@Pacificfans, I only speak for myself. I am sure you are beautiful no matter the length of your hair. I look at the entire beauty, not just the hair. What's on the inside far outshines the length of a person's hair.
@ Pacificfans. I prefer short hair on myself, the shorter the better, hard to find a barber who will cut it short enough. On a woman, I would say in general, I prefer longer hair, but have met many woman that look great in short hair. It really does depend on the individual. The length of someone's hair does not go into my choice to date them or not.
Jim, just read your blog and all the comments. As you said, everyone is entitled to their opinions. I will not confess to be an expert on this case either, but I do have to agree with Itchy. From the beginning there has been something about this girl that has left an uneasy feeling in my gut that she was somehow involved. I will not be partying her release, but hey, that's only my opinion and my right......right?
I understand you wanting to point out what is going on. I was not trying to be defensive or confrontational by my question either, simply asking your opinion. I wasn't completely sure you the purpose of your blog either, now I understand. Thanks for the information.
I will not pretend to know your situation. I bet you tried to be there for him in the beginning. I doubt you gave up right away and walked out on him. It does take two to either make it work, or ruin it. Don't beat yourself up.
people tend not to change. If her actions are against your values, they will always bother you because you will not change either. Move on, there are other fish in the sea.
Precious, there is nothing wrong with removing him from your friends list. If he request's you again, just ingore it for now. If he asks you about it, simply say that you are not ready to handle his updates on his life. If he is any kind of gentleman, he will understand. Time heals and at some point, you may be okay with it. This happened to me with a woman I dated, after we broke up, she deleted me, but after 3-4 months, she added me back. No harm done. Do what feels right for you, not what he wants. It could be a control tactic on his part to keep an eye on you as well. Don't let him do it, control what you want, not what someone else wants. Good Luck!
Time to move on edit. Any man that would leave without a word is not worthy of your love. Cherish the memories and move on with your life. Good Luck to you!
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you are being nice to me, making me blush