bsooner Blog Comments (595)

RE: bad haircut day!

Onme, do you want my honest opinion? If so, first tell me if you like it better!

RE: honest people

Yes Choco, very rare in our lives these days. That is awesome. If you didn't go there often to shop before, I bet you go more often now though, right? Wonderful story!

RE: 11-11-11

Happy Birthday Novita!

RE: bad haircut day!

Wonderful attitude onme! That's the way to be the bigger person and react like others do not expect. You reacted with a wonderful sense of humor and one that knows life can be worse than a bad hair cut.

RE: Don't be afraid

That is awesome Amiachmadi! Good for you and what a positive message you send to everyone. If you don't like the situation you are in, change it! You go girl!

RE: wierd day

That is one way to look at it onme. Maybe you should have your brakes checked or some new tires? You don't want to be in that situation again.

RE: wierd day

Probably should have called the police and had them do a report. Your insurance may require a report before they pay anything?

Glad to hear your okay and the damage wasn't too bad. Cars are replaceable, you're not!

RE: waaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Exotic, thank you for your sweet comments. I only try to treat others as I would like to be treated. Everyone deserves some kind words once in a while. We all deserve to have friends, be loved and here kind words spoken to us.

Good luck just1look and enjoy your bath. Remember, when you are feeling down, like we all do from time to time, we can always find someone that has it worse than us and what we are going through really isn't that bad. It will get better!

RE: Shhh......

The biggest red flag in what you have said is that when you are with him, he asks her not to call him. He is keeping it a secret, hiding things from you Frisca. It does not sound like an open HEALTHY relationship like Meanwhile discussed. Please open your eyes and give him the boot, you do not deserve to be treated this way. I hope Meanwhile makes it to you soon!

Go Meanwhile....Go, time is running out here!

RE: waaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Tomorrow is a new day. A fresh start! You have many friends here that will be thinking of you!

RE: honest ppl

Marina......

RE: honest ppl

It is better to be honest that to lie. People often say what they think you want to hear. Most people believe they always want the truth, but in reality, few people can truly handle the truth without some emotion. There are probably things that I would rather not know, say like how many partners you had in the past. But if I ask, I better be ready for that answer without judgment.

RE: yahoo/skype

It's good to be careful. I have heard way too many stories.

RE: yahoo/skype

I couldn't agree more Exotic!

RE: Quick...quick....grab the closest .....

None of my books have 62 pages?????

RE: Why you did this to me?

Hi Novita, this is the second blog tonight talking about a controlling ex or current bf and both were from asia, so I wasn't sure if it was a common thing. I know it is not your nature to be mean, but just ignore him if he is going to be this way to you. You don't need this in your life. Good luck to you!

RE: Why you did this to me?

It's a control thing. Both men and woman do this. If you let it bother you and let them control you, they will continue to do it. Don't allow it to happen! Move on.

RE: Is it right?

Another one for MP......is Military Police! Under the current blog, may just apply!

RE: Is it right?

I guess bottom line is this. Frisca, you need to search your soul and decide what it is you want and if you are happy with the way he is treating you. My guess is, based on your last 2 post that you don't like how he is treating you. I don't think marriage will change anything. He will always control everything you do, who you see, who you talk to. Everything! If that is what you want, then more power to you and good luck. I don't think it is though, just my opinion!

RE: Is it right?

I say we just meet in Bali.....take care of the mission and go on with the partying!

RE: Is it right?

meanwhile........

RE: Is it right?

Very well said Meanwhile. You said it better than I did.

RE: Is it right?

Well, seems like you have it all figured out Frisca, what is it that you would like our help with again?

RE: You can't live for the future...

Tange, I heard this once and it makes sense to me. It goes something like this. To worry about the past causes depression, to worry about the future causes anxiety, best to live in the present and worry about the things you can change.

RE: Help.....me, plz!

Frisca, I know everyone else has already solved the issue for you, but i will give my 2 cents anyway. Let him go. If he is this controlling now, imagine how it will be later on. He probably is the one doing the exact same things he is accusing you of. Don't let anyone control you like that. it's not a fun life to live. Your a beautiful woman, many other men out there that wont control you in this manner.

RE: Hi, everyone!

Party on!!!!

Off to work for me! Carry on fun people!

RE: You make me feel confuse....

Kakko, more details of the past relationship may bring more light to it. Have you been dating only a few weeks? Months? Do you live far apart? How often were you communicating in the past, hourly, twice a day? etc. It may help to understand the entire picture. I think the ladies have given you good advice. I doubt that all your attempts to contact him the one time he had not responded drove him away, it was building and he used it as the final excuse.

Belle, your advice about making the man chase you is sound advice, in the beginning, but if you had been dating a while, I see nothing wrong with Kakko worrying and trying to get in touch with him. She may have over done it with the number of times, I don't know. Otherwise, I do agree with you and Jana.

BTW......love a woman's body as well. Such a perfect sculpture designed by God!

RE: Tell me this won't happen to us!

Good ones!

RE: The modern day witch...

Me too Tange, they scare me!

RE: The modern day witch...

Good Night Tange!