is this normal ??
I had been with a guy for almost three years and everything was perfect.Perfect in a sense that we never had any rough moments.He's my best friend, my partner in crime, my loving boyfriend rolled into one... Should there be a problem, it was been discussed all through out and settle whatever small indifferences we had. We spent almost our time together(we live on the same building in the school)and work in the same department,ate together,doin stuff altogether as in we stuck up like being glued together.. And for almost three years of having each other...He just completely gave me up for some unknown reason.I never heard of him since he went back home to AUs... and no matter how I tried to connect to him,all messages (sms, calls, emails, chats)was blatantly ignored.Now after a year,I thought I can go one with my life that I let everyone know I am not affected at all as if nothing happens but in my hearts of heart, I still care for him that I was having a hard time moving on .That still in my heart, I still hope he will get in touch with me. That when I missed him, I can't help not to cry ... I still long for him.
Is this normal???
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be happy that you are free,without this bad man!
let him find a woman who is similar to him-he deserves on it:)
Or went back to an old girlfriend.
Nonetheless, you should move on and find a new
partner. Best of luck.
I don't understand you..
'went back to an old girfriend'???
and left present girfriend like this???without any word of explanation?
is that an honest way to behave between people?
I think you are too tolerant...
I wouldn't be your girlfriend..nether present...or an old one
People can be rough on us... This is part of the reason for having a network of friends. Even in marriage, I don't think it's smart to put all your emotional energy into a single relationship.
Sorry for your loss... It will get better... a little better each day.
Be open to finding your next great friend! Good luck
just hang in there
You never forget someone you really love......a part of them always stays with you......you will probably think of him even into your older age........allow yourself only a small part of you to cherish the time that you were together this would be healthy but don't let it consume you because this will deny you of any possibility of finding future happiness for yourself......
I remember this saying I read a long time ago......If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you its meant to be, if not they were never yours........
Hey take care.......
Thank you for all the nice words and advices. LOl makes me feel ashamed why I let myself felt so miserable when I know I don't deserve it. I am a jolly person by nature haha but at times it strikes me like I was being crushed and pinned down that i don't know how to get over it and just let myself cry( falling in love is my waterloo) sounds crazy but its true.
Anyways, may I just concentrate myself to work and do everything to keep myself busy.
Thanks GUys!!!!!
u'r right. thanks for the thought. it wasnt easy to forget when there so much good memories but I know i really need to move on no matter how hard it is.
cheers!!1
Anyway, Lauren, I understand your feeling. He is nice and then when back home to his home place then he disappeared. Okay, welcome to the "why men disappear" club!
I told you. If he went back and didn't give any news since then, forget about him. Move on. It means he is not that into you. Really. This is bitter fact but it will turned sweet when you move on your life. You deserve another good man coz you are a good one.
I'm sorry for the bad experience, dear. Wish you good luck! {smile}
Smile!
Summer
Got alot of heartaches lately.And not good to dwell so much lol.
You are beautiful inside and out. I hope you can get over him, so you can be with me.
;)
Bless you, and keep your head up, your time is coming!
Anthony
Go for it!