Ian, Thanks but I need more than luck for a succesful relationship...it requires a lot of love, respect, honesty, fidelity, etc...hard to find all of them in a man nowadays.
Cat, if it's really worth it, why not?! I walked the fire for love twice, I think I can do it again given the right reasons and if it's really for love.
Yes, a litte dodgy and I have some doubts...I don't want to be taken for a ride. So far I'm ok, Cat. No harm done yet, I had fun talking to him but I have a gut feeling that this is not going anywhere, and it's ok too...I'm not expecting anything but I'll put a lot of thoughts on it and see how I will feel when I wake up in the morning. It pays to be cautious.
Hi Luke! Thanks for this informative blog. I was in a relationship with man with that disorder for 3 years. He's an officer in the army, so I thought his behavior was cos of his line of work, even after he told me that he has the disorder, I thought he was just joking but I did recognized the signs. It wasn't a perfect relationship, emotionally draining so I gave up on it...here I am...on CS now...hopefully won't meet and end up with another one here on this site!
Cat, I've learned mine the hard ways! I don't feel bad now as it made me wiser,tougher and a better person. I'll take every caution the next time around...even if it means I'll settle for an ONS...
Congratulations...It's good to read something like this, gives hope to those who are still searching. This site is really great and I'm grateful to have found this too.
C, Your blog reminds me of a time...I pee on myself while I was doing an inventory in the stockroom...the toilet was a bit far so I keep holding it and forgot it till i felt the urge again and could no longer hold it. I felt so helpless all alone in the stockroom...the best part was the emergency exit was right behind that room and I got the key...my office is beside it too. So I sneaked out, took a cab to my apartment, told the driver to wait for me, had a quick shower and changed, went back to the stockroom as if nothing happened. at lunch time, my colleagues noticed that I'm wearing different clothes, one said " you were wearing white earlier, now biege?" I always have trouble lying so I told them what happened...
Hi Cat! You got me thinking now...I was thinking of buying my mom a brand new TV that she doesn't really need. The one she have is still perfectly working...it's just one of my ways of showing her my love...
Zeu...He could...very smart parrot! He's a fast learner, even picked up the f--- word without me teaching him that! He said it when my ex- came in and he was very mad when Bruce said it to him....
RE: Deserted In Your Love?
Ian, Thanks but I need more than luck for a succesful relationship...it requires a lot of love, respect, honesty, fidelity, etc...hard to find all of them in a man nowadays.