It is a window of opportunity. Like this blog space,having people peering in at you.We are sometimes observed more,and understood less. Like a study..or zoo.
As long as you do not feel like it is a cage, do what you will.Say directly to your readers the meaning if we don't grasp it.We will grapple with it,but putting our spin on it is not your truth.
The dreamer, the unwoken fool, In dreams, no pain will kiss the brow. The love of ages fills the head. The days that linger there in prey of emptiness, Of burned out dreams. The minutes calling through the years. The universal dreamer rises up above his earthly burden. Journey to the dead of night. High on a hill in Eldorado.
Many weeds and thistles are medicines if you are a wild crafter.You only harvest one seventh of the bounty,and must understand pod,bloom, bud,seed root and leaf are differing in potency.Many are also high potency vitamins.
Unfayzed, There can be a load bigger than the both of you. (If the home meant for two has the circle of people,friends and family. Their love ensures you both get through it.)
Dear Self-Esteem, The man that has the profound effect on your self-esteem is not the same as the next man who will show you that he is a capable person and sees the same in you.He wants to be evenly yoked so that together you are lightened each others' load. If you work smarter,you will not work harder.Togetherness needs this attitude so there is time for play friends,family and to pamper yourself,pursue your individual expressions. Dear Self-Esteem, Let this man show you by how well he treats others.If he brings you into his home and visa versa you will know the Life you share is blessed with an inner circle of friends and family to surround you with peace and love..even as your love grows deeper we need to have others to love as well.
"I agree with you on the blog's that are getting deleted for no reason that I see. I don't believe it is the Mod Squad that is doing it."- from the Committee blog. No you were not asking me why directly. I felt there were enough people aware of my deletions-but may have also misjudged my motives why. Just an example about the difference between intentionally controlling others verses an indirect side affect by making a personal choice to use blog tools.
Wen, I do believe in empowerment. Would entitlement be along those lines too?
It's almost as though power has to grow in strength.I have found leaders that has charisma get used by the silent power brokers.They make you and they can break you.Kill you. Dictators are often killed by the new regime.
Thanks I didn't mean to derail this. I hope I am contributing to your theme.
Wen,I am different to your way of thinking about CS and maybe this topic will explain how we differ and we can understand each other better then.
I want to share with you why I delete my blogs.Which you've questioned before.It is not for control.
You see if we chatted amongst ourselves( a random mix of CS persons)over 5 Minutes and had a secretary take notes of our meeting, then we witnessed it. Say then she left,half the group left and others came into that meeting-that is what I avoid by deleting my blog .
I am interested in the time we spend together with fusion and our topic is written down. If the remainder of the permanent meeting goes unmonitored then the new people will have a different dynamic, in both agenda and rapport.
So you could have ongoing participation,many views,over several pages but it is difficult for me to become involved with it later.(Just me I guess.) Once I tried to reply to each additional comment,to be polite regardless that they weren't still there.Either they never saw it and/or didn't reply. Do you remember party line phones. Would you talk,get off the call,listen in and then surprise them by jumping into someone else's conversation. Its like that to me,so I delete them .
Also when I receive comments they are still fresh in my mind,but I can't say days later I want that stale talk.
Fresh group dynamics suit me, not in a comparative or controlling way but a creative way.
Just wanted to share that, so far I have not read any other explanations.Only that it upsets people and they won't comment on those blogs.
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