Marshmallowgirl Blog Comments (220)

Smitten

Aloha agent 007 Robrt
Are you kidding me, of course i know that

Smitten

shay
oh no... such a shame :(
it's really nice to be able to connect and smile to others, specially here in Jakarta -even we can show our faces to males- people don't really connect with each other.
no smiles, no hello morning to strangers, cold... everyone's busy with their phones

Smitten

hahahaha yeah, thought of that Lachi
but alas, am afterall smitten, he's just so cute

RE: Personal Quality

firas, no worries... methinks me had slightly too many beers that me cant remember which blogs either his or mine that who called whose city what

RE: Personal Quality

hahaha yeah, kinda funny here that we can't delete the post once it's been up.
anyways, thanks for the compliment
trust me, a lot of insecurities and too much thinking behind what you've seen

RE: Personal Quality

aloha in
yeah, at least having the same level of thinking as mine or slightly better

btw, i believe people can change, only if they're willing to coz it takes a lot of efforts and leaving our comfort zone, takes a lot of courage too

RE: Personal Quality

super serious, check out my previous blogs :)

RE: Personal Quality

firas, called him that coz he once said hi jakarta to me too

RE: how to move on ?

i hope you've spent proper time of truly grieving.... let all your tears out.

hope this is informative enough:


would suggest not trying too fast or too hard to move on when you're not ready or have gone through the stages.

just take your time.

but it's very important for you to have friends surrounding you who could take you out or even just to speak to you on the phone each time you're thinking too much.

we're here for you

RE: Personal Quality

hi buffalo

been trying to come up with a witty answer but your questions are indeed overwhelming and rather hard to answer

i do at times consider that i know more than some people especially when it comes to the things i know i'm more experienced and have more knowledge.
but also learned overtime that i've to be humble, respect others' opinion and be a better listener.

i admire people who are smarter and more experienced than i am.

does this something i consider when choosing a partner, yes definitely.
could never settle with somebody who's not up to par, both intellectually and spiritually.

RE: what can you say?

Hi Ranji,
Only you who could understand the pain, just take your time and just like Saskia said forgive and forget.
Life is too beautiful and the world will still keep going, let's not get stucked in just a 'bump' among your yet coming adventure.
You deserve the best
Hang in there, take comfort with the people you love

RE: the beard a mans pride

me thinks you look hot either ways

RE: Why do we do it?

i just love the buzz and helps me to relax after a stressful day at work
would be at best to get buzzed with bestfriends
good time, good laugh, good company

All the good guys are taken

@wanaa

Must say that you might have been missing my point
All I was saying is that all the (good) guys that I want are either married or in a relationship. While all that's left are (single) guys who I found hard to relate to or to have the sparks with, and when I found one who I can relate and having the sparks - they're usually married or have a gf.

All the good guys are taken

daytura

I'm well aware of that what I was saying is actually all the good guys that I want are taken. Note the 'I want' part, so no pun intended.
Me too prefer to be by myself rather than being with someone that's not up to par, we deserve only the best.

RE: What do u think is ...

trust & commitment

All the good guys are taken

weeping, see... am too late once again, you're taken tsk...

All the good guys are taken

Hi Shay
Yeah, shall never give up and thanks to friends like you

All the good guys are taken

oie there lonelyboy, well aren't we a match made in heaven

All the good guys are taken

Girls... am sure he's not talking about us

All the good guys are taken

thanks lazly and lachi
yeah, me shall keep searching for mr. big ahemm i meant mr. right

All the good guys are taken

yeah too bad
thanks though
hope all is well with you?
how's the blogging world lately

RE: Western vs Asian Theory

Summer

Me thinks all men are the same.
No pun intended guys, but I was speaking in the sense that he can be either westerner or even Indonesian, regardless, when his intention is only for flings... then obviously that's just pretty much what he's looking for.

Either we play into their game or we can determine our own

RE: Friday the 13th

oh man.... am flying back on the 13th as well to big durian, now that you mentioned tis friday the 13th

my grandparents said not to clean the house at night bcoz it could mean you're wipping all your fortune away.
another funny one, not to cut your nails at night, it could mean shorter age for the folks

safe flight, regardless!

RE: Happy easter all

happy easter!

RE: Your Future Told. Your Questions Answered.

romeo oh romeo where's my romeo oh wise one

RE: athiesm

i like this guy: alain de botton

RE: Wondering

welcome to the crazy world of blogs
congrats on finding your lady

Jakarta Today

lachi
thanks for keeping me in mind!

the book launch went perfect, more than a hundred came and i have a happy author leaving the store

all iz well today in PP and jakarta

how's your saturday night goin?

RE: what makes you happy in this life ?

tis' only human nature for always wanting something more and better. i suppose the things that would make people so happy will have to start from their basic needs: food, clothes and shelter. next is the feeling of being accepted and connected with others: family, friends and the society.

the next thing would be is their personal growth of finding the time to explore what they really want, how to get them and make as reality not just as dreams.

with all the happenings in life sometimes we hardly find the time to do so and truly understand our core and inner-self while life keeps going on with or without our consent.

as the saying goes: Carpe diem quam minimum credula postero