when I mentioned that I felt discomfited by it.
And that I would never have done that in front of her with another girl, particularly if she had she still been on her own.
I empathise with avamelek! I am 55 and I have been searching my whole life for a soul-mate. Tragedy, I have never found her. Not in this life. But perhaps in the next. Good luck to you! May you find the one you are looking for much much sooner than that!
Score. Don't give up! You could try changing your profile. I have not seen it by the way. Perhaps, if you have not done so already (?) you could add some recent colour photographs of a smiling you with your happy children.
If you are aiming at single unattached women (?) try instead for women who are unable to conceive, and want a family, and or other single parents like yourself (?).
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Every time|! David.
RE: I found her! In a relationship!
EXCELLENT! CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH! I am so glad for you (too). Good luck!