Missed you Candy but I've got to run.no ... not that way.Bible study Wed. They just got back from Portland helping homeless in the bridge district.nite lovely ladies.
My daughter brought me bittersweet news,neighbors in their boat rescued my sister and husband -water was aabout chest level.their only 'son and his evacuated but could also Lose a home too.brasso river? Texas
Thanks for letting me fathom a reason for his behavior without speculation about his mental deficiency. I wish things weren't complicated about relationships for single parents but time spent with a man is often exactly what we need and want to round out lives.There is no substitute for a good -man,friend,lover,father.
You could take my generalisation; as thinking along with you :there were questions raised because often what wasn't said is as important as was is. Thanks for clarifying those aspects I may have overlooked in your blog ..if I didn't grasp the details.If one is new ( male or female I read their profile for additional basis for where their coming from..both their objectives for being at CS and philosophy, sometimes their age,or parental status) I venture into their world carefully.I weighed my words and believed you wrote strong justification to move on.. healing takes time.Needing some time is one thing,needing people to weigh in on it is another. My getting one side only, your s, requires a lot of speculation and as is the case in a dating situation of less than a year it is possible you should have expected the man taking on another man's child as someone interested in having a family in the future.Some men openly want a single mother for the reasons we think are abhorrent.I can not say he did or that you played into it just that it starts with dating -no matter whether you come to terms with being on separate courses.I would hope good men also want the path of least resistance and take that as an indication all is going smoothly. You may feel your immediate aversion to his pace was an overt sign for him to go slowly with you but he may have interpreted it as a sign to take you serious immediately. and he stepped it up with indications of marrlage- your second chance to have it all.( In less than a year).It derails rather quickly when you draw the line between the men and the boys.He believed he was ready and possibly. another woman was more willing to trust his judgement enough to take the plunge.Messaging you might have been his way to encourage you to keep on believing in the romantic inexplicable ideas of love. You' ve the responsibility a child and maybe ties to her father and his relatives that he can't fully understand inhibit your spontaneity.The man you will have should be a man that doesn't create doubt. Saying you believe he would rub his love in your face or feel vengeance puts this fate of yours in a competition with his if that's what you choose to believe about his intentions rather than he was open and honest.He has his reasons to not pick you,same as you choose as suitable.Women have suitors.Men in general believed women are constantly sought after.You may as well believe it too and enjoy it. They are in hot pursuit and given a lukewarm response move onto the next quickly once they believe they're ready to settle down..
If you.broke up in May after 9 months and can write an introduction blog dedicated to this I would say as a man reading your profile it's time to leave you ex out of any future dating conversations.
I guess I'll never understand why people (men & women) ask what other people think, have experienced that was ? a dating experience that went awry . Or ask others to chime in. Maybe their insight? is supposed to help you heal. Closure I think it's called. I don't think I would let a date be around any child until the situation was rock solid is all I can offer that others haven't mentioned.But they have to adapt to what ever the adults experience.Go easy on yourself for. her sake even if you think she hasn't even the grasped your confusion. I always worry about them first. They haven't a way to express their feelings about your choices . For you for her
I won't be waving it around,or become less loving.There is a good feeling knowing a woman is safe and sensible.I value myself and ideals,anyone else that needs a group,movement has time for it-I don't.Traditional,family first.yes,I'm single by choice. I don't follow women.
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but I've got to run.no ...
not that way.Bible study Wed.
to as many men here as you want. 
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RE: Why is it that. ..
Please convert tot U.S. currency,like $12