Novita

Novita

Nov 2011

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Why you did this to me?

Last July, you said I'm sorry if we can't married. With cold face you leave me. I cried for 3 days

and you don't care.
But you came back to my life and act like nothing happened. You still said that you love me. But you let me move on with my life and meet new guys.
Last time you called me, you said we only friend now. But when i said I met new friends, why you act like you're jealous.
What do you want from me? Don't make me confuse. You still watching everything that I do. You still watch me here.
You know, you really broken my heart. We suppose to get married at my birthday 11-11-11 next Friday. So, please don't back to me again and played with my heart. Enough. I deserve to get my own happiness now.
So, I hope you read this. I'm sorry, GOOD BYE.

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lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments

Aww Novita, sorry to hear that

Looks like we're on the same boat

Be strong

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ lachicabonita : Thank you. Still struggle with the pain, even I met a new guy now. But when I remember it and see the wedding gown that I made, I still cried. Its very hard.

lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments

Put the wedding gown and other things reminded you of your past relationship away from your sight

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

Yes, i will do that. I will donate the things that remain me to him. Still search new place to stay. Cause in my apartment now full with his memories.

cytrynka●clinton twp, Michigan USA

Nov 6, 2011●16 Blogs●140 Comments

Nobody is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry.....

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ Cytrynka : Thank you. I just try to be stronger now.

bsooner●Chattanooga, Tennessee USA

Nov 6, 2011●595 Comments

It's a control thing. Both men and woman do this. If you let it bother you and let them control you, they will continue to do it. Don't allow it to happen! Move on.

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ bsooner : in asia its not often to happen. Only in some case. But he is British man. And he think its easy thing. Yes, I already move on, but he keep calling me like nothing happen. That's the problem. But i will continue with my own life now. Thank you.

bsooner●Chattanooga, Tennessee USA

Nov 6, 2011●595 Comments

Hi Novita, this is the second blog tonight talking about a controlling ex or current bf and both were from asia, so I wasn't sure if it was a common thing. I know it is not your nature to be mean, but just ignore him if he is going to be this way to you. You don't need this in your life. Good luck to you!

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 6, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ bsooner : The fact is, I honor married. I'm not play a game. But he is British man and he don't care. But, now I move on. I'm DONE with him. I have another life now. Thank you for your comment.

dreamgirl246●xiamen, Fujian China

Nov 7, 2011●4 Blogs●25 Comments

Novita, i can understand ur feeling right now, i know it would be very hard for u to forget about him first, but life keeps goin' on, when u feel wanna cry, cry loudly, and after it, never ever contacting with him, let men beg ur luv, good luck~

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ dreamgirl246 : I'm done cried for him. Even he come back, it will never be the same again. I never contact with him anymore, he's the one who keep calling me. And said he still love me. But I don't. Thank you dreamgirl.

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 7, 2011●1,803 Comments

Novita, regarding your last comment. I think you are right that usually there is no way back in such situations. You know, it's funny that when I had suffered for some man, he came back when I had overcome him.
Then I asked myself: Here he is, you cried for him, now why don't you take him back? And no I never felt like taking them back. Not that I was playing proud, just things in me had broken.

You will be fine!

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ Jana28 : yes, its never be the same. He left me since July, even he keep calling me, I don't have love for him in my heart again. I'm done with him. He broke my heart, my dream, also broke my mom heart. Beside that, I have someone who need me more then him now. I deserve to be happy again. Thank you Jana.

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 7, 2011●1,803 Comments

Give all your attention to your new love and forget the one who has hurt you! If his calls disturb you, find a way to stop them.
All the best!

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ Jana28 : yes, I give my love to my new one. He's the one who always beside me when I'm down. Well, its difficult to ignore him now cause I still live in our apartment cause the contract until next month. I will move soon from here. Thank you Jana.

Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 7, 2011●1,803 Comments

Novita, so very soon you will move on both to a new flat and into a new life :) Just make sure you won't let the past enter in your new relationship! Good luck with your special man!

BTW the part NOV of your nickname means NEW in Bulgarian :) A good sign!

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ Jana28 : he left me since July. I think its enough and its time to start a new life. No more tears no more memories about him. Beside that, I take my honeymoon ticket and enjoy it now in Italy and celebrate my birthday here. Really? In Bulgaria its mean New? In Indonesia its only meaning I was born in November. Thank you Jana. You're so kind.

yurikaGignac●jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●18 Blogs●30 Comments

im so sorry that u feel this way,,i see that story,,god show u that he dont deserve u,,uts a good decision.. i wish u happy wth ur brand new love story

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 7, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ Yurika : Yes, he's really broke my heart and my family heart. But now, he's my past. I'm happy with own life and really enjoy it now. Thank you.

vickenk1●alhambra, California USA

Nov 9, 2011●16 Comments

Yep, he's insescure & not ready. Move on with your life & he has not right to get in your personal life. Don't let him bother you, just ignore him .

NovitaOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Nov 9, 2011●38 Blogs●355 Comments

@ vickenk1 : Thank you. I already put him in my past. I'm so done with him. I'm continue my life now. Thank you so much.

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