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a girl with alot of spirt

recently been going out with a great looking woman,but she has a flaw.she tends to out drink fishes and saliors.she says i am sort of boring,cause i do not drink much or any for that matter.i can except that,but she seems more ebarrassed when she ask about her behavior.take last nite for example,she cop 6 squates just trying to get to my car.for those that do not know what that means,she pissed 6 times by objects making it to my car.i recall someone long ago telling me ,no matter how good looking someone is,someone is always tired of them.this month with her,has been fun ,but it's not me.going out for me means,movies,plays or parks and outtings for lunch or swimming.clubs,pubs,and all that mess i out grown or care nothing for it.anyways this talk with her today left me thinking ,that i am wasting her time as well as mine.which brings me to my point,would you put aside your own value to not feel or be alone?

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JimNastics●Kingston, New Jersey USA

Sep 25, 2011●1,965 Blogs●11,843 Comments

Did you pick her up at an AA meeting ?

danielangelvegaOP●round rock, Texas USA

Sep 25, 2011●111 Blogs●1,102 Comments

jim,no at a fast food joint wating for my order,and well we just started chatting.

cytrynka●clinton twp, Michigan USA

Sep 25, 2011●16 Blogs●140 Comments

if i would put my own value aside that would not be me anymore....and why would you want to become someone else in the same skin? don't you love yourself enough?

danielangelvegaOP●round rock, Texas USA

Sep 25, 2011●111 Blogs●1,102 Comments

cytrynka,course i love myself,but you have to admit,some times it feels good to not come home alone .then again ,coming home with a drunk is not really my thing.

cytrynka●clinton twp, Michigan USA

Sep 25, 2011●16 Blogs●140 Comments

its like dressing up and getting excited about going to the best restaurant in town and end up going to mcdonald's to eat a hamburger...........

cytrynka●clinton twp, Michigan USA

Sep 25, 2011●16 Blogs●140 Comments

choose wisely, if you do it right, you dont have to do it again and again.......is that worth a thought?

titsy●Medan, North Sumatra Indonesia

Sep 25, 2011●71 Blogs●1,604 Comments

A girl with a mighty problem I'd say. If she is the opposite to the qualities you are looking for in a woman, then you'd better tell her frankly and leave...

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Sep 25, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

would you put aside your own values to not feel or be alone??? no... but if loves is involved then i think its slightly different but to a point

bsooner●Chattanooga, Tennessee USA

Sep 25, 2011●595 Comments

people tend not to change. If her actions are against your values, they will always bother you because you will not change either. Move on, there are other fish in the sea.

my 2 cents anyway.

danielangelvegaOP●round rock, Texas USA

Sep 25, 2011●111 Blogs●1,102 Comments

itchy,love ,yes the one thing that seems to escape everyone here,not talking about love ones,but you know that someone that the first kiss,the first date,everything the first with that some one.i messed that,i guess thats why i just was putting aside my values and not focusing on the bigger picture.

danielangelvegaOP●round rock, Texas USA

Sep 25, 2011●111 Blogs●1,102 Comments

bsooner,sure there are lot ,but getting the one is such marathon at times.i some times think i am going to be that guy that settles with whom ever ,just cause socitity would rather you be coulped up than alone.or maybe i am reading in to much in what others think of me alone at movies,diners,etc...

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Sep 25, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

i think daniel we can have different likes and dislikes and still be happy enough with each other without feeling the want to change your partner, but you can never change a drinker and if you dont like it, then dont put up with it.. a day might come when you wont be able to walk away from it as you can now..

elienebrazil●somewhere, Sao Paulo Brazil

Sep 25, 2011●22 Blogs●335 Comments

Honey do whatever make you feel confortable with yourself. That's it. You like her feel well or not?

Think about that and get your choice

Swissblueeyes●a lake, Michigan USA

Sep 25, 2011●2 Blogs●709 Comments

Jeesch Danielanglevega.. You sure seem to meet the losers..
How old is this one? 21?

particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Sep 26, 2011●9,376 Comments

HMMM!!! Like standing in Mackas with a Dinner Suit on..

takemetofrance●Vicenza Italy, Manama Bahrain

Sep 26, 2011●63 Blogs●844 Comments

We dont necessarily put our values aside to go out with someone who for whatever reason is not suitable for us as a companion, but should we continue to tolerate someone just because we dont want to be alone then we would be doing that.
Depends how long we do it for. After you recognise she is no good for you , if you continue with her then you are wasting time on finding someone who you could value.

daven1●london, Buckinghamshire, England UK

Sep 26, 2011

all about compromise in any relationship and except things wont be pefect as life is far from perfect. It has to be your choice but think long and hard about what you want too and communicate this with her and then see how she reacts because if the other person really does care then they will compromise a few drinks for you.If its not right then walk away as in a couple there are 2 people both with their own opinions etc and the secret is being able to merge them and compromise and take the other person into account

inthemind●Buffalo, New York USA

Sep 26, 2011●7 Blogs●547 Comments

Fun people can be... fun.

For a long term relationship, I wouldn't want to be with someone I'd feel embarrassed to be seen with... embarrassed to introduce to others... or simply someone who makes me feel uncomfortable.

If you enjoy your time with each other, terrific!

I'd think twice about taking the relationship further (IMO).

musicfreak●Paradise City, British Columbia Canada

Sep 26, 2011●896 Comments

@Daniel She's not very classy!

You want someone better than that!

HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA

Sep 26, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments

No, I will never give up my principles for anyone. Either I find the woman, or I'm single for the rest of my life.

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