ashlander Blog Comments (3,804)

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

"If so, what a great way of trying to make a meaningful connection
with somebody....encourage them not to return." Very aloof of you.

Beverly Hillbillies...smilin' & wavin'
DON'T come back now ya' hear.

RE: People

great names,
all of them
I wish having multiple names wasn't
a ding.Kind of paranoid if you believe that a returning person is hiding something sinister behind a new name

Next time might choose one,
that isn't a location.
When I picked Inoyu my password was
Unome .
I think,can a say that aloud here.
Then I actually started hating it,it was like too sing songy (Barney)

RE: People

The only way to my heart is
through my
path...

I'm glad we've crossed paths.

I hope you don't mind that
I share you among my
friends

Sometimes just a quick
Looky loo

RE: People

I am comfortable with people
coming and going
CS is where I hang
and it has travelled with me

It is time,not people time.
One on one time.

I am here.

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

You'll be seeing wrongly in no time.
Spoiler Alert.

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

put your mask on!
Incognito

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

He told me 9 was his bedtime,
asinine,
9 or 9:30 ish.
gotcha back.

RE: While You're Sleeping...

Niiicccce, CH!

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Lee might pop up again Itchy. gotta run.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Bspoken and Mercedes
M'be next time.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Have a good day Lee!
Pat,Daniela,Harbal and Galrads..

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Women in their comraderie may do the same as men 'round the campfire on a moonlit night ,and usually dance better round it ...
whereas men turn into pyromaniacs and try jumping through it.

Might be generalizing.
@Daniela Totally different types of alpha leadership.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Pat...I already had an apple today.

Daniela... an alpha phone.

Lee,sorry... I will let someone field the subject of observations.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Daniella I agree,IF she's mated wisely.
very least,been made love to.

If not,
just like the other gender...

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

Pat ..if you have
a wand,USE IT!!!

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

About libido and alpha females,
this might be an area of discussion among women,over coffee.
Does a woman's libido increase when
expressing confidence? Maybe,as a girl transitions into a woman it may occur naturally.
Not in the same sense as a young man fighting with other men in his youth.?
Respect is what gives rise to either genders libido.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

There is a need sometimes to seek solace,comfort and advice.It used to be called girl talk:to support each other about men and love.( between related females,over coffee.)
The new Sisterhood of social media has harried women conversing publicly; putting it on blast.It is moreso about common experiences of their peers,than familial.This implied an
unspoken respect for their man.

Alpha Females used to help families keep it together.It was admirable.The respect for an older woman's input is no longer welcome,as wisdom.Or to be emulated.The men then would addressed another man about issues of his abusive behavior.
Men are pretty basic, but if you want to complicate matters then ask on Facebook. It is not like Miss Manners or Ann Landers.It is about Her being correct.No advice,only similar wise women agreeing amongst themselves.
You can see it in the women's age differences.Usually best to stick with
whatever age you are,the relating to someone younger's experiences can be a stretch.
Don't men experience this hierarchy /seniority any more either.

20s-40s year olds
When you watch the younger bar scene,do you see female/male interactions or only female/female.
Good old stereotypical cat fights

6-16 year olds
Watch the "little ladies", around
6 years old and it is telling.
No more "Grandpa's Girl", whew
a tot can pick up Alpha attitude earrrrly.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

case in point!Harbal.

RE: Who are the alpha females on this site? closed for comments

How is it perceived from a man's perspective in comparison to a woman's? ( Dating) To you.

In the workplace, the pecking order for Alpha Females is similar to social norms.It never used to be but there are more women in management.
Then again,an astute woman is very aware of the recent phenomenon of
the Mean Girls.Shall I attempt to explain the differences.

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

I have observed two people going at it and
lo' and behold THEY were enjoying it!

Eventually you get comfortable as a bystander.Teasing,taunting...

RE: Am I seeing things wrongly?

At any given point my CS blogger
perceptions may change.

RE: Well Done

I am ALWAYS surprised...

RE: SQUIRRELS IN CHURCH

Memo: Waterslides

RE: Said yes, and I’m taking the plunge, squeeeee

An April Fool's Kissing a Fool



@miclee get in that shower..And scrub behind your ears. no excuses.

RE: Photo Caption Contest - Let them eat cake !

Oh you "display cake" ..if only you weren't a frosted piece of cardboard
tempting me.

RE: He’s now president for life ... Maybe we’ll give that a shot some day ...Hiel Trump the new Fuehrer

Guess you missed the recent news.

RE: He’s now president for life ... Maybe we’ll give that a shot some day ...Hiel Trump the new Fuehrer

Chesney, Good Morning.
9am I'll let you have at it gents.

RE: He’s now president for life ... Maybe we’ll give that a shot some day ...Hiel Trump the new Fuehrer

When you " praise" someone,it could be for numerous reasons.
@OD my observation of your writing:
the day that you praise anyone,even the Lord,I will see YOU are a " changed man.

RE: Anthropomorphism, Theism and Atheism

By the little I know,I got it right then.
Some new to learn every time.
A sincere compliment does not need my approval or yours.only it being true.

RE: Anthropomorphism, Theism and Atheism

Socrates,just saying,thanks for your poetry.