What should I do?
Last week, I met this guy from this site and he’s foreigner. I agreed to meet him and go for lunch cause we live in same area apartment but different building tower. While the lunch, another woman come and wait for to go out with him. And I know for sure that this woman like him very much from her eyes while I talked with this guy ( woman radar )
Later that day, he called me and said want to meet me again, but I felt guilty to this woman cause he already meet her family. I told him about that. And he said this woman just a friend, he tried to have connection with this woman but this woman protect her self. He also said, his happiness don’t depends on this woman, he have right to create his own happiness ( yes, its true remain he’s 57 now )
I sent the signal that I don’t want be the woman who steal a guy that other woman liked. I know how its hurt like hell. Each time he called me or send sms, I already mention her name. But he keep with his own opinion and still chasing me.
What should I do? I believe in “Karma” what goes around come back around, and I told him too about that. I don’t want to hurt anybody. I don’t want to be rude too to this guy cause I concern about his health too, he’s has a high blood pressure and do treatment too while in here. I don’t know how to do now, how to reject him without hurt him. Any suggestion for me?
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@Roofus, yes I'm 31. And I just looking for friendship. Obviously wrote that in my profile. I will tell him that I just can be a friend with him. Thank you Roofus.
I told him several time Shay, a whole week since he said that he like me. Considered with what you said, like him, well Shay, his age same with my dad, so if I like him maybe its like daughter to father. The one thing that made me concern is his health. He has high blood pressure and he's injured while he's in here. So if I find a stranger in my country and he's injured I don't want make that people more suffer.
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Im just saying. lol.
I still try to end this soon. I don't have any relationship with him. I just try to solve this with clear mind and think for the both side, my side and his side. And lucky me, most the person who gave me advices are men. Just think about my self if I was in other people country and have the same situation, I will get really hurt.
Robrt, you always get rejected??? But you're the one who reject me
It's
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And tell him
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"I don’t want to be rude too to this guy cause I concern about his health too, he’s has a high blood pressure and do treatment too while in here."
Are you nurse or what?
And finally I can`t understand do you like this man but want to reject him because of the other woman or you don`t like him?
No, I'm not a nurse. I knew he was sick and got an injured cause while we lunch he took some medicine, and I gave a little help for his injured.
No, he's like my dad for me. He chasing me and I reject him several time with the soft way but he still come back. I already told him several time that woman who waited for him when I was lunch with him really like him very much. And I don't want to be the other woman.
Actually he talked more then me, but the last thing that I remember is he said he feel the connection between me and him more than with this woman. He liked me cause I'm not introvert or gave a boundaries when talk with him.
And I have interest with his profession as healer/counselor also a writer.
Thank you Summer, I will finish this issue as soon as possible